People i need your advice...Well i need help i use to be with this girl and that girl use to be with my best friend for like a year and they use to love each other...so some years pass and she calls me and we start talking to each other so then she tells me she likes me and that she wants to get with me again but i dont know if i wanna be with her because i have a feeling that she still likes my best friend cuz she's always mentioning him and my best friend to...but i also like this girl because ive always had this crush on her ever sence ive first saw her and shes always nice to me and undestands me but idk if i wanna be with her cuz the last time i had a broken heart when she left me and i dont wanna have a broken heart no more...Also i think i might even fight with my best friend for this girl cuz his trying to tell me something like i think his trying to say to not get with this girl but i want to...people what do you think i should do get back with her or not?
2007-10-22 19:15:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u say she was with u before and stomped ur heart out right?
heres my two cents: she knows how u feel about her and
will use it as a control/advantage point. she seems like
from what uve said she wnats to be in charge of relationship
and was probably bailed on recently and wants ur stability.
i call them "zig zaggers" they go forward in one relationship
when that one has nothing more to offer she moves " up a level " ( in her opionon) and if shes dumped or hurt , she will
revert to a more secure spot or comfort zone. if i was u i would NOT show intrest beyond a friend level , that way u can
measure her commitment to having a relationship. old saying
" once bitten twice shy " ..... right?!
2007-10-22 19:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by acekingblows 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not! If you can't see happiness at the end of the rainbow then it must be pain and misery. If you already know it's a problem why do you have to learn the hard way you went through that the first time.
2007-10-23 02:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kind of confused me...but i only think that is because you are confused yourself..you dont want to go with this girl because of this and that girl because of that..it looks like you need to figure out yourself before you try to get into a relationship. follow your heart and your gut instincts. you should ask her straight up does she like your best friend..are we talking about one girl or two?
2007-10-23 02:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not worth that she would have not put you in the place for you to choose do you know if she really likes you or is she just trying to make your friend jealouse your friendship is worth more than her cause you dont know what she is planning choose your friend over her that is going to be the best way
2007-10-23 02:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by Tabitha K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how much u wanna be with the girl.....the girl who could possibly be the right one 4 u or ur best mate?choose 1!
2007-10-23 02:21:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to think about how much you really like her. AS a friend or more than a friend? If your still confused, think about your friend. What do you think he'll think about when he sees you? Think about how much she would really be if she was going to be your girlfriend. What will you guys really do together?
2007-10-23 02:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lolligob5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complicated Question. What's more important to you. Your friend or the girl?
2007-10-23 02:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋