Girls, have you ever fallen for a guy you didn't initially like?

Question

could be you hated him or were just friends, then start liking him gradually or suddenly. what changed? how'd you fall for him?

Answer 1

Most of the time first opinions are the best ones. Although a few times I've changed my mind down the road and wound up sorry. If someone says, "You've got to get to know him (her)" my answer now is, :"No. I don't." I really don't need to work that hard.

Answer 2

I am married to a guy I initially did not like at all. We were doing our MBA and he was senior by a year. He would keep dropping into my room (which I shared with another girl) as he was a good friend of hers. Since it is considered rude to snub a senior (U never know when u may their help with projects!), i would politely sit through those sessions, which kept increasing in frequency & duration. Gradualy I began enjoying his humor and his stories and his convesations. We became friends, started going out for casual dinners and then late night walks and then realised that we just needed to be together all the time. So here we are, with 2 kids & still goine very strong!!!

Answer 3

Yup. I didn't really hate the guy or anything, it was just that I would have never thought that I'd like him in any way. Just another guy...no big deal. But THEN.

I liked him and we went out. Bad idea. I learned that what really helps a relationship grow, develop, and endure, is that one funny little feeling you get the instant you see or meet that person. It's a theory called love-at-first-sight, and sometimes it's actually correct.

But then again, you should just go and do your own thing! Good luck :)

Answer 4

This situation is very possible! I know a lot myself included... The thing is most men and women get attracted to people who possess the same qualities as them; however, people who say that they fell inlove with someone they dont like initially are opposites. and remember opposites attract! Its possible that initially you don't like this guy because hes a introvert and you're an extrovert. but the more you spend time together you learn things that are new to you. like in this instance: spending time by urself or having talks with an intimate crowd could be nice too.

Persistence is also another key. Sometimes we become to narrow minded and not trying to work it out with someone. but it also pays to be with someone so persistent.. someone who would climb mountains for you. who knows you might be missing out on someone so special.. :)

Answer 5

I always do.
There was one I thought of as arrogant and stuck on himself. Another I couldn't stand the way he talked about music 24/7.
Yet, those guys and others, I ended up falling hard for anyway.

Answer 6

YES THERE WAS A GUY WHO USE 2 GET ON MY LAST NERVES(AND HE KNEW IT). SO I THINK HIS ARROGANCE WOULDN'T LET HIM JUST WALK AWAY BCUZ NOW I WAS A CHALLENGE BCUZ I WOULDN'T GIVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY. SO HE GOT MY NUMBER FROM A MUTUAL FRIEND AND AFTER THE SECOND WEEK WHEN I BECAME HIS FRIEND AND HE WASN'T TRYING SO HARD I FELL 4 HIM HARD(AND VICE-VERSA). IF U ARE THE ONE WHO LIKES HER I WOULD SAY BACK UP OFF HER A LITTLE. DONT BE SO OBVIOUS

Answer 7

Yea it's happening rightnow. In my situation I didnt initially like him. Then I gradually saw him for who he really was.

Its really cool how life works out

Answer 8

Yes...I actually kinda hate him at first and even say to myself that I'll make him fall for me then hurt him so badly....but it turns the other way round on the part of falling in-love and until now, we're together.....

Answer 9

yes when i was 15 i met this guy who was friends with a few other friends, i thought he was kinda gay, but then we became friends. we actually turned out to be really good friends then he asked me out, i said yes but didnt really like him just felt bad, well as life goes.....weve been married for a year and a half now!!! and i love him so freaking much!! i think just getting so close as friends and seeing what a sweet guy he was did it for me.

Answer 10

Well I saw this fat slob at a bar one time continuously pestering this cute little woman to dance. He was nice about it, but persistent. It was embarrassing, but he kept on talking to her, and asking her to dance.

About an hour later, they were making out on the dance floor. For a while there, it was painful to watch him strike out, but then it was painful to watch him get to first base with her. Wow, did he slip something in her drink? WTF?