How do you know if the fire in your relationship is fadeing?

Question

Some day's I feel real good when I'm around her and some days I feel all weird. Like today she came to my work and had lunch with me and she seemed kind of down. She said she was bored because she was home all day. Now she all happy and kissing me and sitting on my lap. It's like the feelings are going up and down. Is it just me or could there be something wrong?

Answer 1

The fire doesn't stay on all the time.

Think of it as something normal to react to, perhaps talk about, deal with and so on. It's not a reason to cut and run, unless you also have bigger problems.