Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

My friend moved out two years ago. He went to live in another country in South America because his mother married a man that lives ther. We always talk, and keep in touch and stuff, but I really, really, really, really miss him. I didn't think I would, and if anyone asks me, bu then he called me, and he told me he missed me. I thought I would get over it quickly, but I can't, and i really wish he would come back. He is really happy there, and has lots of friends, and that makes me happy for him, but I selfisly think he should come back. Is there anything I can do, some pshychic problem solving thing or some logical thing I can do to make him come back?

2007-10-22 13:06:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i think it is disrespectful if you are married and go to a strip club to watch a bunch of naked women dance around in circles.but what do you guys think???

2007-10-22 13:05:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 13:01:47 · 24 answers · asked by michael p 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Run down of bills

I am 22 years old
I credit card bill a little under 1,000
Student loan not exceed 20k
Car note and insurance 350 a month
Bus card of about 85 dollars a month
lunch for work

How many people have had these expenses and still was able to afford a one bed room apartment in a top city (Atlanta, Chicago, Los Angeles). I am in dying need to move out. Paying 300 in rent already with no room to save. Must do it now. Thanks for all help!

2007-10-22 12:59:32 · 10 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im going to the dance with this guy & ive been playing it cool & im afraid if i play it cool any longer he'll think im not intrested! can anyone give me little ways i can flirt without coming on TOO forward?

2007-10-22 12:58:05 · 8 answers · asked by cameron c 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 12:54:46 · 39 answers · asked by ELEN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A man named TY is 36 years old single male.While growing up TY was asked to leave home being in g@ng.TY moved to this apartment as my friend Di but they never knew eachother.After some months TY went abroad to work met my friend Di kept in touch saw eachother in social functions.TY gifts her perfume,chocolate.Di sends cards for TY birthday.TY goes to Di cousin,told on Di but refuses when Di confronted.After Di contacts TY when replying curses alot in mails,tells everything to Di cousin who in turns tells TY all of Di family secrets.TY and Di's cousins close relationship is cause for concern now.

After few years their friends meet to fix their meeting to make peace between TY and Di.TY tells on Di with her cousin again whose got audacity to verbally lash out shaking up Di friends for meeting TY friend to make peace between TY and Di.Di tells her cousin to get lost since shes not in touch with TY.Now Di wants to meet TY directly in person finally.

What do u think serious answers only

2007-10-22 12:52:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got engaged and one of the first things I want to figure out is what colors I want for the wedding. I have a few ideas but having problems coming up with accent colors.
Bold pink with yellow?
Pale green with white or cream?
Navy with sunflower yellow?
these a just a few ideas i have, but i would love to hear other ideas.
I want to try to stay away from blacks or browns..i want a summer feel to it.

thanks so much!!

2007-10-22 12:46:48 · 17 answers · asked by Hannah 2 in Weddings

Run down of bills

I credit card bill a lil under 1,000
Student loan not exceed 20k
Car note and 350 a month
Bus card of about 85 dollars a month
lunch for work

How many people have had these expenses and still was able to afford a one bed room apartment in a top city (Atlanta, Chicago, Los Angeles). I am in dying need to move out. Paying 300 in rent already with no room to save. Must do it now. Thanks for all help!

2007-10-22 12:45:58 · 4 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so there is this kid... he is a geek like me... he is into wow and guitar hero... so am I... he seems to always make an effort to talk to me and be around me... I think I could really like him... I want him to ask me to semi but I might just do it... should I give him my number and ask him to hangout and does he like me?

2007-10-22 12:43:58 · 9 answers · asked by Justicana 2 in Singles & Dating

the past 12 or so weddings that I been to no bride toss the bouquet (its degrading to females) and I also will not do so. I was wondering if anyone still throws a bouquet and if so, why?

2007-10-22 12:38:21 · 29 answers · asked by Wynter 2 in Weddings

You still have feelimgs for that person. You guys were young and now all grown up and this person comes to you say they still love you what would you do?

2007-10-22 12:36:52 · 2 answers · asked by sexykiki1739 1 in Singles & Dating

They are all beautiful and their bodies are all very different....some are skinnier, some a little thicker, some have big chests, some have wider hips etc.

I was thinking about picking the color for the dresses, for example, for example, lilac, but rather than having them all wear the same exact lilac dress that might not flatter their figures, I was thinking of picking out a dress for each girl in that exact same color. That way, they would all match and they wouldn't be uncomfortable w/ the style of their dress.

Have you ever seen something like this? Did you like it? How did it look, especially in pictures and stuff. I was thinking then maybe to make them the same...have something like a matching hair clip or jewelery that would at least make them the same.

What do you think?

2007-10-22 12:35:03 · 21 answers · asked by WhiteTiger29 2 in Weddings

Ok so heres the thing this guy is like totally awesome.!!
Hes like one of my best friends.!! My friends are all like go out with him hes so nice.!! Hes not the hottest kid around but hey Im not going to judge a book by its cover.!! He always sticks up for me and fights for my side.!! But I am afraid that if we go out and break up we wont be able to just be friends.!! What will happen has this ever happened to you.?!?!?!?!? I don't want to loose my friend.!! HELP.!!PLEASE NO NEGGITIVE.!!

2007-10-22 12:34:48 · 2 answers · asked by Awesomely Me! 1 in Singles & Dating

how do I get her to understand she can do so much better than him. She only sees him like once a week and he always makes her cry. I can't stand to see her hurt anymore HELP!!!!

2007-10-22 12:34:16 · 15 answers · asked by kbtinker78 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy friend the other night asked me to pick him up. When i got there he stood outside my car for a few minutes and he said " I want you to know even though i don't show it often but ( pause) I think that your really awesome?" He seemed like it took him alot to say it. Is he trying to tell me he likes me more than a friend or was he just being random and friendly and just was really appreciative of a ride even thought i give him rides all the time.

2007-10-22 12:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by Caroline C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 12:33:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance is Mexican and wants to do the lasso. It's just like a big Rosary that goes around both the bride and groom to symbolize the joining of the two into one.

I really wanted to have the unity candle, but it really means the same thing. I can sacrifice it if it's going to look redundant, what do you think?

2007-10-22 12:31:04 · 13 answers · asked by BlackDahlia 5 in Weddings

2007-10-22 12:30:03 · 3 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently in a relationship and this afternoon my boyfriend started asking questions about what I wanted out of our relationship. My response was, I wanted us to grow into a more serious relationship.

He was not pleased with my answer...

He brought up an earlier conversation and in that particular conversaton I said that I was not "in" love, but I indeed do love him and my feelings are growing stronger every day.

He later expressed to me that he feels he is already "there" and he is waiting on me. I told him that I never said that I did not love him, but I was not "in" love, but in time my feelings will change BUT I am not rushing it. My reasons for not rushing is because we are still a young couple, only a year, and I still feel like we are getting to know one another.

He began saying that if I did not know *now*, then... - and he never finished his sentence, so I got the assumption he felt like he was wasting his time with me. Of course, he wanted me to try and

2007-10-22 12:29:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some day's I feel real good when I'm around her and some days I feel all weird. Like today she came to my work and had lunch with me and she seemed kind of down. She said she was bored because she was home all day. Now she all happy and kissing me and sitting on my lap. It's like the feelings are going up and down. Is it just me or could there be something wrong?

2007-10-22 12:24:11 · 1 answers · asked by pramon0119 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems he met this woman while he was on agolf trip with his buddies. They were in a bar she was staring at him so he asked her to dance, bought her a drink and then he left. Next night they are at same bar ,she sits with them and he walks her home.Next morning she phones him asks where he will be that night, he tells her, they meet again,he walks her home again,goes in for a drink, another couple is there,he goes back to his hotel, she leaves next morning, to go home. She calls him several times that week to invite him to stop at her home on they way home ,she is having a party. He and another man do so. He tells me nothing went on,and says he made a big mistake, I am having a hard time getting over this betrayal and no longer trust him, what advice can you give me.

2007-10-22 12:21:11 · 23 answers · asked by gingerspice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-22 12:20:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 12:18:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend who seems as "normal" as can be, told me once that she attacked her husband after they had a huge arguement. Attacked as in punching him. She is 5'2 and weighs 125lb, her husband is 6'2 and is a pretty big guy. He has bever layed a finger on her. Well...last night she told me again that she got angry at him after an arguement and started to punch him, not in the face but on his back or wherever. She kind of laughed about it and said it has happened a few times. She says he gets her so mad that she can't control it, but then it blows over. What do you think?? In the back of my mind I couldn't help but think she needs anger management. She was never abused or hit and had a great upbringing. But I feel bad for her husband. If he was the one punching her, i'm sure it would not sit well with her or anyone for that matter. I dont think he hurts physically, but mentally and emotionally, it must start to get to him if its happened more then once. What do you think?

2007-10-22 12:18:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 12:18:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is she loveing careing etc

2007-10-22 12:17:24 · 49 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Family

2007-10-22 12:15:06 · 9 answers · asked by KGB 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey so theres this guy....hes kinda cute...and i've noticed i flirt with him. So does my friends....they say that i must like him.....I just say no its just to see if he'll ask me out.....lol as a joke.....but thats not really true...........i think i kinda like him but i have already told this SUPER CUTE guy that MIGHT like me that i liked him..and i do...But just in case should i keep flirting with guy numbero1 or keep liking guy number 2...I NEED YOUR OPINOIN what to do?!!

2007-10-22 12:10:24 · 1 answers · asked by jkbubblebuddy 1 in Singles & Dating

what good is it to maintain relationship with people who are acquaintences and who will most likely never become friends

1) they will not share anything about themselves, so they keep you at a distance
2) they only call you when they want something, but they never ask how you are, and they never care about what's going on with you..
3) you can tell that the relationship isn't going to progress any further..

I have so many relationships like this. The only time they interact with me is when they want something from me, or if I have something they want. that's it. there's no more to it than that.

so why stay in touch with these people?
what good does it do?

2007-10-22 12:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by art_flood 4 in Friends