i got this girl # i really like her
when should i ask her out?
2007-10-22 10:45:24 · 27 answers · asked by THING 2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it all depends on how you met and when. Although girls can't wait for the guy to call, keeping her waiting is a good way to show that you're not desperate. I've easily been scared off when the guy calls the day after, it shows he's too needy, or like i said before, desperate. If you met her on Saturday, call her on Tuesday or Wednesday and set something up for the weekend. It'll show that you've been thinking about her the last couple days, but it also leaves you some mystery to make her want you more. trust me, if you call a girl too soon, you may just scare her off.
2007-10-22 10:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna ask her out for this weekend, do it by wed at the latest. Keep it short, the longer you talk to her on the phone the more of a chance you have to say something stupid. Just be upbeat and happy when you talk to her. If you smile while you talk to her, it will show in your voice. Old trick.
2007-10-22 17:49:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out ASAP. Don't wait until the day before you
want her to go out with you. And don't wait so long that she's
wondered if you fell off the planet. The sooner the better!
The worst thing she could say is no.
2007-10-22 17:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by doodlebug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even ask this question? Do you really think there is some rule? Hmmmm. Somebody gave me $1000, when should I spend it? Whenever you feel like it.
2007-10-22 17:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of course you would'nt want to embarrass yourself, so dot listen to everyone else that is telling you to now. follow your heart. if you can tell she's into you, and that she flirts a bit in texting, then dude go for it. just make sure you dont have a doubt about it. if you are feeling a little unsure, just wait a little, and things will settle in place (:
HOPE THIS HELPS!! (:
2007-10-22 17:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by briing_iit_0n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOW!!!! RIgHT NOW!!! for all u no u couldve already lost her. the more u wait the less of a chance ur likely to have so hurry up and stop being a wienie and get on the phone and ASK HER OUT!
2007-10-22 17:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Now, today, this minute. Don't wait, if you like her and she gave you her number, she is expecting a call. Do it! If you are nervous to go on a long date, call her and ask her to a local coffee house for coffee, snacks and talk. You might be surprised what comes of it.
2007-10-22 17:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did she give it to you? Did you ask for it?
Well whatever....it depends on whether you really like her or not. Maybe you should just wait until after school to call her then find out more about her, then ask her out if you like her. I
2007-10-22 17:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait be patient. take time to chat with her and try to make her talk more about herself, try to spy and make her says what type of places she love going, food and see if in her conversation, she's involving you. find out if she first fancys you because sometime it might be that she just want to be friend.
2007-10-22 17:52:26 · answer #9 · answered by jessica.ginga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, she'll be expecting a call if she looked interested, so call her anytime from now to about three days. If it was really recent, don't call right away; it'll make you sound desperate. XD
Good luck!!!
2007-10-22 17:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by China Cup 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋