Well, whenever I ask a girl out, I dunno whether to specify it as a date or not. I dont like specifying it as a date because it might just scare the girl away. However, I want to though to let her know that I am interested in her. what is right?
2007-10-22 19:06:51 · 13 answers · asked by help me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should imply that you are interested in the girl for dating purposes. Don't be afraid you are going to scare her away. And if that does happen, she was not the right girl anyway. And remember that girls are scared too. But I know it takes a lot of courage to ask someone out, but the more you do it, the easier it gets.
2007-10-22 19:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Cold Heart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her do you want to hang out sometimes but specify it isn't a date then wait until the next time to ask her out on the date to see if the first outing goes ok.
2007-10-22 19:09:43 · answer #2 · answered by sexynysis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many times, an invite is meant for whomever's call is on the envelope. subsequently, if no visitor become referenced, then no visitor is invited. Are many of the different bridal occasion contributors engaged or married? if so, she would have been referencing those human beings bringing dates. while you at the instant are not engaged or married, she would desire to not be proceeding so which you are able to hold a date. it is likewise totally achievable that she felt she made it sparkling that the bridal occasion become allowed to hold dates, and that she did not sense the would desire to specify on the invitation. besides the incontrovertible fact that, in case you had the effect previously which you would be allowed to hold a date, that's totally appropriate to hold it up. i'd advise asking like this, "previously, you stated the bridal occasion having dates, besides the incontrovertible fact that, my invitation is addressed merely to me. what's your determination in my bringing a date or not?" that's showing deference to her, and not asking outright in case you are able to invite somebody. that's superb to be gentle interior the form she did not intend so which you are able to hold a date. As a B2B in 3 weeks, i've got dealt with some human beings assuming they could be waiting to hold a date (that I had not initially planned for), and asserting as plenty to me, which rubbed me the incorrect way.
2016-11-09 06:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by rimpel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference in how you ask a person to date you and how you ask a person to hang out.
When you want a date, you should always be clear. Do not ever use false pretenses. You will make enemies very quickly that way. Always make it clear, if you want it to be a date.
Just say something like this. "There's a really awesome band in town. I would like to TAKE you to see it Friday night." "Can I TAKE you to dinner Friday night?"
2007-10-22 19:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe i am old-fashion, but asking someone out constitutes as a date, doesn't it? according to my 18th year old brother though, he says asking someone out to "hang out" is not a date, so i guess it is better that you let her know it is a date if you mean it to be. you could always do the smile, "it's a date then" and see what her reaction is, if she looks shock and dismay, then be like "it'll be fun, don't worry", and if she looks happy and excited, you wouldn't have anything to worry about, would you?
good luck
2007-10-22 19:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it,s better to be up front tell her you would like to go on a date as boyfriend and girl friend, because if you don,t and you try to kiss her at the restaurant, it will scare her off. by her one rose when you ask her it works well a lot.
2007-10-22 19:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by artist at work. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of girls do you date that don't know you asked them out for one?!
2007-10-22 19:10:12 · answer #7 · answered by MissB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call it a date, if the feeling is reciprocated then she will be fine with it. If not, then you will at least know that it may just be a lost cause.
2007-10-22 19:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by tab_18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't even have to, I'm sure in the back of her mind she's thinking about it too. Just during the date, take it easy and slow by hinting it to her that your interested.
2007-10-22 19:12:28 · answer #9 · answered by Cali C. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it wouldnt scare me away. girls like the thought of dates. the only girls would would be "scared away" are the ones that really werent interested anyway.
2007-10-22 19:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by niugirl1114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋