Hi to everyone!
I like a girl which is very special to me. She uses to touch my hair, my hands in collegue, we enjoy talking each other. I asked her to go out, and she accepted!. But when I call her to her cell phone, she never answer or give me a call back. I've got a special feeling for her, but I 'm hurt because she doesn't answer my phone...what can I do?
2007-10-22 09:53:17 · 20 answers · asked by jurgenschiller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be very careful in ur actions........if not unrequited love is inevitable. As a 'man' one should learn not to pretend to be who one is not.
O.k so there is a problem.....don't ask others to find the answer......elaborate then ask her in a nice way...is she not the cause of it?...therefore is she not the cure for it?......HOWEVER.....do so in a quiet environment...e.g a park bench, walking home or better yet ask her to join you for lunch....tell her that for the next four minutes she must listen keenly and don't interrupt u as u explain urself entirely......after which u ask the questions......watever d answer...always respect her choice...you don't own her.
I see whereby you say you are being hurt........don't be SILLY...ur the one hurting urself...ALWAY REMEMBER THIS.....love is not made in a moment but rather over time via ups and down, therefore give not ur love away like it is a piece of 'Scat'...take time to know her first...jus be her friend..there is alot to be learnt about her...trust me...in the end u may change ur mind due to her behavior, reliability etc ........it is very possible she likes u as well and is extremely shy or she may not be interested in you or guys in general......take ur time 'man'.........life is not running away in one day....stop worrying too.....you have nothing to lose.....go for it.....jus be you.
2007-10-22 10:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by Stanu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have your number? If she doesn't, may not answer the phone because she doesn't recognize the number on her caller id. Whenever you call, you should try to leave a message so that she knows who you are and why you're calling her. Next time you see her, ask her if you have the right number, and also give her yours.
2007-10-22 09:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by hinata_sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best bet would probably to stop calling and see if she calls you. If she isnt answering or returning calls she may not be as interested anymore or there maybe someone else. I know it is easier said then done but dont put to much energy in this one. Give her time and distance and maybe she will come around or maybe you will see there is someone else out there better for you. good luck
2007-10-22 09:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see a big red flag! Meaning, there is a reason she is not answering her phone. Such as a boyfriend or husband is around and she cannot talk. If I were you, I think I would abandon this relationship and persue other people. I think you deserve someone who is respectful enough to return your phone call and someone who is not already taken.
2007-10-22 09:59:38 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already done everything you can. If she is interested in you, she will contact you. If she doesn't respond to your phone calls, she may be trying to tell you that she isn't that interested and that you should move on to someone else.
2007-10-22 09:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont wont to jump to any conclutions until you know that she is avioding you. But if she is, I know what it like to like someone and they not feel the same way- but you have got to move ahead b/c you could be missing bigger and better things with someone else. but take that energy toward her and put in yourself and others and dont miss life and time on disfunction.
2007-10-22 10:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Aj M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you tell the story, I think she likes you, but maybe it's better when you try to talk to her. Not by phone but in personal. Then you immedialtly know where you stand.
2007-10-22 09:58:54 · answer #7 · answered by MammaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time...honestly she is not that into you! She is leaving her life and obviously leaving you out of it. If she flirted with you it was the beginning of something but you went to fast and now she is freaked out ...she said yes to be polite and now she doesn't want to do it. it is normal give her time and see what happens.
2007-10-22 09:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by krixty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to tell you something. Get lost Buddy.
Move on and find someone who appreciates you. She is not worth it.
2007-10-22 09:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call once more. Leave a message. If she doesn't call back, then she's not interested.
2007-10-22 09:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Muse - Viktor's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋