Is there any good men out there after 30??
2007-10-22 18:37:18 · 9 answers · asked by Time4Tivo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The same way you attract a man before 30 without kids. For being who you are! And for accepting the fact that a divorce and your children are a part of who you are.
These are not necessarily deal breaking traits. If you display and demonstrate the certain traits that a man finds desirable, then it doesn't really matter how old you are and how many children you have.
What are these 'certain trai\ts' from a man's perspective?
The nurturing trait
The sensual trait
The compassionate trait
The culinary trait
The romantic trait
The trait of being reasonable, being fun, and being worthwhile company. :)
2007-10-22 18:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by raffy_09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you today? First let me say that I admire you! Many men do not take responsibility for their children and show recognition for them or admiration! So that for me is already attractive! I think if you posses a great personality, it should not be hard. Many married people have children, many divorced people have children, it is the 21 century! I would def. date someone with children. I feel as though men and women that have been through marriage and divorce and children have more respect and are more mature! So don't worry someone will def be interested in you, just wait you will find someone who loves you and honors you and respects you! Just be patient it will happen! Maybe it's me:) LoL....Good Luck!
2016-03-13 05:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots - as for attract you have to socialize with "right" circle of people. Does you child play sports? attend sports, volunteer, get involved in your community and I am sure you will meet the right man. What I find is women who want to attract the "right" man usually look in the wronge places and focus on "looks" too much and not enough on personality.
2007-10-22 18:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by ensoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have TOO high expectations either.
The thing is...a lot of times men in their 30-50's are still going for girls in their 20's. It will be hard but don't give up.
Good luck!
2007-10-22 18:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by KayV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are LOTS of good men out there. However, since you have children, you need to concentrate on being a MOM, and put your lovelife on the backburner til your kids are 18. They've been through enough...
2007-10-23 02:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
30 is not old at all... and a lot of men do not mind a woman who they fall in love with who has kids... I think you will definitely find someone special for you and your children. I wish you the best of luck and dont even worry about it, love finds you when you least expect it.
2007-10-22 18:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u might consider of using a taken one. cos nothing good is left unattended long. so if a man is after 30 and single - beware, nobody wanted him cos he is crappy
2007-10-22 18:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but he will have been around the block too!
2007-10-22 18:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by Suddenly Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few, and to attract them... just be you.
2007-10-22 18:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to???
2007-10-22 19:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋