Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

I have been married for 6 years, and my husband and I have been having problems for the past three. We get along fine, enjoy eachothers company... but we've never had a very solid sex life. Actually, it's always been bad and no matter how much we try to "work on it" it seems to never get any better. Recently, I cheated on him. I know its a terrible thing, and I am horribly guilty about it. My question is, should I try counselling before ending this marriage, or have I already messed up too badly... should I just leave him so he can find a woman who won't cheat on him?

2007-10-22 08:17:57 · 11 answers · asked by lonleywife267 1 in Marriage & Divorce

post a pic of the 3 hottest people in your opinion.

2007-10-22 08:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happened? Why would someone write daily for 6 months or longer and then disappear without a word while ignoring e-mails, IM messages, text and SMS messages? ( and knowing full well that nothing bad happened to this person...they are just ignoring you)
Why would someone so sweet turn mean and vengeful on a dime, full well knowing that the silence would hurt you?
Any pop psychologists want to take a stab at this?

2007-10-22 08:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They didn't specify what type of fun. I'm assuming they want new friends? I'm a bit nervous. Should I take their offer considering I have nothing to do anyway?

2007-10-22 08:10:46 · 40 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Friends

my fiance and i got engaged 2 months ago. we are planning a may 2009 wedding, and are hoping to get a place together about 6-9 months before then. for now we are both living with our parents trying to save up enough moneh. now my mom has gone and decided to throw us an engagement party and keeps asking what we want, and what she should tell other guests if they ask. but we have no idea, we dont have a kitchen, so we dont know what we need, or what color appliances we want, or whatever! she's driving me crazy with this stuff. we have a full size bed, its brand new, but she insists that she tell people queen size bedding cause "we'll get a new bed" and she insists on getting us new dishes even tho my best friend bought me a set last christmas, they're leopard print, they're completely me, but my mom hates them and refuses to accept that we like them and will use them. i told her want we really need is stuff for our dog, which is a constant and we know we'll need stuff for her. help

2007-10-22 08:09:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know horoscopes and signs don't dictate how relationships work or don't work- just looking for something to talk about other than cheating and depression.

So is there anyone out there that can feel the pain (in a fun loving way) of being married to an Aquarian male?

2007-10-22 08:09:14 · 8 answers · asked by That Deal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been together for 3 years. i proposed to him Oct. 17, 2007 his birthday. and his answer was "I don't know." what do i do?

2007-10-22 08:08:45 · 21 answers · asked by jaeda_dog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what should be done with my engagement ring during our wedding ceremony? do i wear it on the other hand untill the wedding band is on?

2007-10-22 08:08:40 · 12 answers · asked by etak2007 2 in Weddings

has nightmares still, one parent dies, the other is sinister, prefers their sibs, no relationship because that parent is still crazy-abusive, they all (parents, sibs) "got away with" tons of abuse of every kind, the other parent is going to leave out the scapegoat kid from the (substantial) will, the other sibs just want more of the take...is there anything that the youngest abused kid can do before the last (abusive) parent dies, legally? Once that happens, all the assets will be scattered to the winds. The "statute of limitations" has long since run out, unless current nightmares make a difference.

2007-10-22 08:08:10 · 2 answers · asked by BS,MS,Ph.D 2 in Family

I've seen a few guys who seem to have quite a following and I'm wondering if the same applies for girls on here.

2007-10-22 08:06:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it's probally not but dont hurt to ask.

2007-10-22 08:06:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 08:04:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my dad never really had the greates of relationships..
Actually, it's been pretty shitty.
I don't live in the same state as him anymore, and when I have to visit, it is literally hell.
Now he is probably getting divorced from my step mom, which it's no secret that they got married because she was pregnant. I know things will be hard for him when they separate. It's also really hard for me to forget all the things he has said and done. I try to stay mad, covering up for feeling sad that me and my dad aren't close.
I know this is sad, the situation is sad, and has been for many years. I just don't think that I can be sad for him anymore. I'm not sure if I can put this behind me and try to sympathise for him,I think maybe I should, but is it worth it in the end??
Somebody help..

2007-10-22 08:04:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you think the guy's and girl's intentions are when going into this type of situation?

2007-10-22 08:03:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 08:02:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for seven years and things have been going from bad to worse...we hardly talk anymore, just argue and he refuses to go to marriage counseling. How do I go about getting divorced? The bad thing is we have a one year old together and my mother in law lives with us. We are living also in a two family house owned by my parents...

2007-10-22 08:00:52 · 9 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband cheated on me a couple of times, gave me so many excuses about his cellphone in the past. so now that i decided to work things out with him, i get angry when he does not call me to let me know he will be out. he cheated on me while on the job this is why a cellphone plays a huge role in our relationship. do i have a reason to be angry at him for not calling me or am i just an idiot

2007-10-22 08:00:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

describre

2007-10-22 08:00:11 · 18 answers · asked by Evan R 2 in Singles & Dating

gorgeous guys who treat them like crap over nice fat guys who treat them like queens?

2007-10-22 07:59:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Where inviting about 120 people 30 of them will be children under the age of ten.Most are out of town guest and the kids must come.I wasnt planning on serveing a midnite lunch.Any ideas or suggestions.I also have 3 differnt allergies,red food colouring,eggs,and seafood/fish.

2007-10-22 07:59:35 · 15 answers · asked by mish 2 in Weddings

Well, have a good one!! : )

2007-10-22 07:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-22 07:57:06 · 3 answers · asked by sillygurl345 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-22 07:56:23 · 27 answers · asked by Jeanette 6 in Weddings

She got her ideas across very well.

¿Communicated or managed to understand?

2007-10-22 07:51:46 · 11 answers · asked by lol 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 07:51:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-22 07:51:36 · 15 answers · asked by victor l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i stay in some apartments that are right next door to the school I go to. i signed a 12 month lease and i want to get out, because my roommate (she signed her own lease and I signed mine) she moved her boyfriend in the apartment with us, he's here all the time. She goes home on the weekend and leave her keys with him and he have his friends in here they come and wash there clothes here and they be in the kitchen cooking to. We also have a extra bedroom that nobody stays in and he let his friends come over and spend the night. I think it is totally disrespectful of her to let him stay here and let him do the things he do. i have wrote the managers 2 letters and i have talk to the general manager so i can move to another apartment and they haven't done anything. Do you think I can break my lease/

2007-10-22 07:51:30 · 5 answers · asked by joyej16 2 in Family

My mother makes an exceptional amount of money but she claims she makes way less (which is not true). She's asking me to pay rent but I'm pregnant, going to school and have a full time job (bf doesn't live with me). I also have an 18 yr old brother who doesn't work, skips school (high school) and has stolen money from my mother in the past. I plan to save up & move out but I can't do that if I pay her rent. That money could go to my savings. She refused to ask my brother to get a job and insists that the money come from me. She even demands to see by budget to see if I actually can afford to give her money. I want to tell her respectfully that I don't think it's fair for me to pay when my brother isn't but I wanted a parent's opinion on why she might be acting like this, I feel like I'm just being picked on. BTW, we haven't always gotten along bc she has a reputation on being somewhat of a bully with me.

2007-10-22 07:48:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This question came up in class and one guy said he would starve to death before he let his girlfriend do it. I told him wait till he has childern you will do anything to keep them safe and taken care of. So what does everyone else think?

2007-10-22 07:48:37 · 19 answers · asked by John S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-22 07:47:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce