if you couldn't have sex with him (because he won't do it unless married) but he'd still go down and do shiit like that (keep you pleased as possible).
Also, this guy is the type that is really intelligent, kind, caring and also very attractive/sexy and he is a weight lifter, so he's pretty much ripped. So you'd pretty much be turned on all the time.
Also, he is really successful and has A LOT of money.
So how would you feel?
2007-10-22 11:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by NoneOfYourBusiness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we'll say for the sake of it, that he looks like this
http://lifeoguyy.deviantart.com/art/Yours-Truly-57141963
2007-10-22 11:37:23 · update #1
Until the wedding in 6 weeks.
2007-10-22 11:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by shipwreck 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it depends on how much you care for this person and how important sex is to you over a quality person. It's rare to find someone who is as caring, kind, etc as you say.
To me...the relationship you have with this person should matter more than the sex. Especially if he's willing to please you as much as possible without compromising what he believes. Maybe sex is just something that really means a lot to him and he doesn't want to do it until he's completely ready.
You just have to ask yourself...Is sex really worth losing someone like him?
In my experience....it's not.
2007-10-22 18:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by shoegirl928 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mention everything but how you feel for this guy. If you're sticking around 'cause of his looks and the money and not for love get out now 'cause you're just wasting your time and his. Obviously your priorities are out of whack or you wouldn't be questioning how long you should stay.
If it was important to my boyfriend to wait until marriage before having sex I would wait with him, no question about it.
2007-10-22 18:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Ersabette 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wanting to wait until he is married is a respectable thing to do. I would stay with him and marry him if i loved him. sex can wait besides the longer you wait the more the tension builds and that should make the first time much better.
2007-10-22 18:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by petloveragain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends upon what kind of life you like. Someone who would readily have sex with you and leave you the next day or somebody who is little hard to get, but will love you for the rest of your life. Make your choice, you will get the answer.
2007-10-22 18:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by i_love_a_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha...the picture is about as covering as possible...but i wll ask you this, just to make sure he isnt gay...does he get aroused when he is pleasing you and such...cause if he doesnt, then maybe he is doing what a lot of those "want to remain a virgin" types do.
and i think that if you love him and are just upset cause he wont penetrate you...then buy a vibrator and have him penetrate you with that.
2007-10-22 18:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He looks like a Melhouse without his glasses.
2007-10-22 18:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd definately respect that...I'm also waiting til I'm married to have sex.If a girl doesn't respect you enough to wait,then she's not worth your time =)
2007-10-22 19:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by still has hope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry him, then do it.
u wont have to worry about money since he's wealthy.
2007-10-22 18:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by loveithateit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋