I need help!!! I try to get my husband to notice me by wearing tigh clothing,make up,sexy sleep wear. Nothing helps girls call his phone and he will walk away from me. they ask him for money and god knows what eles they ask for. I have answered his phone and this one girl demanded I tell her who I was.I asked who are you she proudly told me she was my husbands girlfriend....what that can't be iam his wife itold her.then she told me that he had told her that his cousin(me) waas going to play a joke on her.he walked in the room took the phone away from me and walked off like nothing had happen. An hour later he returns lookes at and had the nerv to say what!! I told him that I was not going to sit with my arms crossed while he did that to me ,but I think that I might have been a little harsh on him. On the other hand the hasn't been that good to me. what advice can you all help me with????
2007-10-22 10:48:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait..."I think that I might have been a little harsh on him?" Are you kidding me? Let's get this straight...he ignores you, shows no interest in you, talks to women on the phone, probably doing those women, he hasn't been good to you and you are asking if you were too harsh. What advice could you need? You won't listen to anyone here...you've been trying and trying to no avail, he treats you like cr*p and you want more help in trying...I would have left long ago.
2007-10-22 10:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by CC 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This might sound harsh but I have no other way to put it, my apologies ahead of time.....S.
I agree with you, you need help. If there is any possible way for you to go to a psychotherapist, you should. I am not even sure what form of denial that you are in that would allow you to question if you are being to harsh to someone who has treated you as if you don't exist. Sounds like the ultimate misogynist....he is beyond having no respect for you. If it is safe for you, you need to get away from that egocentric boy. How vain must a person be to act as if a person does not exist? That is my question.
2007-10-22 18:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by scsspace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if it was me he would be out the door before he could even think twice. Come on, wake up, he does not love you. He is a player and you are only a piece in his game that has been thrown to the side, the problem is that you have not seen that yet.
Get out, life is to short, there is someone out there that will put you first and only you in his life. Find him and dump the jerk at the curb. To harsh on him? HE IS CHEATING ON YOU!
2007-10-22 18:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in the right section... Marriage & Divorce.... Sounds like he has what ever he wants. Too creepy for me. Do you want to live like this for the rest of your life? What about children someday? Find a way out, plan a budget. Save money on the side for escape if need be. It might take you a couple months to do this, but sounds like you want more then being used in your relationship.
2007-10-22 17:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by flower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him you do not deserve a man like this he is bein in *** hole and that is not right I am sorry you might love this man but sweetheart this man does not love you he is cheating on you and he is disrespecting you does not care about you get out and away.
2007-10-22 18:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lost 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband act like I'm not here as well--I know he's not cheating cause he's always home, but he pretty much ignores me, so I know how you feel! You can email me if you want to--sounds like you need a friend!
2007-10-22 19:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I have no advice other than its apparent some people relish in being treated like dirt....have infidelities tossed right up in their face and sit back and ask foolish questions like "What am I supposed to do" on forums like this.
Little masochistic if you ask me.
2007-10-22 17:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WTF? Why does he have girls call him ALL of the time..your husband sounds like an ***#$% and you are letting him treat you like crap. Tell him that you will not put up with it any longer and he has to choose you or these other women..if he chooses you then you two need counseling to deal with trust issues that you must have by now...good luck.
2007-10-22 17:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to LOVE yourself more than he does for you and petition a divorce....He obviously has no respect for you and has no value for the marriage....You will be much happier and better off without him....Stand up for yourself and beat him at his own games.....Dropped out!!! Then he knows the game is OVER for him......
2007-10-22 18:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Sweetie. You married a cheater. Get rid of him now and get on with your life. Dont deny yourself happiness
2007-10-22 17:55:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jonesy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋