Last year I started chatting with guy from louisiana. He was in the middle of a divorce and I was just bored..we talked about everything and were close for a while just chatting..we never made plans to meet..eventually we would just talk on the phone..
Later he became busy and so did I. He eventually started a relationship on the phone and online with some girl in Indonesia, which was great cause he was starting to annoy me..needless to say there were no more mutual feelings of any sort..I ignored all his emails for about 7 months.
2 weeks ago I get nonstop phone calls to my cell which is horrible..and he texted me about 10 times..I still ignored it. I finally called back when he texted my home address and threatened to come over if I didnt meet him...he has a connecting flight from CA to go see this woman in Indonesia..he will be back on the 31st..I tld him I'd meet but now I definitely have decided NO WAY!! I sent him a message that i am busy and sick and tired of this crap..
2007-10-22 14:47:34 · 15 answers · asked by contessa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And stop harrassing me, that there's nothing here for him, and to just concentrate on his children and family.
I already chenged my cell number. The thing is he is so psycho right now..i am scared he will send sick sh*t to my address.. i am angry that I found the site he went to- all he did was enter my cell phone number, pay, and there was everything, my addresses since I was 18..that crazy f*ck..I had to learn the hard way- f*ck MS, never again.
2007-10-22 14:50:06 · update #1
ANd to be honest my anger comes from fear- I'm really scared...I've never felt tyhis way and I'm p*ssed off..at myself- at him..i wish his plane would cr....
(aauuughghh)
2007-10-22 14:52:46 · update #2
YEAHH I alreday emailed him that I will definitely CALL THE POLICE IF HE COMES NEAR MY FAMILY..i hope that doesn't make him more madd..
2007-10-22 14:54:49 · update #3
Tell him if he shows up u will call the cops!!!
2007-10-22 14:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by YUMMY1 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he is just playing around or was having a bad day or something. I would try to keep some of the evidence of what he has emailed or texted and warn him that if he keeps it up you will notify the police.
In the meantime I would watch your back and next time don't give out so much personal info. Good luck.
2007-10-22 21:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, that sucks! Yeah it's crazy easy to find peoples' addresses.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. The guy likes you, so the worst he would do is show up at your place. Good idea changing your number.
Still, he is acting psycho. So if he does show up, don't answer the door. Maybe threaten to call the cops on him? (I'm so against calling the cops, but crazy stalkers are a different ballgame)
Good luck! Be aware and don't let him catch you by surprise.
2007-10-22 22:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to get to a police station now and don't walk RUN!! No joke do you have any idea how many people go missing every year.If you've got this guys number and any evidence of threats or harassment you need to give it to the police.You don't know this guy and you don't know what he's capable of.
I hope all goes well
2007-10-23 00:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..first thing first when he constantly calls you do you call him back?? if you do thats your first mistake ok..when you call him back even to tell him to stop calling you..it is telling him that he has to call 20 or 30 times or email you 20 or 30 times to get communication in which he WANTS!! the best thing to do is not to call him or email him ever..if perhaps he does come to your house..in most causes they will not but if he does immediately contact the police..if you would like to if he mentions your address or what not go to the police and report it so this way it is already a known problem..
2007-10-22 22:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by ~ASHLEY~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhhh, change your cell phone #, block him off from your e-mail or my space. Talk to you friend cuz if they really are your friend, they'll be there. ask for adult advise but since you don't want to then just don't unless you gave him your address. btw, how did he get your address. call the police if you want to. But the best way is to confront him, tell everything but if he insist, tell your parent or police
Hope this help
2007-10-22 21:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you led him on... what you think he listened to months of your c r a p .... for nothing/?? guys only do that cause they want some.... you really think he just wanted to be your friend??
He's pissed... cause you wasted his time.. The worst thing you can do is not return his calls... If it comes to it, tell him your sorry you were such an a s s but you have a boyfriend now and he's gonna get real pissed if you don't stop emailing me.....
2007-10-22 21:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are reporting him to the police. This guy sounds crazy and you are going to end up on the six o clock news. Threaten him with contacting the police..if he continues...CALL THE POLICE. Change your number. DO NOT meet him at all!!!!
2007-10-22 21:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please call police! im very serious dont wait too long or will something happen because there is alot of weird people on myspace and alot of murder, rape, missing from myspace many time i have heard on the news so GET GOING to call police or be sorry?!?!?
Edit: quit ur myspace and get new user so he wont find u, new s/n, email, number, everything new!....
2007-10-22 21:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW you learned ur lesson girL !
NO more Chatting online !
Change all ur info and move to a different place if u feel scared.
2007-10-22 22:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm glad I know this now... I'm never giving out my phone number to strange people again o_O
2007-10-22 21:57:05 · answer #11 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋