Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

i've been with my girl for like a month now and evey time we kiss on the lips she never opens her mouth so no tongue action happens...this is starting to get to ma head now...is there summit wrong wit ma lips cuz i looked in the mirror and they looked gd...any suggestions?

2007-10-22 21:34:32 · 29 answers · asked by Mr Conglomery 2 in Singles & Dating

I've really gotta go pee! What should I do?

2007-10-22 21:19:02 · 8 answers · asked by Aubrey C 2 in Friends

Just asking if it's possible. Maybe you'd like to explain your answer.

2007-10-22 21:18:26 · 14 answers · asked by Yuki 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 21:10:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She called me yesterday in a sad voice and wants to consult something to me.But I was in my job,so we decided to talk that matters later.I did not how I feel if I need to listen to her or be friend her.She,my ex boyfriend and I met in the same company.At the time my ex courted me,they were already close as best friend.So she became my friend too.My ex and I had a break up because he is married and I did not want to be a home wrecker,although he decided already to leave his family for me..I quit on the job. Three months ago I and she had communication.She told me some negative things about my ex that some past girlfriends runs after him,etc.So,this just made me feel to forget him more.Although,my ex still sending me mails,I preferred not to response at all.I met another guy,a single and a serious guy.Later,I heard that she and my ex are having relationship.So she haven't called me for two months.To my surprise,she called me yesterday.Do I need to listen to her and give her some advice?

2007-10-22 21:03:58 · 6 answers · asked by Lucy 2 in Singles & Dating

Any characters or celebrities come to mind? I want him to feel the pain of looking like a hot woman that I feel every day.

2007-10-22 21:03:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-22 20:52:03 · 8 answers · asked by anne 2 in Friends

We just started dating a little over a week ago. For a week or two prior we "courted", but both of us had just gotten out of a different relationship.
Now we have two problems... He says he fell quickly for me and is extremely romantic, affectionate, and sexual. In fact, one could call him clingy.
I, on hand, am very independent by nature and not nearly as affectionate. Too much romance makes me want to run the other way, in fact.
Also, this is his second relationship (even in his mid twenties) ever. Good as his intentions may be, I don't think that I believe a person can fall in love so quickly as he did.
Now, we are trying to figure out what compromises we can make to keep a relationship. He is a very good hearted person and a caring friend. What I want to know is how far should a person compromise what they need and want in order to give the other person what they want?

2007-10-22 20:41:36 · 13 answers · asked by chienloup06 2 in Singles & Dating

my dad a couple weeks ago left us now already having anxiety attaccks got worse its meessing up my life i dont know how to tell him and i get on our credit card accounts and his cell phone bills and find out hes going out with a girl in jackson and going out to eat no he works in hayward and clovis it feels like im losing my dad and i cant talk to any1 sum1 plz help me!!! i do not feel like living at the moment!!!

2007-10-22 20:40:55 · 2 answers · asked by HELP ME!!! 2 in Family

ALL of my old friends are bringing me down...I am going to college but I commute so it's hard for me to meet people there. I don't really feel like joining a club either...My old friends smoke a lot of weed, they drink a lot, most aren't going to school, never have any money, and some are just plain assholes. They are just not very good friends because they tend to use me....I can't really explain it but I am in a bad space whenever I am around them and feel depressed because I feel like they are bringing me down...I feel hurt when they exclude me from things, but when I am around them I don't really want to be there either...Almost all of them are losers and are really bitchy towards me and I don't even know why...how can I get new friends?

2007-10-22 20:37:37 · 5 answers · asked by PP 1 in Friends

My friend said to mention that I am constantly getting compliments but he is absolutely not attractive. ( Just for the record I never cared about that).

2007-10-22 20:37:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before i got married i shared things with my husband like my family history education things like that, u know... like you do..anywayz im regretting it now because he is throwing those things back in my face every now and then,like i had a tough upbringing as a child being sexually abused by my father and stuff and didnt concentrate on school n things and thats why i only completed up to yr 10,anyway he knows all this and everytime i say or do something not so smart,he always calls me dumb or makes reference to the fact that im "uneducated" for as long as i can remember he has always done this and im sick of it,its not an everyday thing but it happens often enough for me to get pissed off with him.he thinks he is god because he is "educated" and did a 5 yr law degree.not to mention he is indian and education means everything over there.. i have told him how it makes me feel but he does not seem to get it...he still mentions it every chance he gets....i get called dumb,stupid,uneducated

2007-10-22 20:36:07 · 12 answers · asked by Sexy_mum24 5 in Marriage & Divorce

so i went on my first date with my boyfriend, and i asked for him to put my wallet in his pocket. so being its the first date and all, i really wanted to take those pictures at downtown disney, and after we took the picture, it was time to pay.. and we both stood there, and i poked him and he took MY wallet out and gave it to me to pay. so whatever i payed $35 for it.
and then today i found out he went with and payed the tickets to Wicked for his coworker (a girl that he didnt know longer than he knew me) when he told me he was going with his mom and her coworkers.
so im kind of eh about it. but i dont want to confront him because it might get him mad. what do you think of this?

2007-10-22 20:35:24 · 13 answers · asked by *hi* 4 in Singles & Dating

Girls, If you met a very handsome, lovely, confident, lonely guy who loves you alot and willing to sacrifice his life for you, but he has a strong Obsessive Compulsive that distructs him from his education and jobless....But that guy his family pays him most of his essential needs, such as University fee's, phone bills and he lives with parents in a big house and he pays nothing from his pocket as he doesnt work regarding to his very bad Obsessive Compulsive as well as his parents pay for him for all the needs which doesn't encourage him to work also....But that guy so passion in self develpment and got goals wants to achieve and doesnt like the situation he is living.....Will you carry on the relation with a guy in this situation or you will just leave him!?
Sorry my English is my second language so excuse me....

2007-10-22 20:34:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband comes from an abusive family, until his Great grandmother stepped in and raised him to manhood!
He's a wonderful man with plenty to offer and give and I love him for that.
He's got 2 Ph.D's and is successful but when he's pushed the wrong way he closes down and holds back his anger.

I know when he feels like this is because he will buy a self help book or listen to his self help CD, and this does help him out but I think he needs to confront these people and tell them off if necessary and why he feels the way he does and not try and always think his way through it!

I have never seen it but he informs me he has a TEMPER and he needs to always keep his cool or theirs blood on the floor! I've never seen that side of him in 14 years, theirs been plenty of opportunity for him to lose it.

Is their a way to show him he's got a partner, as well as a lover a wife, best friend in a way thats healthy beside always asking him whats wrong?
Just want us to be happy healthy!

2007-10-22 20:34:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently had glandular fever,and im really anemic..this has made me really weak and tired so I find it hard to concentrate at school..exams are in a month and i dont think i can handle it, im failing every subject and noone really knows how hard it is for me.

My best friend isn't there for me anymore, we barely talk and my other best friend is going to the otherside of the world in a couple of months. My boyfriend of almost a year dumped me, and i know it was for the best but I'm still lonely.

I can't talk to my Mum, she just doesn't understand how I really feel. I'm tired of pretending im ok, when really im not. I just feel so isolated and so tired.

WHo can i talk to? Who can i turn to? I just dont want people to think im making excuses.

2007-10-22 20:31:44 · 23 answers · asked by XxElleNxX 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-22 20:29:58 · 11 answers · asked by Da'RainMan 2 in Singles & Dating

If you won a million dollars and your girlfriend or boyfriend wanted you to make the choice of being with them or the money what would you do? keep in mind that this is the person you love with all of your heart. Personally I would have to give up the money,because true love from the heart ,you can't put a price on.

2007-10-22 20:28:01 · 6 answers · asked by dennispaulson42 2 in Singles & Dating

long, and now I feel better and want to socialize but How do I start making friends ? I am 26years old and out of school? I am lonely, and my other friends grew far apart from me, how can I some some nice friends, to hang with what are some good ideas do you think myspace is a good idea or you think its unsafe to meet people?

2007-10-22 20:21:39 · 7 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Friends

I m a married woman wif 4 kids n this is my secong marriage...I have seprated room wif my husband ever since my last baby lies on 2005...Coz i caught him cheating me n not only the first times n is lots n lots of times.I caught him having sex with a china woman.not only this n he also set up a trap wif his friends to cheat me n my moher in law...And lying to me for almost 1 years went gambling...I m the main person who is alway taking out my saving to top up whatever shortage...Until today i had use up all my saving...I feel tired of what he tells me n what he wants to do..I really hope that i can leave this guy but i cant coz the childrens financially need my in law help..I feel terrible n asking myself whether do i still have to carry on what i m now...Although i m born to be a beautiful girl but when come to marriage,a single guys will not accept me this woman of woman to have 4 kids...Oh what should i do to get out of this sick husband........

2007-10-22 20:19:55 · 12 answers · asked by rosa1132rosa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it normal for a guy to look I personally think its rude, especially if you keep looking away then looking again?Lol

2007-10-22 20:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm in a long distance (well not really long distance, 2 hours drive away) relationship with my man, and he never ever flirts with anybody. but i see on his facebook, that girls always flirt with him?! i dont know quite what to do, since i can't really meet them or anything,.. but i really want to tell them off without being too stupid or immature.
is there a good way?
and what's the best way to show that i'm his girl when he meets somebody that he knows?

2007-10-22 20:15:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but of course would die for a shot of a chance to know him. . .
please suggest fool proof first moves. . . thanks.

For whichever work on these tips definitely il post here. . .

2007-10-22 20:14:15 · 4 answers · asked by cahlie 1 in Singles & Dating

heard he remarried

2007-10-22 20:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by joe b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend's mom seems as if she doesn't like me. The first couple of years she seemed as if she did, but now I feel like she can't stand me. Her jokes hurt my feelings but she says she is playing. When I call, she sounds as if she doesn't want me calling. When I come in the house she looks dissappointed and sometimes she doesn't speak to me. My boyfriend said she talks about me all the time and always talks about how much she likes me. When I had surgery she called me to check up on me. But she doesn't act like she likes me... I don't understand. Am I just being to sensitive?

2007-10-22 20:10:53 · 3 answers · asked by ILike2HaveItMyWay 2 in Family

"I like this girl
shes beautiful
and just great
but im not handsome enough for her
its not my fault
i didnt choose the way i look
but if i could i would change
life isnt fair but i learned that along time ago
dont pity me because im fine with it
fine that i wasnt blessed with good looks
good looks that you want
and the good looks ill never have
im not good looking enough and i dont want you to change to accept me
because i want to be accepted for me
ugly or handsome
i wish things could be different
but as i said before
life isnt fair

.........and neither are you...."

2007-10-22 20:07:44 · 4 answers · asked by Tai ! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husbands niece is newly seperated & getting cozy w/ her boss....who is her hubby's ex-boss & a wife-beater. Yes, he's married. I think the niece is just sort of in that re-bound, anger/resentment period after a breakup. Typically I'd say let it play out & she'll move on - but we're worried about where her choices will take her & how unsafe it could become. She and her hubby have 2 kids. He is worried as well.

What would you do?

2007-10-22 20:02:00 · 5 answers · asked by mkt 5 in Marriage & Divorce

About a week ago my boyfriend out of no where accused me of something. (no not cheating). I let him know that his accusation was false, but he continued to accuse me. In all honesty I had done nothing, he wouldn't listen. So after that plus insulting me, he said he was leaving, and infact left me. He called the next day, we talked, he did not apologize, but said if I wanted to be with him he would come back. Stupidly, I said okay. A few hours later he again told me to "***** off" and left. A friend of his informed me that since he left me, he has been hanging around a girl he just met, but that it is "nothing serious". He came back again last night saying we'd work it out, but soon after, once again, left. I have known him six years, dated for two and a half. I love him to death and don't understand why he is doing this to me. I don't know what to do, wait around and hope he'll come to his senses, or just move on. I really don't want to lose him though.

Any advice or thoughts?

2007-10-22 20:00:20 · 13 answers · asked by Life..or something like it. 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 19:59:11 · 7 answers · asked by Natalia 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi there all,

I just posted a question just moments ago which was titled ""There's this guy I like but he may only want to be **** Buddies, what are the rules?""

I need to clarify.....I've seen then been with him a few times and he seems guinuinely interested in me, he takes me out for breakfest or we lay around cuddling watching movies the next day etc. but after that girl telling me he's a player, he doesn't fall in love and he doesn't want a relationship etc I sent him a that message saying "come around for cuddles with no strings attached" now I've given him a perception of me if he did like me more than that haven't I? And to be honest, I don't really wanna do the whole **** buddie thing with him anyway. I like him more than that. I like doing normal stuff with him too. I like his company. How can I fix this?

2007-10-22 19:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating