i've been with my girl for like a month now and evey time we kiss on the lips she never opens her mouth so no tongue action happens...this is starting to get to ma head now...is there summit wrong wit ma lips cuz i looked in the mirror and they looked gd...any suggestions?
2007-10-22 21:34:32 · 29 answers · asked by Mr Conglomery 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she's afraid to kiss you like that,it freaks girls out sometimes and it too liquidy n stuff..maybe before u kiss her, you should brush your teeth,floss,u can mix baking soda and peroxide, with toothpaste..but not a toothpaste smell or those stupid stick em to your tounge things,no gum..just a healthy, fresh mouth,,thn get her comfortable..kiss her slowly gently..help her open up to you try not 2 ask her to open her mouth your not her dentist.lol..yet have a cup of wine ready 4 her, ease her mind..hope it helps..some times stank breath a turn off..lol just joking..good luck..hope u dont smoke either..
2007-10-22 21:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by skygodess003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a tic tac an if maybe that isn't it,maybe she is just shy about it cuz she thinks she will be bad at it or somethin cause girls have real low self esteem an confidence so give her some an she might really wanna doit an then if you get her to an then yall doit alot then try an give her kisses like she does now an see if she starts wantin the tongue kisses an that will let you know what was wrong hope i helped
2007-10-23 04:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there's something else she's uncomfortable with. It might have nothing at all to do with you - it could be rooted in her upbringing, her faith or just her own experience and preferences. Maybe she's worried about getting carried away and not being able to respect her own limits if she opens her mouth and lets herself go!
The fact that you've come here with the question instead of talking to her about it suggests that you and she are still at an early stage in your relationship in terms of intimacy - emotional intimacy as well as physical intimacy.
What I suggest is that you sit down with her somewhere quiet, when you're both relaxed and happy, and say to her that you really like her and think she's attractive. You'd like to kiss with open mouths and you wonder how she feels about that.
Then listen to what she says and probe her answers, gently and respectfully. Don't try and show her she's 'wrong' or tell her she's being uptight, childish or frigid - respect her views, or you've got no chance of getting her to respect yours.
If it's a religious or moral issue, you may just have to accept that kissing won't go further until your relationship goes further - but at least you'll know. If it's related to a bad experience she had, then you'll have to win her trust gradually and show her you're really interested in her as a person as well. But until you talk to her, you won't know the answer.
Believe me, if you think it's strange kissing someone who keeps their mouth closed, you don't want to kiss someone who's only opening their mouth under pressure of ridicule or fear of losing you! Kissing has to be fun for both or it's not really fun for either.
2007-10-23 04:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Helen M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you know her for only a month, what do you expect from a kiss? Do you expect her to give you a tongue? Come on you are a guy, if you are sincere and if you are a romantic guy, your girl will know when to open her mouth and let you have tongue to tongue kisses. Patient my man, patient if you are sincere with her and not just for the kisses. In fact you are lucky that she allow you to kiss her after only a month old friendship.
2007-10-23 04:46:44 · answer #4 · answered by Ragnarok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww!!! Poor you.
Girls, in general, are turned off with guys whose breath smells like ***. There's nothing with your lips (i hope) but it must be because of your breath. Have you been smoking? Because smoking can cause your breath to smell bad. Coz u know what? Kissing a smoker is feels like kissing an ash tray.
2007-10-23 04:51:29 · answer #5 · answered by Zed23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just might not be ready for french kissing yet. If you keep pushing you could lose her as a girlfriend. I'd suggest backing off for awhile then letting her make the move when the time comes.
2007-10-23 10:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Spike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with your lips... it's her mouth that doesn't open is the problem, as you wrote...
try to talk with her about your want to kiss her with her mouth open... and that you want to have tongue to tongue with her and all that stuff in hot kissing... if she doesn't give in to your idea, well you have to accept that she might not compatible with your kissing method... she aint your good kisser girl... also, maybe she got bad breath...
2007-10-23 04:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by Cyril C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's scared of your tongue!! Ok, just kidding, but maybe she is slightly nervous, or a bit grossed out by the thought of it. Or... Maybe she had a bad experience with someone else.
I think you'd do best just to ask her about it. Just try and be sensitive about it.
:)
2007-10-23 04:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by Becci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every one kisses differently with different partners, you just have to adjust and form your own technique between you. If you really have a problem with it, why not approach her and say you would really like to kiss more passionately. maybe she is being shy or taking things slow and does not want to get carried away or maybe she just does not like it.
Either way you have to speak to her, no one here can help unless you know how she feels
2007-10-23 04:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just might be one of those ppl that dont like to french kiss.. i'm not a big french kisser either... but i do it every once in a while because i know my man likes it... so how about this for a crazy idea.. ask her if she likes to french kiss.. if she says no.. and you tell her that you like to and she doesn't stick it out every once in a while.. then obviously she's not willing to compromise.. and then that's when you find someone who will
2007-10-23 04:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by the critic!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋