Breaking AwayFrom Her Family?

Question

I have a girlfriend that I have been seeing for 3 months now & she lives about 4 hours from here. We met on the internet. I ask her if we could spend the Holidays together, but she wants to work on
Thanksgiving & said that she would have to think about Christmas. She said she does not like the Holidays, because she has no family.
Here is the catch-----When she was a little girl & even in the crib, her own father molested her & the mother did nothing about it. She remembers crying for her mother not to leave the room in her crib when her father would enter the room. She was afraid of him. When she started to mature, he began to molest her & her sister too. She tried to press charges after she grew up and the authorities said it had been too long. She is 35 & this was in South Caroline. "I thought there was no time limit on this?"
She is trying to break free from her parents because of this and said she spend the Holidays by herself last year. She said she use to like the Holidays,

Answer 1

Sounds to be like this lady has a lot of problems, but then it is only what she has told you.
I know from experience that a 35 year old, has been surviving for awhile, I am afraid she is sucking you into a bad situation.
Try to break it off and get on to something a little more stable.
This girl has way too any problems for you to get involved with...good luck to you and thank you.
I believe she is already trying to avoid you!., or the next thing you know she will be asking you to send her money to help her move........sorry

Answer 2

You sound like a nice person, so I am going to give you my "gut" feeling on this one. Back off and out of this situation.
Anyone that age with so many problems cannot be someone you want to get involved with any more than just being her friend.
So far you only know what she ha told you, I would check her out a little more, like where she went to school, relatives, where she works, lives etc. and do not send her any money to come see you, or it may be the last you ever hear from her.
I am sorry if this hurts, but that is exactly how it sounds to me.

Answer 3

You mentioned she has a sister, where is she now?, what about Grandparents, Uncles and Aunts, Cousins?...At 35 she has had plenty of tie to deal with all these problems, I would
be very leery especially since you met her on the Internet.
For your own safety and security I would not push the issue, sounds like this lady has a lot of issues...see if you can assess her through County records and check her out a little more,sorry and good luck to you.