is it normal for a guy to look I personally think its rude, especially if you keep looking away then looking again?Lol
2007-10-22 20:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is rude and disrespectful to you. let him know that it bothers you..and if he doesnt care or change then why you with that looser? maybe you should look too then, if he does it why cant you? if he doesnt want to stop then you need to let him go if he cant respect you, dont let him know how much its gotten to you, because thats just feeding his ego, just tell him u dont appreicaite it..why doesnt he do it in a way you dont know about it? like when ur not looking or paying attention..
2007-10-22 20:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just u r feeling overly-emotional right now, with what u've been through. As long as he wasn't looking at anyone known to him personally, I think it's ok. U say u 2 have watched porn togethr as well. He is in now way comparing u with those celebrity women (with the makeup and the touched-on photography, he's well aware, I'm sure!). I think the chief problem here is how u r feeling at the moment, and I'm sure if u were feling better, u'd think differnetly about this. Why don't u get some counselling to help u get over this state? I feel that would be the best thing u should do. Good luck!
2016-05-24 23:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will always look. It's their actions afterwards that count. I once knew a girl who slapped her boyfriend simply because he stopped 5 seconds and watches the t.v. because there was wet-tshirt contest on. That's going to the extreme.
I personally think it's alright to just look, now yes, sometimes it can be rude and to some it may be hurtful. But just ask yourself this question. Who is he with? The girl he's supposedly checkin' out or you.
2007-10-22 20:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by BeLLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between looking and staring. There are attractive people everywhere so it's unnattural to ask him not to look. But anymore then 10 seconds and he's staring. If this bothers you let him know. Make sure he's respecting you and deal with it. Remember the other girls he's looking at are not the one he's with.
2007-10-22 20:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by charles g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might as well get over it,,, because he will always look, and if he was not at least looking,,, something is wrong with him,,, if he stops looking at women, then he will stop looking at you, get the hint
Ask yourself, do you trust him? Obviously not, because you get mad at him.... He is going to leave you if you dont grow up and quit acting like an immature baby.
Ok now that you have thought about that, you can quit not trusting him, and just enjoy the fact that you and him are together and those other women are jealous of you!
dont worry about them, be with him, because he is with you
2007-10-22 20:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by More or less 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh yes. My bf does the same thing...after he cheated on me. So I am VERY insecure too. I think it is very rude. BUT the only thing you can do is tell him that it makes you feel bad. Do it when you aren't around. If he doesn't want to be looking at you, he doesn't have to. You get my drift?
2007-10-22 20:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by duckygirl606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaahhhhh yes - we al encounter this.
well men are visual -- this is their nature. and most of them don't know th difference between a glance and repeated staring.
ugh -- staring --not cool , a glance or even 2, no big deal, they just need tobe somewhat discreet - and when you catch them, they should laugh and say -- no worries baby -- youre theone that takes me home every nite!
try to joke about it, remember - every woman in the world is going thru it too. they are silly.
when a guy stares at you - when you are with your man -- you know it has happened to you, and you see their girlfriend or wife right nest to them? what i do,? i look at their pretty wife and smile -- and never look at him. she knows -- and she knows i know -- boys willbe boys -- whatever to them.
2007-10-22 20:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by shannonzeecannon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to look but he really doesn't need to look three or four times....and aside from the looking has he given you any other reason to feel insecure?
2007-10-22 20:22:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's just looking... why worry.
If he starts behaving immature... or goes further than just looking... then either tell him to grow up, or tell him where the door is.
2007-10-22 20:23:14 · answer #9 · answered by short shrimp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will be boys sometimes.
2007-10-22 20:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Jai 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋