Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

2007-10-22 10:16:02 · 20 answers · asked by mandeeree 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 10:11:54 · 8 answers · asked by Holly W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hello everyone!
i have a question for all u guys and girls out there.
like,
my guy friend was telling me how for the most part when it gomes to attraction to the opposite gender. guys all agree on if a girl is pretty or not.
but when it comes to me and my girly-friends, i might be like "wow *john* is hot" and another gir may be like " you have to be kidding me, *John* is ugly"

so can someone ( preferably a guy) tell me if all guys serously agree if *stacy * is hot, and they all think she is. and everyone thinks *bekky* is ugly.
or is that just a rumor?

i hope that makes sence to you!

2007-10-22 10:11:28 · 5 answers · asked by french fry 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this guy in my english class who sits right next to me. there's like seperate tables. there's five to each table. one day someone sitting right acrossed from me sent me a note saying that the guy sitting next to me was staring at my chest while i was looking at the board. and then the guy sitting next to me keeps tapping my shoulder and touching my hands and stuff. i don't know what to do. he was about to touch me again. so i told him not to touch me. he doesn't touch me anymore but like when i finish a test or something before him and i ask to go to the bathroom he asks me to please be quiet. i don't know what to do.

2007-10-22 10:10:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a girlfriend that I have been seeing for 3 months now & she lives about 4 hours from here. We met on the internet. I ask her if we could spend the Holidays together, but she wants to work on
Thanksgiving & said that she would have to think about Christmas. She said she does not like the Holidays, because she has no family.
Here is the catch-----When she was a little girl & even in the crib, her own father molested her & the mother did nothing about it. She remembers crying for her mother not to leave the room in her crib when her father would enter the room. She was afraid of him. When she started to mature, he began to molest her & her sister too. She tried to press charges after she grew up and the authorities said it had been too long. She is 35 & this was in South Caroline. "I thought there was no time limit on this?"
She is trying to break free from her parents because of this and said she spend the Holidays by herself last year. She said she use to like the Holidays,

2007-10-22 10:09:59 · 3 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Family

me and my husband has been trying to pick an exact date for our wedding, but everyone is like no you can't have it then because it is so and so b-day or you have to wait until your uncle flys in from germany and all this other stuff and we don't even know when they are flying in or anything like that. i just really don't know what to do. this wedding thing is a freakin nightmare......HELP......

2007-10-22 10:07:44 · 17 answers · asked by the bride to be 2 in Weddings

feel like like im letting everybody down and that i cant do anything right is it just a phase im going through?? or puberty?? or something else i feel like i supposed to act like a grown man should, which makes me think twice about playing outside and stuff like that because a grown man wouldnt do that, but the thing is im not ready to become a man yet i want to play outside and do pranks and stuff that kids do what the heck is wrong with me and no im not going to commit suicide or go cut myself or anything like that i just want to know if its puberty or just a regular 16 year old boy plz help me

2007-10-22 10:06:02 · 51 answers · asked by codye 2 in Singles & Dating

so my gf and i are gong to have a date on friday and after the date
i want to give her a kiss on the lips
and i have never done this before
please help me out in any way you can
thank you

2007-10-22 10:05:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so audittions were today (for a musical that the school i go to is having) and i froze up while singing so i am really sad that i didnt get a part and after that i went to the audition sheet and got alex's (u people should know who alex is by now but if u dont then he is my freind/crush/stand partner in orchestra) phone number (u have to put your phone # on the audition sheet by the office) but he doesnt know that i have his phone # and today him and i got in a discusion about crushes and he told me who he has a crush on but i lied i told hiim that i have a crush on steven (my crush from last year) and it has been killing me since so should i call him and/or tell him the truth or should i just keep it all to myself and never tell him that i like him and never call him (well at least until he gives me his phone # and he knows that i have it) but please i am really sad,confused, and just feel like i made a really big lie that is gonna destroy the world sorry about how long it is

2007-10-22 10:05:14 · 5 answers · asked by spiritgirl2595 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are all the i like you but flirt in a mean way moves so i can tell if a guy likes me

2007-10-22 10:05:12 · 1 answers · asked by h-rexasorus 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you come to a final conclusion, any tips please ,,,

2007-10-22 10:04:35 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I went to Nashville to see a concert and he got way out of control drunk. At the concert he spilled beer all over a guy in one of the lines, he threw an empty cup and cigarette carton on top of display in the lobby (with trashcans nearby) and was stumbling all over the place. We were still having a good time until he asked someone an inappropriate question very loudly. I was frustrated and slapped him with the intention to sober him a little and help him realize what he was doing. (I am a very small girl, and I wasn't malicious when I slapped him - i know it didn't hurt). He went crazy and slapped me back VERY hard. I left the concert and two people asked me on the way down the aisle if I needed help. He told me that I provoked him and I should have never slapped him. Basically, it was my fault. Is this worng? (Side note: I went back to our hotel where the police where called because he was beating on the door, cursing and telling me to let him in)

2007-10-22 10:03:39 · 62 answers · asked by SummerSwirls 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this girl and I want her to like me too. Ladies, what kind of stuff makes you smile and like a guy?

2007-10-22 10:00:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 62 she's 20, she apparently loves me but I am holding her off for now.
She is lovely and I don't have a woman but I am not sure if she after my love or my Indian factories?
I own 27 clothes manufacturing factorien in India and I wonder if that is waht she is really after!
I don't really care as I could not take my money with me but will this be the right choice?
I need a woman and it seems when they know about my money I can choose any woman I want so why shouldI go for an old one?? I am confused. It was my father's factories I didn't do anything!

2007-10-22 10:00:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy I've got a 'crush' on is amazing; I don't know anyone with as genuine a character. I want so badly to tell him I like him, but I don't want it to put a strain on our friendship, and I don't want to be rejected either. When is a risk worth taking, and should I take this one?

2007-10-22 09:59:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anita 5 in Singles & Dating

What would be a "good" way to ask a guy to a dance? Guys- how would you want to be asked? Ladies- Any ideas?

2007-10-22 09:59:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We are both still young (22). He has been talking about marriage for a few months now, but I don't feel ready. Lately I have been thinking we might as well do it because I may never feel ready.
We are financially independent, but are not 'comfortable' financially by any means. We make the bills, but don't have a lot of extra money. He is in a slight amount of debt, which he is slowly paying off and the only debt I have is my college loans. I don't think we're financially ready to get married and he says that our parents will pay for it anyway so it doesn't matter.
I love him and I can't see myself with anyone but him. But I don't know if I'm ready to be a wife.
My question is, how do you know when you're ready to get married? And should I get married even though I don't feel ready yet?

2007-10-22 09:59:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we are friends since high school. he told me that he loves me and i said i love him back . so should i let him move in ? help

2007-10-22 09:57:36 · 10 answers · asked by JenN 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay i have been with my fiance for almost 4 years now with no break ups or anything... but i spoil the crap outta him... he has a psp, games, player pack, i pod nano, cell phone, new shoes every month, gamecube, computer, new tv, car stereo, and the list goes on.... i have paid for all of this crap for him.... he comes to me a week ago and says i want a new TV will you buy it for me... and then just two days ago and says I want an xbox 360 will you get it for me... i told him yes was i wrong

2007-10-22 09:56:15 · 24 answers · asked by Kayla J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

But scared to let that person know?? or maybe shy??

2007-10-22 09:56:01 · 7 answers · asked by **Arlene13** 2 in Singles & Dating

And i am NOT saying that i don't care if one cries. I'm ASKING who really cares if one cries?

2007-10-22 09:54:17 · 9 answers · asked by      7 in Singles & Dating

Do you like going with him, or having him pick it out and suprising you, or do you hate having him be any part of it, or do you just hate wearing sexy lingerie in general?

2007-10-22 09:53:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi to everyone!
I like a girl which is very special to me. She uses to touch my hair, my hands in collegue, we enjoy talking each other. I asked her to go out, and she accepted!. But when I call her to her cell phone, she never answer or give me a call back. I've got a special feeling for her, but I 'm hurt because she doesn't answer my phone...what can I do?

2007-10-22 09:53:17 · 20 answers · asked by jurgenschiller 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 09:51:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 09:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Antonio,
Yeah you shouldn't of lied to me about that internet deal, you know on what pasadana supposably done. That was just bull crap and stupid at the same time.....but I don't care any more cause I love you too. I don't to leave you.....and I'm sorry if I'm so dark sided.....look what some people are doing to me. You can't blame me for that....I'm just sticking up for myself. And no I was not right...it's always nice to have a dearly close friend by your side. Brandon is a good guy he's just protecting you but you can't be protected anymore by him if you leave. I don't want you to move away from Brandon...stay with your best friend. I think he needs you....and I don't want to kick you to the side. Well at least I didn't lie to Brandon on one thing. He asked me if you ever cheated on me and went with another woman what would I do? I said that all I would do is get angry but I wouldn't let it ruin our relationship. To many people do that but I'm not going to let it. Your the first guy that I've felt this way with and your going to be the only guy. My mother found out what happened between me and Pasadana arguing somehow and I got yelled at by her. She told me to appoligize to her and be nice for now on. But she also told me that I should be more behaved for the future when we meet. She don't know that were really dating (you know that) but I told her all about you and I think she is happy for me. She thinks that your my soulmate and don't want me to ruin my life by leaving you, and I don't want to ruin your life cause I care for you. Antonio, I don't care how many times you cheat on me as long as you make sure you tell me if you do. I'm not going to let it bother me anymore. I love you too much and I don't want to loose you.

Love,
Araina


P.S. My mom is forcing me to get a job at the stupid Wal-Marts so I can save up. She is also making me clean the house spotless too. She told me when it is all clean and I have enough she said you can come and visit if you like. But of course I have to pay for your trip....that don't bother me none but with wal-marts and besides having to buy all the stuff to fix up the house it may take awhile. And she also said if she gets the things going like she wants and finally manages to buy a house for herself she said I can have the house that me and her are in right now. I guess she wants than to have the house in two names. Those names will be the owners of the house....one name is going to be mine and the other one. Well I'm sure you can guess, in two or three years if she moves by than she giving me the house for you and me to live together without having to worry about any house payments. By than I'm sure I'd have the whole place fixed up, a second bathroom and bedroom added on. All the rooms repainted, the house cleaned, and the yard well taken care of by than. Well, it's a pretty good house if you look at what it could be like once it's all fixed up. That's if you even want to move in with me by than.....you'll probably still be going to colledge. But Antonio, I'll be nicer and change for you cause I sure in the world don't want to loose you.


....I love you too much....

2007-10-22 09:45:33 · 14 answers · asked by wargraymon2006 1 in Singles & Dating

ladies are you all depressed about i dk your ****** guy or you period or just anything well ok this sounds soo crazy and you probably will thik it is but one night my dad had just got really mad at me and i was all depressed so i stareted to excirsise and really it made me fell so much better!!! it really worked!!! cause my hormones and then ya so if you all depressed err somtin throw away the chocolate and workout i know it souds totaly crazy but trust me it works!!!

2007-10-22 09:42:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister got divorced last year, and is probably going to get married to another guy she met 6 months ago (her 3rd marriage).

She had big ceremonies for her first 2 weddings (10 years ago, and 4 years ago). I don't think it's appropriate for someone to invite a whole bunch of people for yet another wedding -- especially when most of us have to fly across the country again to go. I actually think it's selfish, since it's very expensive to fly out for several days, lots of wedding gifts etc. People will feel uncomfortable not going, or going, it's sort of a lose-lose situation.

I think for your 3rd wedding it should be the bride, the groom, and a minister or judge, and that's pretty much it.

Any thoughts on this?

2007-10-22 09:40:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

me and my boyfriend have been broking up and i havnt talk to him for a bout 3 weeks i just found out that i was pregant, so i try to call him and it doesnt work so i guess he change his number, he doesnt have email myspace and im scared to write him in mail beacsue i dont think he will believe me or he wont care.. so how would io get his new cell phone number

2007-10-22 09:40:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong for females to put them selves out there sexually like men do?Why or Why noy?

2007-10-22 09:40:08 · 13 answers · asked by *!Its Shay!* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships