Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

Well I'm asking a question for my best friend about her boyfriend (we're 15). Her boyfriend always flirts with this one particulliar girl. It's always the same one. When I tell him to stop it he says "I've heard it before, stop lecturing me... yeah yeah yeah... she's just a close friend" I know he could just be overly friendly but still we tell him it makes his girlfriend uncomfortable but he keeps on going at it! The girl he flirts with even told us he fondled her once (well we're only 15 so don't think of it as too graphic but ya know)! And there's always people telling me and his girlfriend (my best friend) that he flirts with them.

We know he didn't cheat yet but still I don't think it's cool, especially when we repeatedly tell him to watch himself. My friend and him want to get more serious so.

How do I make him understand once and for all!

2007-10-22 14:49:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating him for 5 months, we agreed to be exclusive, as I always have a feeling that he is keeping his options open, I asked to break up 2 weeks ago, he stopped me and talked about changing job to move in with me. He looked so serious that I didnt leave him cos I really like him a lot.
Today I found his account on a dating website, so I broke in his account(he has the same password as his labtop's log in password which he told me), and I found out he has set up a meeting with a girl for tomo.
I dont like doing things like this, is my behavior bad?
He has been seriously looking for a job in my area and talked about moving in December, why is he still meeting others?

2007-10-22 14:49:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If you're showing all, don't complain if a crowd window shops. You don't have the right to chose who looks and who doesn't.

If you make yourself into an object, people view and treat you as such.

What do you think?

2007-10-22 14:48:21 · 14 answers · asked by whuz007 3 in Singles & Dating

Last year I started chatting with guy from louisiana. He was in the middle of a divorce and I was just bored..we talked about everything and were close for a while just chatting..we never made plans to meet..eventually we would just talk on the phone..
Later he became busy and so did I. He eventually started a relationship on the phone and online with some girl in Indonesia, which was great cause he was starting to annoy me..needless to say there were no more mutual feelings of any sort..I ignored all his emails for about 7 months.

2 weeks ago I get nonstop phone calls to my cell which is horrible..and he texted me about 10 times..I still ignored it. I finally called back when he texted my home address and threatened to come over if I didnt meet him...he has a connecting flight from CA to go see this woman in Indonesia..he will be back on the 31st..I tld him I'd meet but now I definitely have decided NO WAY!! I sent him a message that i am busy and sick and tired of this crap..

2007-10-22 14:47:34 · 15 answers · asked by contessa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating him for 5 months, we agreed to be exclusive, as I always have a feeling that he is keeping his options open, I asked to break up 2 weeks ago, he stopped me and talked about changing job to move in with me. He looked so serious that I didnt leave him cos I really like him a lot.
Today I found his account on a dating website, so I broke in his account(he has the same password as his labtop's log in password which he told me), and I found out he has set up a meeting with a girl for tomo.
I dont like doing things like this, is my behavior bad?
He has been seriously looking for a job in my area and talked about moving in December, why is he still meeting others?

2007-10-22 14:47:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 19 and still living at home with my parents. They are very strict and insist on punishing me by spanking me when I break one of their rules.

2007-10-22 14:46:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

there is this guy who i have know for a while and i think to him we are just friends but i want to know how i can do this (im in mi

2007-10-22 14:44:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

by nature we are not meant to be monagomous.
biologically, women are meant to breed with more than one man. just in case a man hands now a genetic illness to the child...to prevent this from happening to the next child a NEW male partner would decrease the chances.

men claim they cannot be monotamous because they need multiple partners to spread their seeds.
women cant be either due to the reason i have stated above.

2007-10-22 14:42:44 · 11 answers · asked by Hi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a very dear friend, of 18 years, who is very deep into drugs. He smokes weed several times a day, takes shrooms, drinks a lot..He has done a lot worse in the past, but he "says" he doesn't do that stuff anymore. I absolutely love him to death. we have tried to talk about it several times and he says "I love weed and I am not going to quit! " then he turns around and tells me that I am the best friend he has. Sometimes I am able to "guilt" him into not doing things. I really want to help him, but I am not sure how. I only want the best for him. i want him to have a really good life and not live in a fog all the time. He wants to date me and I tell him that I can't because we are on different pages as far as drugs and the like. I do love him and actually would be very into us being together, but I feel a much stronger need to help him. For some reason I feel like I am supposed to help him--it's in my gut. I just don't know how or what to say. We are almost 30 now???

2007-10-22 14:41:21 · 27 answers · asked by pinkdog 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I have had plenty of intimacy in the past but lately she seems to not want to even think about any type of physichal intimacy. She told me she didn't want to have sex because she fears becoming pregnant, and I respect that. But there are plenty we can do without getting her pregnant but she doesn't seem to want to do anything. She's not cheating on me, and she has told me time and time again that she is fine with having physichal contact as long as it's not sex. But, she keeps avoiding it and always has an excuse. I wont leave her because I love her to death, but do you have any ideas to help me through this? Intimate physichal contact is important to me in our relationship and this rejection has got me very depressed.

2007-10-22 14:37:24 · 6 answers · asked by Jimmy Lee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 14:34:29 · 15 answers · asked by ThisDude 2 in Family

2007-10-22 14:32:31 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everybody, I really need help. I am starting my Xmas present shopping early and I need help. I have no idea what to get for my 17 year old brother. Any ideas would be GREATLY appreciated!!

2007-10-22 14:32:02 · 6 answers · asked by Boo 3 in Family

The back end of the car hydroplayened and I couldn't gain control again. then it went off the road(where it was a drop off) and bounced and fliped around and bounced again and hit a tree. The car isen't all that bad just the passenger door and part of the front. I thought it was going to be a whole lot worse. I called my mom and she started screaming at me about how stupid I am and how I can't drive in the rain. Luckly my dad drove by about a min after it happened and got out and helped me. When my mom got there I was already crying and really shaken up but she didn't care she treated me like I was 2 and started screaming at me infront of everyone. When we got home my dad was telling me its ok and stuff and my mom was screaming about how I tried to kill someone because I hate my life and about how if I wasen't speeding it wouldn't of happened.She blames everything on thinking that i am suidical and depressed if you knew me you would know I am probably the fartherest thing from it. HELP

2007-10-22 14:31:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so i have a friend that is in a very abusive relationship. he was raised to never hit a women and also raised in a very abusive environment. through out his life he never made many friends, the ones he made often backstabbed him. now he is married to a wife that constantly hits him, varies from hands to actual objects. in their 5 year marriage he had to go to the hospital to get 2 stitches, he has marks all over his body. when I asked him about this he says that he deserves it and that he upset his wife. he always tries to change, which im not sure what he changes cause I dont see any reason at all why she hits him. he randomly calls her from work telling her he loves her, he buys her flowers randomly, he gets her pretty good gifts and makes sure she gets the best. she doesnt work just hangs out with her friends and is home. he also cooks and cleans. he is afraid that no one else will love him, when i talk to her she also says she loves him but that he is stupid. what am i to do?

2007-10-22 14:31:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 14:26:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have to say yes? She lives an hour from me and we do not see each other than 2-3 times per year at family occasions. We rarely even talk or email. I don't care for her immediate family either and would not look forward to dealing with them. Can I let her know I just don't think we are that in touch or that I don't have the money (which is true)? Help!

2007-10-22 14:24:56 · 18 answers · asked by reb726 1 in Weddings

A guy likes me and I show the signs that I like him too. It's been 3 (almost 4) months since we did that. I'm athletic, curvy, and pretty. Why is he taking so long?? I thought it was the girls who were like that. I'm pretty sure that he likes me because I gave him notes and he would reply and his friends say that he likes me.

2007-10-22 14:24:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know this girl and I like her so much! But she’s only 14 and I'm 18 (I will 19 in May) I've decided to let her go and not to pursue a relationship, even though I like her a lot and shes pretty mature for her age. I like her more than I've ever liked anyone, she fascinates me. She’s just incredible.... Do you think I'm doing the right thing by letting her go?

Sometimes love sucks... if she was only a little older.... I hope I'm doing the right thing and I hope that I wont end of regreting this for a long time.

2007-10-22 14:24:03 · 20 answers · asked by John 4 in Singles & Dating

I like 1 of the hottest guys in my school & I look good for him especially, every day, but he never notices me until this 1 day

[he was talking too much w/ friends & the teacher had him removed from his seat. now he sits next to me.

I was in a rush so I just forced out a "hi" and he seem surpriced, he gave me ackward "hi" back and shot me the do-i-know-you look and start to laugh really hard??

Later into the lesson he started to pull my hair with all his strenght really hard I was shocked and I started to cry.

he did that a couple times until the teacher got fed up and send him back to his old seat with his friends.....

so...he did that to get back to his buddies., is that understandable? and so... then, am I now more aproachable to him?

How do I stand a chance against all the blond girls who are totally throwing themselves at him?

2007-10-22 14:23:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy who i really like, but he has a gf (who he never talks to). don't get me wrong, im not the type of girl to steal someone else's guy but it always seems like he flirts with me.

1) whenever he makes jokes he always looks at me
2) he calls me Danielle even though he knows my real name
3) he always plays with my locker when we're at them at the same time
4) when i say something wrong he makes fun of me (jokingly)
5) in history, we had to switch and correct each other's paper. when we're done we're supposed to give it to someone else to correct. he spent the whole class on mine doodling all over it.
6) today he hardly talked to me at all. i think my friend told him that i felt like he didn't like me cuz he immediately started talking to me, being obnoxious and loud, and making jokes (yet again looking at me all the time)

does he like me or is he just being a guy? please answer this, i really want to know ♥

2007-10-22 14:23:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was reading a "Dear so and so" article today and this guy had two girlfriends at least and a fiance. What are these ppl's deals?

2007-10-22 14:22:54 · 42 answers · asked by ♥Celebrity Hotline♥ (Thumbs up!) 7 in Singles & Dating

i never put the house in her name and we have no kids together. thanks

2007-10-22 14:22:13 · 14 answers · asked by Jared K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl started IMing me and telling me how much she loves me. She saw a few pictures of me on a site. My ex is on the same site so I thought it was her, playing a prank. I called my ex and she said it was not her. I even gave this girl my cell number because I thought it was my ex playing a joke. The IM's from her have intensified and now she is saying that she wants to come here this weekend to meet me. She lives in another state and said that she will call me with her flight number. Is this really my ex wanting to come back to me, or is there just some girl out there that is so desperate?

2007-10-22 14:21:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any songs that are about a person talking to their lover and the person is saying how their lover has changed for the worse. How they aren't the same person they fell in love with. Any suggestions????? Thanks in advance :)

2007-10-22 14:21:35 · 23 answers · asked by Little Lotte 3 in Singles & Dating

okay i' 14 and ina 8th grade and i keep gettin sespended 4 fighting and yelling at teachers and my mom thinks i'm hanging out with the wrong fraiend she dosn't like my bf and i can get sespended agin 3 time this year what should i do

2007-10-22 14:20:29 · 23 answers · asked by taz 1 in Family

There's a popular boy in my school. He's older than me, and I knew he wanted to be friends with me cuz he always talked to me. He looks like he's so confident you know. Once we were like the onlyones in school and we talked for like 2 hours, and he's like expressing all this stuff. Saying how he thinks he's lame. Then, he had to say "Your really, really pretty," I guess he felt like he could talk to me about stuff like that, and i like that, but then, a few days later, he's like "It sucks that I'm ugly" and I'm like "Nooo, you're really cute" I know that's what he wanted me to say. I could tell by the way he said it, and what was I supposed tosay anyways? He's deffenitely not ugly, but he isn't cute at all!! Or I don't think so... I guess I told him that cuz I really liked it that he told me I was pretty. I just don't want him to keep thinking that. Do you think lying like that is bad at all?

2007-10-22 14:20:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a bf and i love him (or atleast i think i do) how do i know if i really love him or if i just think i love him or anything like that?

2007-10-22 14:19:04 · 29 answers · asked by BeautyVal 2 in Singles & Dating

If so, how many?
Also, what can one of those girls (or any girl) do to grab your attention and be your #1 attraction?

If that makes sense. (:
Thankyooouu.

2007-10-22 14:18:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does your family have a right to know about your health taking a turn for the worse so to speak, even if you are not close? I do not need or want their pity or insincere words... so is it ok to just not tell them what the doctors have found?

2007-10-22 14:18:28 · 7 answers · asked by AzNative89 2 in Family