I have to think you women would rather that your men kept their hair. But maybe women are not as concerned with hair as we men think. Do you think she is just being nice?
2007-10-22 10:17:39 · 21 answers · asked by mikegreenwich 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband has been since high school practically, and I've always loved the shape of his head. There is a poem you might want to consider:
"God is just; God is Fair,
He gave some brains,
The others - hair"
My husband is handsome, intelligent, and bald. My dad was bald, and he and mom were together 62 years before they died within 6 weeks of each other.
Relax and go with it - the haircuts are easier, and you definitely know when your head is clean. Just be sure to protect it from sunburn, etc.
2007-10-22 10:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she could be being nice, but you have to take her at her word. that is what marriage is all about trust and love, love and trust. I know i wouldn't mind if my spouse started to lose his hair, I'd miss it, but it wouldn't be a condition of our marriage. I feel that YOU are the one that may be a little uncomfortable about it. and that is OK, but if you don't feel you absolute best DO something about it. there are great alternatives now, instead of doing the dreaded comb-over( don't ever do that) or the horrific spray dyes (don't ever do that either). they have wonderful, hair replacement techniques that are so realistic, even toupees have gone to new heights, look into the lace wigs (called toupees for men), they are the best.
don't be offended i am only recommending because i think YOU may have an issue with losing hair. if not, then enjoy life as you have it.
Much love to you and your wife
2007-10-22 17:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by yvicks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband has hair that falls down his back, and even though that is one thing that attracted me to him, I have also been VERY attractive to men that have had little hair. It is not important. What makes a man attractive is their personality and their out look on life, I can rub a bald head as well as run my fingers through a head full. Love runs deep, hair is only skin deep.
2007-10-22 18:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she seem as attracted to you as she always was? I wouldn't care myself, as long as there was no combover nonsense and he didn't get one of those little hair islands in the middle of the forehead. There's such a thing as growing old gracefully, even with receding hair. So as long as she's not treating you any differently, believe her and let it go. You've probably been married long enough that she loves you for who you are.
2007-10-22 17:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know a couple of sweet guys who shave their heads due to bald patches they look quit sexy .
Women who have hang up's about hair loss werent in it for love in the 1st place.
2007-10-22 18:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband (age 51) is getting the crown at the top of his head. It bothers him so much. I could care less. He is my knight in shining armor and always will be.
What does bother me is he keeps asking me how bad it is. I keep saying it's fine and he says no way. I relate it to the new wrinkles on my face. Getting old is not for sissies.
2007-10-22 17:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SHe is youre wife she loves no matter what and as for youre hair loss if she said anything differently would it matter?
2007-10-22 17:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, the spouse doesn't even notice that you are any different-looking than when you started dating. It's just like with a child. You don't notice how big your own kid is getting because you see him everyday.
2007-10-22 17:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by emily1980 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope....you're far more concerned with it than she is and if she says it doesn't matter to her, it doesn't matter.....
....my hubby is slowly going bald.....I happen to think it's sexy after all it's masculine ( women aren't supposed to go bald)..and think of all that exposed, naked skin lol....
2007-10-23 01:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe her. When I see my guy, I think he looks distinguished. He reminds me of a hot college professor! Yummy! Who wants to be with someone who looks like a kid anyway?
2007-10-22 18:12:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋