Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

What type of men should I avoid when looking for a long term partner?

2007-10-22 10:50:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you had a 16 year old daughter who was strictly mates with a boy would you let them sleep at their house? My mums saying its not normal and its really bugging me!! What do you think?

2007-10-22 10:49:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now from your point of veiw, do you find us all about the same size? If so what would you say that size is?

2007-10-22 10:49:17 · 3 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

When I recently came back from vacation from another country I went to visit my boyfriend and he forced me for sex. He locked me up in a bathroom and started grabbing me and screaming at me. He told me to take off my clothes. I'm a virgin. I haven't been giving him any sex cause I'm not ready yet I don't know if he's the one yet. Luckily I ran out of the house. He followed me. I was crying. Lastnight on the phone he says that if he finds out I'm talking to other guys he will beat me.
My boyfriend is poor and is going to school. My family is rich so my boyfriend is dependant on me for everything. I work as a model/student/artist. I was gonna buy him a phone and pay the phone bill but now I'm having second thoughts. He's abusive. I love him I really want him to change. My ex boyfriend that I've known since last year July 18th me and him are now friends. He works and makes alot of money. He loves to buy me stuff and show his love. He's trying to get back with me. What should I do ?

2007-10-22 10:49:11 · 15 answers · asked by mixedcurlyfries 3 in Singles & Dating

I need help!!! I try to get my husband to notice me by wearing tigh clothing,make up,sexy sleep wear. Nothing helps girls call his phone and he will walk away from me. they ask him for money and god knows what eles they ask for. I have answered his phone and this one girl demanded I tell her who I was.I asked who are you she proudly told me she was my husbands girlfriend....what that can't be iam his wife itold her.then she told me that he had told her that his cousin(me) waas going to play a joke on her.he walked in the room took the phone away from me and walked off like nothing had happen. An hour later he returns lookes at and had the nerv to say what!! I told him that I was not going to sit with my arms crossed while he did that to me ,but I think that I might have been a little harsh on him. On the other hand the hasn't been that good to me. what advice can you all help me with????

2007-10-22 10:48:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I married my cousins ex husband. Her daughter not his, was living part time with us. She is my cousin too. since there has been on going issues where the ex would come into our home and make scenes in front of the other four kids. I told her she wasn't allowed in the house anymore. The daughter stopped coming over at all. Well last week the daughter tried to commit suicide. The ex is accusing me of being the reason even though the daughter said she just wanted her mom to quit screaming at her. Someone called child protective sevices against her and she thinks it was me. She also has the daughter believing it was me. The daughter hates me. My husband is a mess. I have had to send my kids to stay with their father, because the ex has threatened our lives. Oh did I mention she has been on drugs and we can't prove it. Help I need advice. I want to just move out and stay away from it all.

2007-10-22 10:45:38 · 11 answers · asked by Beth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

wedding cake. How bout dem apples?

2007-10-22 10:45:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i got this girl # i really like her
when should i ask her out?

2007-10-22 10:45:24 · 27 answers · asked by THING 2 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 10:44:00 · 3 answers · asked by Lala 2 in Singles & Dating

ok im 13 and i have a boyfriend whos 13 too., we love each other very much, and we want to get marry not by church but by the chapel, but i live in texas and i wanted to know if i could do this. or because if were under age are parents have to be there? or if they have to sign? but i want to do this behind my moms back. wat should i do???

2007-10-22 10:42:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm planning the sending out invitations part of my wedding and cant figure out if I need to send Save the date card, then an RSVP and then Invitations- can i skip the RSVP part just by sending out the save the date card or vice-versa??

2007-10-22 10:40:43 · 14 answers · asked by john 2 in Weddings

2007-10-22 10:40:08 · 3 answers · asked by charlie d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 10:39:00 · 30 answers · asked by farrah200049 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just had a huge lunch of some assorted pre-haloween snack sized candy and don't feel that unbuttoning my pants is a particularly safe thing to do in an office full of horny women.

2007-10-22 10:38:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How often are girls flirting when they, on a consistent daily basis in a high school class, stretch their legs toward you or touch you in some way such as on the thigh or with their foot touching your leg, or other ways like that? Thanks.

2007-10-22 10:38:32 · 26 answers · asked by James H 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever cheated on your spouse/partner because you got drunk? If so, did you confess or keep it secret or did they find out?

2007-10-22 10:37:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that I like a lot, that likes me a lot would be weird? Or make her think weird stuff? Or would you think it would be a neat idea? Because one of my friends that's a girl said it would be a good idea. And so I'm just wondering if it would be a really good idea or not? Or should I just give her the bear and be done with it without doing anything to it? Thanks in advance! : )

2007-10-22 10:31:26 · 20 answers · asked by Aaron 2 in Singles & Dating

I've moved in with my BF, we are getting married in the next few months.
His ex- wife has been asked several times not to come into our house... on four occasions now she has just walked in when she drops off the kids. (4) comes into our kitchen and walks through the house.... always when I'm not at home

Someone please..give me some suggestions on how to diffuse this constant drama!!
Why is she doing this?
How can we communicate to her that her time with the kids is her time.. we don't intrude or interfere with her household and we don't want her intruding and interfering in ours.

She won't take no for an answer.... and purposely causes problems when it comes to the kids. Help.

2007-10-22 10:31:14 · 16 answers · asked by Kaybee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that I hate when my wife in gone for a period of time! Its always hard to sleep for me :( Do you like sleeping alone?

2007-10-22 10:30:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

that she likes me
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her

2007-10-22 10:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi

Well i am sorry if this is to long and too detailed but i was hoping that someone could help me or at least offer some insight and support..... first of all let me tell you that my husband is 48 years old and has diabetes, high blood pressure and a thyroid condition.....i am only 26....well we have been together for 2 and a half years now and just got married this past june....and my he just started meds for diabetes...previously he has been pre-diabetic....and has eaten right and exercised and taken care of himself....it runs in his family so he was going to get it sooner or later....so now he is on meds for that and all of a sudden we cant have sex....sex was great when we were dating but now that we are married and he got a meds he either cant get it up or once he is inside of me he goes limp again....the doctor switched diabetic meds and upped he high blood pressure meds thinking that might be the problem....he also gave us cialis....which when we took it it did nothing in fact he couldnt get it up at all.....now he is supposed to take Viagra....but it just feels like it is all my fault....like there is something wrong with me.....because we are trying very hard to have a baby but as you know it is hard to do that when you husband cant *** inside of you.....it is like he can get hard but cant *** in me....i can get him off with a bj but he can get it off in me......i know there is something that i am not doing right or maybe he is just not that in to me anymore....if anyone need more info or explanation on something let me know...i hope that someone can give me some help....this is really putting a strain on my marriage and i dont know how i am going to deal with it much longer.

2007-10-22 10:28:15 · 16 answers · asked by blah blah blah 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am wanting a divorce and my husband has bought everything for the most part since we have been married. All of the belongings I had before him and I got married, such as furniture he has replaced. He had me give up my car and he bought two new cars in just his name. He has never allowed me to be on anything, so now what can I do? What am I entitled to when I leave? I need help!!! One last thing. If he bought a house and it's all in just his name, am I responsible for it by any means?

2007-10-22 10:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by C&D M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am being bullied by my husband that if I leave him that I will be kidnapping my baby and will go to jail. I need a safe place and my family lives on the west coast. We live on the east coast.

There are not any legal papers filed or divorce or anything, I just need to get out and away from the drugs and abuse. I need the support of my family.

A shelter will not work as my child has health issues.

My family is willing to help but I am afraid that if I leave the state that my baby will be taken from me
because that is what my husband is threatening.

2007-10-22 10:25:35 · 11 answers · asked by Smart Nurse 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18yrs old and i have a bf that shows that he loves me, anything i ask him for he will give me once he has the money. He will do anything for me and a love him very much. BUT, my mom and dad doesn't want me to have a boyfriend. Since lately, i have been warned that if i continue to have sex with him, God will punish me. Am scared because of that!!!! And because of that, i asked my by if he would be ok if we stop having sex (untill we get married) and he wasnt happy about it but he said yes. Am also scared that he will stray and find another girlfriend who can give him sex. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO CAN YOU HELP ME???!!!!!

2007-10-22 10:24:28 · 49 answers · asked by Yellow Butterfly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 10:22:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let me describe to you my soul mate. Is this you?

This girl loves her family, she goes to church every sunday.
She visits her grandma often and is sweet and kind to her.
She helps her mom with chores without 1 single complaint.
She has friends that have high morals and enjoy life in a healthy way.
She loves to spend quiet nights at home reading, but does not pass on a good movie.
She dreams of getting married and having children.
She lives out in the country and loves doing laundry by hand. While doing laundry she day dreams of having a bf drive in a pick her up and take her to the movies.

2007-10-22 10:20:52 · 22 answers · asked by Tx Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl craimed that she loves me but she cannot marry me because of another guy she love most.the funny thing is that she ask money, money for her hair dressing, to take her for shopping and her fashions. but she didnt allow me to touch her, hence, i now set a trap for her to come to my house so i can touch her, is that a good idea? What should I do to her, what kind of method can i use?
She likes to consumes my money in vain but if i ask for her love or frienship, she refused me but she can ask for anything she like from me.

2007-10-22 10:20:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 10:19:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have to think you women would rather that your men kept their hair. But maybe women are not as concerned with hair as we men think. Do you think she is just being nice?

2007-10-22 10:17:39 · 21 answers · asked by mikegreenwich 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating a guy for a while and we've kissed a lot before, but what is the perfect way, that will make both of us feel LOVE? Where do i put my hands? How do i make it amazing?

2007-10-22 10:17:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating