It sounds shallow but what i'm aiming for is not your "oh, she's hot" kinda reaction but a guy who actually appreciates a woman's look and only ONE - in his eyes, she's "beautiful" and loves her physical looks.
It is a given biological fact tha men are "visual" creatures. There is this guy....for years (as friends) he would never say "straight up", "you're beaututiful" but hint at it....he's been doing it for years but never thought anything of it and guy friends say if a guy really thinks you have good looks, it's a good deal. Turns out all these years he admitted he really had strong feelings for you - when i asked him i said, "Was it looks?" He said, "nope, it's both...looks and personality, if i can find a woman would both, then that's good..."
2007-10-22 19:10:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in my mind there's 2 ways a woman can get a man's attention 1 is looks and another is kindness...
looks aren't everything, but if someone is attractive it can certainly help get a man's attention.. but looks can't KEEP a man's attention in and of itself - it takes more than that.
never underestimate what you can do to reach a man just by being kind to him.
2007-10-22 19:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by art_flood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experiences, a bloke can take a fair amount of punishment if they're dating a super-hot girl. But only for a period of 3 to 6 months, or as long as they're getting a fair amount of sex. But to get that man to fall in love with you, it takes so much more than looks. They've gotta be fun, caring, understanding, as well as having a peronality and a life of their own (men hate clingy women just much as women hate clingy men).
Men often have trouble finding the super-hot girl who's got a great personality and is caring, so they'll often settle for the fairly attractive one (say the 6, 7 or 8 instead of the 10) for the sake of being happy. However we all desire the 10, but there' not a lot of them that either want to be our girlfriends or treat us well.
2007-10-23 02:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
False because another woman can come along with a better body and get him just as hooked faster than you did
2007-10-23 02:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
False - Physical attraction may be the initial attraction but to be hooked takes much more..
2007-10-23 02:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by helix321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋