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Yesterday,
I used google talk for a long time and chatted with my online friends. Actually, I have no friends at the outside and I have a lot of online frineds only in google talk. I love them so. Yesterday, I chatted with them for a long time. but they didn't reply to me why I haven't known yet. Probably is they were disappointed to me as I told them a lot and for a long time.

Now, I have no friends at the outside and online too, thus My name will almost to me "Mr. Lonely".

What must I do?

Should I find the new friends or apologize to the old friends?

2007-10-22 19:16:16 · 4 answers · asked by Kaung Kim Pyar 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

4 answers

Yoooooou need a hobby.
I'm serious, that's not like, some kind of insult. You need a hobby, it'll get you into contact with more people. THUS increasing your chances of finding somebody you can stand to have a decent conversation with, and vice versa.
Plus, hobbies are fun. Find something you like then do it. Then when people ask you, "Hey, guy. What do you like to do?" you will have something to say.
If you believe yourself to be annoying enough to drive other people away...well, that would suck. You don't seem annoying or anything, just foreign. So I think you're safe.
I still stand by my original advice, get a hobby. Read more books. Go outside and take a walk. Get away from your computer, it may be turning you into someone that has no social skills.
Keep your activities light and random, eventually you'll find someone that keeps you entertained.
Don't apologize to your old friends, you didn't do anything wrong. And yeah, you should make some new friends.
At least two, I think two new friends for you would do a lot of good.
So, good luck! Have fun! And don't sweat it, online friends are sometimes overrated.
-Sam

2007-10-22 19:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 4 · 0 0

If you are saying the same things over and over again, or if you sound ignorant, they may not want to talk to you. If you drag a situation out too much, people get impatient. So one wants to hear someone talk for 30 minutes before they get to the point.

I would think that it is probably something to do with your personality since you have no real friends. Maybe you need to read some books on how to communicate effectively with people. It may help you to make real friends and online friends.

2007-10-22 19:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0 0

i hope your online friends didn't put you on ignore.

the sad part about having online friends is that once they put you on ignore. there's no way for you to contact them again.
i really don't like it when someone suddenly disappears and never comes online again.

2007-10-22 19:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 4 · 0 0

Of course they weren't disappointed in you! No way! Perhaps they were simply not the friends for you - that is all it really is. Please don't blame yourself, or put yourself down one iota. Remember that God made you - and if you are good enough for Him, you are good enough for anyone.

2007-10-22 19:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by benje111 2 · 0 0

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