She called me yesterday in a sad voice and wants to consult something to me.But I was in my job,so we decided to talk that matters later.I did not how I feel if I need to listen to her or be friend her.She,my ex boyfriend and I met in the same company.At the time my ex courted me,they were already close as best friend.So she became my friend too.My ex and I had a break up because he is married and I did not want to be a home wrecker,although he decided already to leave his family for me..I quit on the job. Three months ago I and she had communication.She told me some negative things about my ex that some past girlfriends runs after him,etc.So,this just made me feel to forget him more.Although,my ex still sending me mails,I preferred not to response at all.I met another guy,a single and a serious guy.Later,I heard that she and my ex are having relationship.So she haven't called me for two months.To my surprise,she called me yesterday.Do I need to listen to her and give her some advice?
2007-10-22 21:03:58 · 6 answers · asked by Lucy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were right when you decided not to be a home wrecker. It was correct on your part to have severed all connections with him.Now, it should not bother you in any way if your ex has having relations with somebody else or with your girlfriend. All are now same as for as you are concerned. You never terminated your friendship with your girl friend as yet. If she wants to talk with you or seek your advice,there is no reason for you to disappoint her .May be she may not raise the topic of your ex. at all.
2007-10-22 21:17:47 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really feel lucky that you got out of this chaos.
If she feels like calling you, you should at least listen to her, I think. But the main question is: Is she a friend?
If so, then the question is none, you must help her. If you don't see her as a friend, then at least you should tell her that openly.
2007-10-22 21:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by Nova 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! Scary stuff. Depending on where you live and if she is actually stalking you and your friends (and you're not just exaggerating). You might be able to get a restraining order against her. If it's seriously bad, you should call the cops. If she's just annoying and not a real stalker, you have to ignore her. The more you respond to her, even if it's in a negative way, the more she solidifies her connection to you. Take the high road, boyfriend. Be a man and don't let her poor behaviour get under your skin.
2016-05-25 00:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i like
2007-10-22 21:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by kaushlandra p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not if you dont want to no. haha ditch her
2007-10-22 21:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to if you dont like..be true to yourself
2007-10-22 21:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by kawaii82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋