Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

I dont know why. Eveeryone makes fun of me cuz im black and i love asian girls. I dont know why i do but to me they are the sexiest things on the earth!!!! omfg what is wrong with me X_x

2007-10-22 12:08:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When it comes to sterotypes, there's a bunch of them. But drama people, oh boy :)

It's hard to understand them. When it comes to body language, facial expressions, eye contact, little things like that- they're so over-dramatic it's hard to get mental notes from them if they're interested in you. I'm into this one guy, who's REALLY dramatic. It's cute though, but really tough to understand him. Any advice when it comes to this stuff?

2007-10-22 12:07:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, i met this girl and setup a date. She said she has to leave town the day after. when I texted her the day before the date she said she already left town and was in the hospital for appendix reasons and was in the hospital. She's probably back now, but the vibe is kinda skewed between us since we haven't talked or texted in 5 days. how is a guy to setup a date in this situation?

2007-10-22 12:07:38 · 9 answers · asked by 33ea 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 years old and she is 32 .She gives me compliments about different things but she dosen't look at me very much .I am not shure if she is hitting on me but I like her .
I am not shure if I should ask her out .
Thanks for your opinions .

2007-10-22 12:06:43 · 24 answers · asked by Kushtrim 1 in Singles & Dating

I am happy to do it, they've been together 7 years, they make each other happy but...they got together while he was married to my Mum so there's a bit of awkardness there, and while I'm going to support him, I'm not really sure why the whole marriage thing is necessary so would like to participate but not say anything that doesn't ring true for me. Any suggestions?

2007-10-22 12:03:52 · 3 answers · asked by bozarella007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-22 12:03:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok i went out with this guy. he was so nice and so sweet. i liked him alot. but i felt like i didnt know him well enough so i told him. we said we would go on a brake until i got to know him better. he PROMISED me that there would be no one else. and before we went out he SWORE HIS HEART that he would never hurt me. well 1 day after going on the brake he goes out with another girl. i broke down. well then we didnt talk for about 3 months. then we started again. we met up and as soon as i saw him my heart filled. we decided to go out. we kissed and something in my head started making me have doubts. i had no idea how i felt. i was sooooo confused. that was 3 weeks ago. now i relize how i feel about him. i just didnt want to get hurt again. i want him back. but now i dont know where to go from here. so where do i go from here?

2007-10-22 12:03:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am planning my wedding for summer 2009. I really like the chocolate look to it. However I dont want it to look too dark though. I found chocolate tableloths, and I was thinking of doing brown seatcovers OR white seat covers with brown ties. For the centrepieces I want to do small square yet semi-tall vases for abt 5 rust-orange roses tied with either orange or brown ribbon. For the bridesmaids i was thinking of doing brown cocktail typre dresses with rust-orange calla lillies and as for myself I will be wearing a champaigne/ivory coloured wedding gown and my bouquet will consists of 7 long stemmed large white calla lillies. My invivtations are simple in ecru coloured with calla lilies as border. I will be having a cake done by my friends mom who does this for living. I want a mocha flavour cake, with a thin chocolate spread over the entire care. This wedding is planned for 250 people.Could anyone give me their ideas..or any thoughts or changes that would be necessary? Thanks.

2007-10-22 12:02:21 · 7 answers · asked by TJ 1 in Weddings

...that are caught up in this freak show!!??
I can't believe what they do to get ratings...

I won't be watching it again.......

2007-10-22 12:01:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend & I live 4 hours apart and she does not want to be together on the Holidays & I wanted to spend the Holidays together & that isn't going to happen. She was molested by her father while growing up & tried to press charges against him & they told her that it had been too long. She is 34 now. She has dis owned her parents because of this & is breaking free of them. The mother knew & looked the other way & is still with him, She said she does not have any family & does not like the Holidays. She said she use to and she spent them alone last year. She said everyone at work is saying where they are going or what they will be doing & she said she has no family to be doing anything with. This thing with her "real"father happen in South Caroline. She lives in Texas now. I didn't think there was a time limit on something like this. She even remembers when she was in the crib and was afraid of her father and would cry for her mother not to leave the room.

2007-10-22 11:58:51 · 13 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to marry a albania guy in albania but i dont want anyone knowing in england. do i have to tell anyone in england i got married? please help

2007-10-22 11:56:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I seem to have this problem when I get into a relationship, at about the three month stage. Before that stage, I am cool as cucumber, devil may care, laid back and all. Then suddenly I get gripped by insane doubt, jealousy and paranoia. I try not to let on that it's what I'm feeling, but I'll get worried if he doesn't call, I'll constantly worry about his exes and female friends, to the point where I can't properly enjoy the relationship. What switches me into this wreck? And how do you go about feeling secure with a boyfriend?

2007-10-22 11:54:13 · 31 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

I overheard a conversation with my mom and another man on the phone my dad suspects that she is she cheating but she says she isnt i heard my mom talking to someone on the phone and she was calling him baby and says how she thinks about him everynight i also heard her talking about how she was just planning on them having a one night stand but now she cant live without him the man lives out of town in our hometown and all of a sudden she tries to find every little reason to go out of town now i look at her different i cant trust her anymore do you think i should tell my dad or let him find by for himself

2007-10-22 11:51:45 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-22 11:51:19 · 13 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i've known him for 10 months, been 2 his house two times, his been to mine once to swim, i REALLY like him, we've been 2 six flags, laser tag place, and a lock-in together(although then he had a 2 day gf), he goes 2 my church(where he plays quitar in the band and i sing),but when i first met him, he said guys should ask girls out, and i only see him 2 times a week, but mext year we'll both go 2 the same school. Also his sister says he has a crush on me since we first met and we alwsys look at each other and he luvs 2 talk 2 me. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!

2007-10-22 11:46:11 · 22 answers · asked by naomihomi24 2 in Singles & Dating

I also take care of his 4 kids. 13, 10, 9, 7. I proposed to him on his birthday because I felt waiting for him would be a loss. We talked about marriage and children a few times, and he said he doesn't want any more kids because of what the ex-wife has put him through. The more talking we did and confiding in each other, he has changed his mind and will give me one child since I am childless. He says he loves me very much and we will get married ONE DAY. Well I am 25 and one day is not good enough for me. I want to be married and a want one child. Don't you think I deserve it? I mean think about it, I have no kids and I faithfully take care of his...(He's 33)

2007-10-22 11:44:03 · 28 answers · asked by jaeda_dog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 11:40:09 · 4 answers · asked by Melissa M 1 in Weddings

I wanted to make him something to show him i love him. weve been going through some rough times lately and i think showing him that i took the time to make something for him will bring a little bit of light to our situation... im just not sure what i could do? thanks

2007-10-22 11:37:44 · 27 answers · asked by jace 1 in Singles & Dating

if you couldn't have sex with him (because he won't do it unless married) but he'd still go down and do shiit like that (keep you pleased as possible).

Also, this guy is the type that is really intelligent, kind, caring and also very attractive/sexy and he is a weight lifter, so he's pretty much ripped. So you'd pretty much be turned on all the time.

Also, he is really successful and has A LOT of money.

So how would you feel?

2007-10-22 11:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by NoneOfYourBusiness 1 in Singles & Dating

my phone is horrible and it doesnt work. i need a new phone. but how? my mom wont budge

2007-10-22 11:35:51 · 7 answers · asked by DEVIN! 1 in Family

???

2007-10-22 11:35:31 · 7 answers · asked by Lyssa 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so I catch my 6 year old squatting with his feet on the toliet **** pushing forward his nuts to see himself take a poop. I really freaked out screamed at him and walked out. I smoked a ciggarette to calm down. and then I told him what he did was discusting and told him to get away from me. Then i felt bad and told him I was sorry i yelled at him but he did was un heard of and would not be tolerated. I told him that way the nastiest thing you could do. When he came home today I reminded him what we talked about and told him it was gross agian. Did I over react.?????????what would you have done

2007-10-22 11:34:27 · 42 answers · asked by pualla walla 1 in Family

2007-10-22 11:33:25 · 16 answers · asked by Nicola H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

really nice. But then he talks to you again and he seems to be acting sort of cocky and better than you....why is he doing that?

2007-10-22 11:33:00 · 1 answers · asked by thanks ♣ 2 in Singles & Dating

okay well theres this guy in one of my classes who i had a crush on for over like 3 months...and my friends thinks that he likes me...but i dont think he does...so i need YOUR help.Okay im going to tell you somethings what he does.well for instance today when we were both standing beside eachother hes started to lean sideways and pushing me (playfully) and i kept pushing back :D.and we kept looking at eachother. and when i push him he kicked me in the leg and i said ouch and he put his arm around my shoulder and said im sorry...but i mean that part is why i think he kinda does....but the other part why i think he dont is when i text him sometimes he dont reply... but i hear ppl ask him at schooll why dont you text me back so maybe thats just what he does. so what im asking for your helps is because i want to know if you think he likes me or not.. and what you think my next step would be to move it forward....
thanks for all your help...

2007-10-22 11:32:46 · 1 answers · asked by just me 1 in Singles & Dating

that she likes me
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her. oh ya were 18 shes 3 months older but i dont think she knows that

2007-10-22 11:30:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a great guy that is everything i ever wanted & now my boyfriend decides he wants me back..i have financially & emotionally carried this man the entire relationship..hes been afraid to committ & has called off our wedding about 10 times..he still lives with his parents & is afraid of telling his family he loves me because they dont approve of me..i have an 18 yr old daughter & the family thinks he can do better becuz of it..i love him to death & missed him so much..i know it would be a big mistake to take him back but never the less im tempted..im confused becuz i already have a wonderful man by my side & now im faced with this..please give me ur opinion & play out the scenarios for me..

2007-10-22 11:28:07 · 19 answers · asked by resolucion 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My Mom Friend discoverd that her husbend was cheating on her with his brother wife , but she dont want to be divorced she fought with him with her brother in law wife but she didnt want all the family know so her husben stay as he is in front of his family but what a good lesson to teach him????

2007-10-22 11:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This what this guy does and i like him but i idk if he likes me this is what he does in class

1) Makes fun of me
2)says others boys like me
3) always looking @ mi and smiling
4) sits right next to me when he can

2007-10-22 11:27:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends always depend on me for there happiness and it kind of bugs me because it feels like they are trying to get my energy like they basically mirror my image.

2007-10-22 11:24:54 · 12 answers · asked by DVD 3 in Other - Family & Relationships