Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

sunday started out to be a good day /we had breakfast/we painted the walls in the bedroom/ he got drunk/i started cooking dinner then he started to abuses me verbally screaming at the top of his voice,who he had to go around the bed room finish the snags after me /he said i was perfetic and should stand up for my self then out of nowere he jabed me in th arm with his finger i have a big bruies there now,monday morning i had showed him what he had done he said he should stop drinking,no sorry no nothing i hardley talk to him

2007-10-22 19:55:18 · 25 answers · asked by suzanne p 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I work oppsite shifts and we are always in a battle of who's doing what. He is tierd and so am I. I work nights and home doing all the mom things, making shcool runs, homework, you name it.
He comes home and does what he pleases. I need help on how do divide the work of our family. Don't get me wrong I love my husband. My question is how do we coinside together to get all the work done? It's been hard and it's taking a toll on our marrigae. I don't want him to fell like he'd doing all the work and I don't either, does anyone have the same life style and what do you do to make your and your familes life run smoother? My childern are 5 and 4. The chore wheel is not a solution, but rather a good idea. It's more of a battle between us. My oldest that is 5 helps when she is asked and my 4 year old, well he's 4 and you have to go behind him because he learning. My husbands fustrations are the same as mine, I just pick up the pieces if it does not get done.

2007-10-22 19:51:47 · 6 answers · asked by orangie 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a Nissan with a turbo and v8 engine (very fast) but I don't want to give a impression to her parents because my car is nice. should I drive a car not as nice or should I drive my car? does the car even matter?

2007-10-22 19:49:34 · 21 answers · asked by me! 1 in Singles & Dating

how many guys hair shave their chest / shoulder hair? and how often do you do it ? and by which method?

2007-10-22 19:46:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said to me over dinner last Friday that we should take a 3 day cruise in February. then later that night, he said we should go to Hawaii next July. We've been dating for about 11 months now. Is this a good sign that he's really into me and possibly falling in love? He teased me by saying that it would be a great place to get married. but in the past he's said that it would be a cold day before he ever gets married again. Give me your thoughts on this please.

2007-10-22 19:46:47 · 10 answers · asked by Charleight 1 in Singles & Dating

Heres the situation:
My friend messeged me on myspace saying to call her please and i did! She was just like hey im gna call u on my house fone. And then she didn't she ended up texting me telling me that she would call me in a few mins. She didn't So I was just like w/e no biggie.
I ended up goin on myspace and I saw that she was online. This girl that I don't like was commenting her and I thought my friend didn't like her either, and to the left there is this big picture of her on her profile with the caption 'tha best friend' above it.

2007-10-22 19:39:06 · 9 answers · asked by linda 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 19:37:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So a couple days ago I was at my friend's house partying, and my best friend's friend was belligerently drunk and was messing around and getting rough with everyone. Than, he runs at me while I'm peeing in the backyard and tackles me to the ground, I hit my head on a rock, split it open (not serious though) cut up my face and arms, and my jacket ripped...Than, obviously, I got extremely angry and started to fight him but people broke us apart...He was talking a lot of #$% and laughing at me so I said, "you ever do anything like that again, I'll kill you!!!" (not literally, but it just came out like that because I was extremely angry and drunk but some people took it seriously) Now, my best friend is mad at me because I "fought" at his house and threatened his friend...and he told me that his friend could beat me up and is totally taking his side...and he was saying I threatened his friend because I'm too scared to fight him - and he is totally taking his side...what should I do?

2007-10-22 19:37:10 · 9 answers · asked by puffer fish 5 in Friends

please dont laugh or say im too young cause im not in 15 yrs old, and really want 2 do it, but not sure how

2007-10-22 19:26:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everyone says it but they mean like to be your girlfriend not on a date and it just annoys me

2007-10-22 19:25:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

appeal. I like closeness with guys but I need him to be more dominant and a little on the "bad" side so I am kept on my toes. But the last guy I liked that was a little "bad" didn't try too hard to see me after we slept together once! We were friends, hooked up a few times over the course of 7 months, then finally had sex, then I haven't seen him bc we cant get our schedules togehter. BUT If he HAD tried, I bet by now I'd be over him bc he'd lose his mystery and sex appeal. I'm not sure why.. I'm already 31 and my parents are still married and everything but I wonder why I might get bored with guys. I think I need to face the fact that people have ups and downs but even my exboyfriend that I LOVED and found SO SEXY is no longer that sexy to me bc he calls me alot and seems needy and wants to be my bf again. HELP! When does the chase turnon end? and why do I feel mean about it??

2007-10-22 19:22:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a gothic lover.I like to find friends from some gothic sites.But I don't know which gothic sites are suitable for me.Anyone use this site http://www.gothicmatch.com/photo/gothicgirl888? How do you think of this site?If you ever went to this site, please tell me your idea. Thanks very much.

2007-10-22 19:20:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what turns you on?
or girls what do you think turns the guys on
x

2007-10-22 19:19:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can you tell me why a married woman who cheats on her husband with youger men knowing we dont want them as if they was young like our girlfriends and wifes who dont have children do they think we want them when there used up in that way we might have sex with them nothing more why is it so hard for them to see there nothing to us but . making there selves look bad only hearing from us what they like to hear are they that poticatic. in there minds all women dont degrade there families like this type you know the kind i am talking about

2007-10-22 19:19:26 · 28 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday,
I used google talk for a long time and chatted with my online friends. Actually, I have no friends at the outside and I have a lot of online frineds only in google talk. I love them so. Yesterday, I chatted with them for a long time. but they didn't reply to me why I haven't known yet. Probably is they were disappointed to me as I told them a lot and for a long time.

Now, I have no friends at the outside and online too, thus My name will almost to me "Mr. Lonely".

What must I do?

Should I find the new friends or apologize to the old friends?

2007-10-22 19:16:16 · 4 answers · asked by Kaung Kim Pyar 1 in Friends

People i need your advice...Well i need help i use to be with this girl and that girl use to be with my best friend for like a year and they use to love each other...so some years pass and she calls me and we start talking to each other so then she tells me she likes me and that she wants to get with me again but i dont know if i wanna be with her because i have a feeling that she still likes my best friend cuz she's always mentioning him and my best friend to...but i also like this girl because ive always had this crush on her ever sence ive first saw her and shes always nice to me and undestands me but idk if i wanna be with her cuz the last time i had a broken heart when she left me and i dont wanna have a broken heart no more...Also i think i might even fight with my best friend for this girl cuz his trying to tell me something like i think his trying to say to not get with this girl but i want to...people what do you think i should do get back with her or not?

2007-10-22 19:15:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel so awkward and embarrassed... this guy in my class first asked me out to dinner and I couldn't go and so I tried to make it up to him by asking him to come over. Well he did, and I was trying to flirt (TRYING to, haha). At the end of the night as we were leaving he was talking about how he needed to shave and how his facial hair looked bad and I said "no, it looks good." and that was the first blatant compliment/hit-on I gave him. And he just stared at me for a second, no smile. It gave me the intention that he doesn't like me anymore. Maybe I've been so shy he now thinks I am weird and doesn't like me. I give up! I will just close up to him. What do you think?

2007-10-22 19:11:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It sounds shallow but what i'm aiming for is not your "oh, she's hot" kinda reaction but a guy who actually appreciates a woman's look and only ONE - in his eyes, she's "beautiful" and loves her physical looks.

It is a given biological fact tha men are "visual" creatures. There is this guy....for years (as friends) he would never say "straight up", "you're beaututiful" but hint at it....he's been doing it for years but never thought anything of it and guy friends say if a guy really thinks you have good looks, it's a good deal. Turns out all these years he admitted he really had strong feelings for you - when i asked him i said, "Was it looks?" He said, "nope, it's both...looks and personality, if i can find a woman would both, then that's good..."

2007-10-22 19:10:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, whenever I ask a girl out, I dunno whether to specify it as a date or not. I dont like specifying it as a date because it might just scare the girl away. However, I want to though to let her know that I am interested in her. what is right?

2007-10-22 19:06:51 · 13 answers · asked by help me 2 in Singles & Dating

yes, it was a guy that did it.

2007-10-22 19:05:00 · 13 answers · asked by BRASiL 01 5 in Singles & Dating

if homeowner allows another to physically assault one on their property, does homeowners insurance cover medical costs?

2007-10-22 19:03:00 · 2 answers · asked by rubit0512 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 18:59:19 · 31 answers · asked by ShineOn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there such a thing as lovers & friends?!?!?!?
I have a friend that when we are alone we act as if we are dating... we say nice romantic things to eachother.... but we are friends in the eyes of everyone else.
So confused!!!!

2007-10-22 18:53:26 · 7 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a follow up to this question.... http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071020181940AAFGqaX&r=w

Gonna be long-winded. I apologize and appreciate that y'all may not like reading this. No hard feelings.

I checked the call-log in my husband's phone and got the phone number of the person he was talking to when he said what I posted in my other question (link above).

I decided that I had to find out for sure before making any accusations. So I created a VOIP (Internet phone service) account and chose the same number as hers with the only difference being one number off on the area code. I figured my husband wouldn't notice the one different digit.

I used that phone number to send him text messages pretending to be "the other woman".

2007-10-22 18:51:49 · 21 answers · asked by FRIED CHICKEN AND MAYONAISE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a first cousin? do you think it's not really a big deal?

2007-10-22 18:51:16 · 19 answers · asked by daiberino 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it normal or okay if my girl calls me just about every day, but skips a day here n there? does it mean she loses interest? or am i just reading too much into it?

2007-10-22 18:46:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is actually coley222007@yahoo. I can't stand this guy at work he has already made an immature comment about me having nuts in my mouth. He picks out possible weaknesses in people and preys on them. He is an idiot he thinks women should not talk back he told my coworker if she were in his country they would teach her where her place is! He tries to make me nervous and I am ashamed to admit but he does I know he is looking for any mistake I make so he can get a dig in. The problem is I don't want to have a problem with the company they are good people and they don't know that he is doing these things yet. I have already put my two weeks in not because of him, he just started there, but since I am leaving I want to get him good. I would like to prevent him from harrassing other female employees. I still have to go in there everyday because I work next door and we get ice and use their sinks.
What is the best plan of action to show him women in america don't put up with this sh*T

2007-10-22 18:43:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help please

2007-10-22 18:42:39 · 14 answers · asked by Mandy 3 in Singles & Dating

If my ex were to lose his job, can he petition the court to reduce the alimony he pays me? (He angrily informed me that he could get it reduced or suspended if he was out-of-work or made less money.) Our divorce was uncontested, we did the paperwork ourselves, and there was no verbage allowing for a change in income to change alimony amounts. We are residents of, and the paperwork was filed in, Nevada. All help and answers are greatly appreciated!

2007-10-22 18:40:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was talking about a friend and my guy said "she's pretty." Was it o.k. for him to say this.

2007-10-22 18:40:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating