My friend said to mention that I am constantly getting compliments but he is absolutely not attractive. ( Just for the record I never cared about that).
2007-10-22 20:37:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If only I knew the answer to that question! I think we've all been in that same situation before. To this day I still have no idea why guys do that. Don't feel bad about it though. It is more than likely not your fault. This situation is actually pretty common believe it or not.
2007-10-22 20:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dana_Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be scared of relationships and afraid of loosing you as a good friend.maybe he has some other issues you don't know about that are hard for him to share.he might have had a bad relationship you might not know about. he may have an issue with self esteem,maybe he thinks he isn't good enough looking for you. my sugesstion is to give him confidence by telling him why he is special to you and look him in the face when you tell him these things. when a man gets compliments from a womanor she lets him know what she thinks about him faults and all,that man ends up having way more cofidence in himself and his surrouindings.
2007-10-23 04:03:23 · answer #2 · answered by dennispaulson42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do your respective levels of attractiveness have to do with anything? If you never cared about it, you wouldn't have mentioned it.
And to answer your question, if you being attractive and him not being attractive is an issue, maybe he thinks you're too good for him, that you're unattainable.
2007-10-23 03:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by supensa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks your out of his league and would only get hurt . you have to make him feel at ease. ask him what he likes to do . i know iv'e been there . for over 50 years i have been in love with janice holsclaw but i was shy and felt she was out of my league so girl go for it talk to him . well dooooo it from a 68 yr old male but found someone else now 43yrs 4 mo.
2007-10-23 03:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by dalecollins64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already has someone or maybe too many responsibilities. Life is about work and devotion.
Love does not always fit into the picture.
2007-10-23 09:05:58 · answer #5 · answered by Elainea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your facts are wrong and he doesn't have feelings for you.
Maybe he thinks you are too good for him so he doesn't want to get hurt.
Maybe something you did made him feel you weren't interested.
2007-10-23 03:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by Truth is elusive 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a man with a similar story. He simply did not want to settle down...with me.
2007-10-23 03:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by NC Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't feel like having a girlfriend right now.
2007-10-23 03:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that he's afraid to approach, inconfedent about his look maybe!!! try to make him in Comfortable to do so.
2007-10-23 03:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Lola♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he is either insecure, gay, in a relationship.
2007-10-23 03:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋