I am 19 right now and in college and I think I am going to wait tell im like 80 or really old to have sex and kiss a girl for the first time. First of all I am really shy never had a girlfriend or a friend that was girl since I was like 5. I am way past ready to have sex and all, but I dont think I want to deal with all the drama of a girlfriend and all the other issues like babys( never want a baby ever in my life), diseases and emotions. So I think it is a good idea to just wait tell im like 80 and almost dead just buy a hooker and do it and not worry about it. It sounds like a plan to me what do you think?
2007-10-22 18:09:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im didnt say I was never gonna do it not missing out if I am gonna do it when I am 80
2007-10-22 18:14:32 · update #1
uh ya never had a girlfriend if you dont read and dont want one, but I dont have those pussy feelings of love like many guys do so ya
2007-10-22 18:25:47 · update #2
alright lets clear this up no girlfriend no marriage ever
2007-10-22 18:26:33 · update #3
At age 80 you won't be able to get up.
You say no girlfriend ever? Then get a boyfriend.
2007-10-22 18:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it is a good idea to wait until you are 80 to have sex. Even though medical science has created drugs for ed, they are now discovering there might be side effects. At 80 years old, I doubt if you would be able to be sexually active if you have not tried it by then. You can always take precautions against pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. As far as emotions, anyone you deal with in life whether it be male or female, you will likely encounter emotions. That is life. I do not think you can escape this. What I would suggest is that you should take your time to make sure that when you do have sex with a girl, it is someone whom you really care about. It can be a beautiful experience with the right person. I think you are right to wait until you are emotionally ready for sex yourself.
2007-10-22 18:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is generally pretty normal for a guy of 19 not to want to have any babies. I once worked for a very educated man who had a theory that most guys don't want to think about babies or families until they're around 35 - and then they get a nesting instinct.
Whether or not he was right, I do know that its normal to think you never want kids when you're 19.
Its also normal at your age not to be particularly interested in having the "drama" of a girlfriend.
There are a lot of people your age who have no interest in just dating for the sake of dating. They're content to live their life without having a relationship. What often happens is that someone eventually meets someone they find really special, and that's when - all of a sudden - they want her for their girlfriend.
You aren't ready for a girlfriend, so - for now - sure, plan to wait until you're 80 and hire someone before you die.
In the meantime, one of these months or years you'll probably run into a girl you find really, really, nice and attractive - and you'll forget your plan to wait until you're 80.
2007-10-22 18:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA, HA....this sounds more like something in a movie. You need to learn how not to be shy by just being yourself. Don't worry about what people think of you or if people are watching you. Relax. Give yourself affirmations like, "I am not going to be shy anymore." Who cares what other people think. Do your studies in school, get a good job, and someone might come along or maybe not in that order. Be patient. No hurry to rush into having sex with a girl....get married first! Don't be like all the other guys. Be a one of a kind, kind of guy. Nothing wrong with waiting, no matter how old you are, but not at 80! So don't rush.
When you have found the right one in like 5 years or so, you will look back and laugh about what you have said here. Just make sure you know this person for 2-3 years. Study, job, family. Or, if you have good morals, you would be thinking like this. God, wife, family.
Consider reading "10 Stupid Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Lives." by Dr. Laura Schlesinger
2007-10-22 18:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes there is drama in relationships and risk and all that but it is the most amazing thing to be in love with your best friend. I think you should only have sex with someone you trust 100% and only after you truly know them and love them. Having a relationship has so many rewards. There will always be drama etc. but that is what makes you grow and build your trust. The times I have enjoyed with my husband, even just cuddling or being in the same room are so much more important to me and last so much longer than the fighting and/or disagreements. I wouldn't worry about sex and kissing yet I would just try to be friends with a girl and see where it goes from there. Just don't be pushy or stalk them or anything. Just relax and remember that you only live once. Everything else will fall into place. Good luck
2007-10-22 18:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Aimee's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a year or two, you are going to want to kiss a girl. You will eventually want to have sex for the first time so get a good book about sex, love and intimacy and educate yourself about it. A girlfriend is worth all the 'drama' if you care deeply about her and she feels that way about you. If you never want to have children, that's something that might change too.
You're awfully young. Just enjoy yourself and be very very careful if you ever do have sex. Use a condom!
2007-10-22 19:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being antisexual can really free up your time, but it seems like you do not really want to make that decision. Wait and see what comes your way, do not avoid relationships just because you do not want to deal with it. If you can support yourself financially and have a more successful career as a single, then live life antisexually, it may be more rewarding for you. It does work for some people, but few make the decision so early in life.
2016-04-09 23:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's an old saying and it goes like this, " If you don't use it, you loose it" and by the time your eighty you would of definitely lost the use of it by then. Sure relationships can be a roller coaster ride, but it molds the person you become by dealing with all the issue put before you.
2007-10-22 18:16:15 · answer #8 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you buy a hooker you will have diseases and emotional problems.
wait until you are married, and 80 wow thats too old. Do whats comfortable for you
2007-10-22 18:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by troop there it is 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
80?! for sure you wont make it.. you will change ur mind....
Plus what if you are dating this woman that want to have kids with you and is married with you?.. so that mean u wait til 80 year old? SO TOTAL WASTE your life....
2007-10-22 18:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋