my dad left =(?

Question

my dad a couple weeks ago left us now already having anxiety attaccks got worse its meessing up my life i dont know how to tell him and i get on our credit card accounts and his cell phone bills and find out hes going out with a girl in jackson and going out to eat no he works in hayward and clovis it feels like im losing my dad and i cant talk to any1 sum1 plz help me!!! i do not feel like living at the moment!!!

Answer 1

His leaving had nothing to do with how he feels about you. You will just have to accept that he and your mother could not work things out. There are so many children out there living in broken homes. Your mother will figure out what to do.

In the meantime, if you talk to your dad, you can tell him that you are very hurt, and that you need him to keep in contact with you. If you want, you can even tell him that you know that he is having an affair with a woman in Jackson. If he asks you how you know, just tell him that someone told you, and you can't say who, if you do not want him to know how you found out.

The worst of it should be over once they go to court for the divorce.

Answer 2

First of all, please see a doctor about your anxiety attacks, it is the start for resolving some of your stress.
Next, nothing that has happened is YOUR fault, but it does have its extreme affects on you, I'm sorry for you. Let your mom know how you feel so that she can help you. If you are in school, please talk to a counselor, also.

Let your mom take care of those credit cards, NOW! That way she doesn't have to pay for something he causes.
I'm so sorry that you are going through this, my children also had to go through this, you are NOT alone dear. There are so many children of divorces. Try to live each day as it comes and keep up your health so that you and your mom can live a decent life. She will need your support just as you need hers. My best to you both and much success!