Hi there all,
I just posted a question just moments ago which was titled ""There's this guy I like but he may only want to be **** Buddies, what are the rules?""
I need to clarify.....I've seen then been with him a few times and he seems guinuinely interested in me, he takes me out for breakfest or we lay around cuddling watching movies the next day etc. but after that girl telling me he's a player, he doesn't fall in love and he doesn't want a relationship etc I sent him a that message saying "come around for cuddles with no strings attached" now I've given him a perception of me if he did like me more than that haven't I? And to be honest, I don't really wanna do the whole **** buddie thing with him anyway. I like him more than that. I like doing normal stuff with him too. I like his company. How can I fix this?
2007-10-22 19:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls tend to hide their feelings not to scare guys off and hoping to be the one that "changes" him or settles him down. Its not fair to either one of you. Right now your settling for less than you deserve because you want his company but it won't be worth a broken heart in the long run.
Move on and find someone with the same level of commitment and passion as you. You'll be happier. Be honest from the start. Don't just say what it takes to keep some one around at the cost of your own dignity.
2007-10-22 20:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Just tell him tht you did not mean to send a mixed message the other day. Tell him that you meant that if he only wanted to hang around and cuddle sometimes, instead of going out, you would be happy. Tell him that you were thinking about it afterwards, and thought that he may have gotten the wrong impression from what you said.
2007-10-23 03:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M NOT SAY THAT U CANT FIX IT BUT IT WILL BE KIND OF HARD, CAUSE U DON'T WANT HIM TO THINK UR PLAYING GAMES AND U ALREADY GAVE HIM THE IMPRESSION THAT U JUST WANNA KICK IT BUT AFTER BEING AROUND A PERSON FOR SOMETIME U KIND OF GET TO SEE WUT KIND OF PERSON THEY ARE AND THEN U CAN DECIDE FOR URSELF HOW TO TELL HIM AND RATHER OR NOT HE REALLY IS A PLAYER. REMEMBER U CAN'T LISTEN TO EVERYTHING U HEAR ESPECIALLY ABOUT HIM BEING A PLAYER CAUSE SOMEONE MAY TELL U ONE THING AND BE TRYNA GET AT HIM AT THE SAME TIME SO HAVE UR OWN BACK.U SHOULD OF CHECKED HIM OUT FIRST BEFORE LISTENIN TO WHAT THE GIRL SAID
2007-10-23 03:07:33 · answer #3 · answered by tt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant he dont want no strings cause he want to do him and u when he feels like it hon move on hes a player and hes telling u loud and clear
2007-10-23 03:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by mspunkins222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
admit your feelings to him. it will either go down well and you will be together or he will say hes not interested in that and it will end all together but better than wondering what might have been
2007-10-23 03:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to talk, and tell him the truth. If he doesnt feel that way it is better to know now.
2007-10-23 03:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. tell him this.
2007-10-23 02:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by Tif 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant its no good
2007-10-23 03:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋