this guy, hot, nice, smart, and funny. how do i ask him out?
2007-10-22 18:17:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like him alot just ask him out even if it's just going out as friends and see what happens from there. Don't be afraid of rejection. Good Luck.
2007-10-22 18:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those old cliche questions that, when you really get down to it, have only one answer: simply ask. Just work up some confidence, put yourself out there, and try to sound as composed as possible. Chances are, it will pay off.
If it helps, think of something short and easy to say to start the conversation. Love is one thing in life you can't begin to understand until you've really put yourself out there and let things happen instead of controlling all aspects of your life. Be adventurous, do something crazy, you only live once - make it worthwhile.
All the cheesy - ness aside; guys think its hot if the girl asks them out sometimes too ;)
2007-10-22 18:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you wait and let him ask you out? You're too eager. There are 'stages' girls/guys go thru in being attracted to each other. You are a stage or two ahead of him. Caution: be patient and let him move at his own pace. Men/guys tend to become passive when a girl/woman gives more to the relationship. Slow down, don't move too fast and 'jump tha gun.' If you're too aggressive, he'll pull away and become disinterested.
2007-10-22 19:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Traditionally, woman doesn't have a chance to express her feelings to a guy specially in terms of love. the first to propose is always the guy. But now we are living in contemporary world in which men and women are equal. So why don't you open up yourself to your guy. you don't know his true feeling for you. You can only know it if you will try to open yourself. Don't go back anymore to the tradition but look at the future. Try this, befriend first to him, then a week or a month later, open to him your true feelings. You can know only that he has a feeling for you if you will open up yourself. But don't force yourself to be loved by him. If he doesn't have any feelings for you don't be worried, if there is much better.Remember, we are now living in a world of equality. To be ashamed is useless what is useful is trust.
2007-10-22 18:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by sulpicio P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can just ask him out for something informal, not like a date and that will be a step toward getting over your shyness. Try to do things that make you feel better about yourself and that can help with the shyness, like asking this boy out for a start.
2007-10-22 18:21:29 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm its hard i guess if he notices you alot than u can just ask him out or say something like that asking him 2 go to the mall or something like that. hope it helps
2007-10-22 18:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Unknown... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very simple open your mouth and ask him out, theres a old saying that goes " you dont know how you look, till you get your picture took" Think about it, what have you got to lose, he will either say yes or no. So......... go get your picture took!
2007-10-22 18:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by btmlsswatertrough 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance life would be boring if you didnt take a chance go up to him after class or after school. and say " i was wondering if you would like to catch a movie on saturday."
2007-10-22 18:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some guy thinks that when girls ask out guys its really brave and sexy....try to get his attention by finding out what he likes and hag out with and talk with him but don't try to be so obsess with him....then when he doesn't know it ask him out....bye
2007-10-22 18:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by Jetblack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can start by finding out what his's interest are the go from their
2007-10-22 18:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by william R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋