Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

I meet a guy here.. he's single and younger.. Im married.. I thought I have a fun to chatting with the people online when hubby is on the business trip.. we had good time chatting with each other..
then he give me his phone #, want me to call him.. I never want to get seriouly with this guy.. just want to be friends with him..
Now.. he tells me, he wants me... and he wants to be with me...... How can people getting so seriouly in here..????
what does he wants..?? Thks for your time..

2007-10-22 06:49:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He always grabs my butt, just the other night we were talking and he even said that the assistant manager and him said that I have a nice a**. I think his heart is just broken because his girlfriend broke up with him.

2007-10-22 06:47:36 · 19 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 06:46:17 · 17 answers · asked by ParisianSkies_/^^* 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 8 years (married for 3). Recently I reconnected with an old friend on MySpace. At first we were just sending e-mails then it went to phone calls where we realized that we only lived 4 houses away from one another. I hooked up with him one day and we went for a ride. Well, one thing led to another and we ended up at his house. He makes me feel like I've never felt before. I think I'm falling in love with him. I hate to do this to my husband but he's all I can think about.

2007-10-22 06:46:05 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She's constantly making people tell her she's pretty. And if you don't say anything, she freaks out. She can't just sit there and take a compliment. What should I do?

2007-10-22 06:45:38 · 5 answers · asked by ♥bRoKeN 3 in Friends

ok, me and my best friend,Chris, started smoking weed one week when i came home from college for break. Me and Chris have been friends with our other friend, Arnold, since kindergarden and we all graduated together from high school. Well,we thought we would ask Arnold if he wanted to smoke with us, we brusted it pasted him a few times to gage his reaction before we truly asked him. Well anyways, he seemed like he would do it so we asked him but he said there was no way that he would do it. We asked him if he would not tell anyone and he promised that he would not tell. Well i go back to college and i get a call from my parents that they have heard that i have been smoking. Long story short, Arnold told his brother, who in turn told my sister who goes to high school with him, who then told my parents. They did not find out that Chris smoked but not my parents are going to randomly drug test me.
Should i seek out revenge on Arnold, and How?What would you do in my situation?

2007-10-22 06:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean something really bad that disappoints you, like being mean to other people, showing irresponsability, dishonesty, thinhs that can even hurt and damage other people. Should we show all of our disappontment, give a harsh punishment, ane even say things like you don't deserve my trust, is not worth my respect? Or should we handle things differently?

Should we forgive in case of sincere regret?

2007-10-22 06:44:12 · 7 answers · asked by Tania 1 in Family

Meaning, should I be physically present in the room, or is it better if he does it alone? I've heard both sides of the debate, just wondering what you think.

2007-10-22 06:43:20 · 47 answers · asked by Naughty ♥Angel♥ Mommy2B! 4 in Weddings

I am 22 yrs old
Prof.1:I HATE HIM!!~ still teaches me. Asks me if i need any help all the time. Wants me to stay after class and "talk". he doesn't give me any personal space when we stand and talk so i tend to stand away from him but then he asks me..why r u standing so far? and then he is like hmm...we should have coffee and i will explain things to u.whats up with that? he is like 27-28
i do not know what this really means but i dnt want to be rude with him coz i think he will lower my grade.I do not like him!!! god what should i do?

Guy 2:
he is really cool. took his class a few semesters ago. i asked him to do a favor and he is doing it for me. he calls we talk and yesterday he finished my favor and asked me.."we should have dinner sometime" what does this mean? he is a nice guy i like him.
they both not married or have a girlfriend..neither am i.

2007-10-22 06:41:39 · 12 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you celebrate it? (get anything)

If yes, What did you do or get?

If no, were you upset? Did you expect something

2007-10-22 06:38:22 · 7 answers · asked by Stuey 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my husband is cheating on me. We have been together for 6 years and have 2 young daughters. My husband is the sweesest man I have ever met. He is so attentive towards me. But I have caught him in several lies.

1.) He gave me an STD when we first got together. He knew he had it but was too ashamed to saying anything.

2.) I noticed one of our girl friends was calling him. I never thought they had a close friendship and was very surprised to hear messages on his cell phone and I also found out that he had been calling her cell. He said he had never been with her and swore that he has never cheated on me. I later found out that they had 'dated' before we got together. She was calling him to talk about ''her relationship''... supposedly.

3.) He lied about his divorce. He said she cheated on him but when I asked her, she said he cheated on her multiple tiems and that he constantly lied to her. He never admitted to being unfaithful but she caught him.

I am so confused...

2007-10-22 06:38:02 · 27 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22. I try to be a good girl and strict to my values by focus schooling, working, making my parent proud, being a virgin, being faitful to the one I love...

But it seems like the persons whom I love do not even acknowledge my values. Moreover, they end up hate me.

First..

This guy and I love each other for three years. I told him a long time ago --"I am not ready for a relationship because I want to accomplish my goals" He wants to wait for me. He waited for three years. Recently, he gave up. I have tried to explain to him, but he does not want to talk to me anymore.

Second..

This guy likes me for four years. I have been telling him many many times that "I just want to be friend" "You are my good friend" he did not understand and accept the facts. He tries to take advantage from me. When I defensed myself, he was angry. He did not want to talk to me anymore.

As a result, I end up being the bad person.

What can I do? What can I learn from these situation?

2007-10-22 06:37:09 · 20 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know what couples fight about, what they can't get past, and what is a major contributor in divorce, (specifically interracial/multi culural relationships)? Is it culture differences, communication, selfishness, not understanding eachothers feelings/views, in-laws, etc... or something else?

2007-10-22 06:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by I married a Tongan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my MIL and Sister in laws run the show in my house.
and my husband says that they are just helping u aroung the house.
i've explained to him that i need my privacy. but, he said "Sorry, I can't say anything to mommy, cause she will get mad" and this is normal. "why are you complaining, they are just helping"
but they come over and cook, clean, do everything for my husband. I wasnt brought up that way!
I want my PRIVACY!
any advice.
how can i tell my husband in a nice way? also, is this normal for arab MIL?

2007-10-22 06:35:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Basically me and my ex bf split up 2 months ago after 2.5 yrs as he said i'd been messing around with him when i hadnt. Anyway he moved on quickly and got a gf and i later found out that i was pregnant and have now found a bf myself who says he'll help me raise the child. My ex now keeps ringing and txting saying he still loves me and wants to get back with me and be a father so i told him to prove he loves me dump his gf but he said he cnt as she's moved in with him bt he'll ask her to go. Do you think he loves me or just wants to get together for the childs sake?

2007-10-22 06:35:45 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my grand father is a holocost surviver. his first wife and 3 kids got killd and he married my grand mother after the war. they had 6 kids, all happy and nice.
he never talkd to us about his first wife and kids whom he left in aushwits.
a couple years ago at a party my grand mother broke a story, which i think would intrest alot of poeple.
she started by saying that our grand father used to talk about his first family in the begining but she got upset and later not letting him talk about it and wanted he should totaly forget about what happend.

laelty about 4 months ago she fixd his blazer (jacot) and found somthing in a hidden pocket. she had to cut it with a cizer and thiere was a picture of his first wife!
she ended the story by telling us, that she feels sorry for not knowing what he felt all thees years, and we should be proud of our grand father.

2007-10-22 06:34:36 · 15 answers · asked by don v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 06:33:33 · 12 answers · asked by Cindy T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 06:31:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We had some one make them for us, but they're rather small. I think they're pretty cute and like them, but was wondering what you would think as a guest? I think our reception is going to be really nice: we're having salmon, prime rib, chicken cordon bleu, mashed potatoes, aspargus, salad, rolls, and even a little kid's buffet. We have the bridal cake and cheesecakes in place of the groom's cake. That's enough food in our eyes, so we didn't put a lot of emphasis on the favors....is that tacky?

2007-10-22 06:31:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm in the middle of getting a divorce from my wife. We still live together as she wants me to leave and I think she should. However, rather than keep fighting (especially in front of the kids) I am going to go ahead and leave.

She wants to keep it "amicable", as do I. However, she is nitpicking the hell out of me. Every little thing that she perceives as wrong, she confronts me with. For example, she wants to know how I am going to parent our children after I leave. Specifically, how I plan on being able to help them get their homework done and cook dinner for them. She feels that I am incapable of doing it so is "concerned" about how it will get down after we split.

Last night she was out on the town. I put the kids to bed and retired myself (not sleeping well). When she came home our 3 year old was up and walking around. She rode my azz this morning for being derelict in my duties as a father.

I now feel she will always do this. Should I just get a lawyer?

2007-10-22 06:31:02 · 14 answers · asked by Avatar 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My annoying brother will be in too. There will be me and four other girls! I known he wont shut up while the film is on! Help! We could overpower him! I have duct tape in the garage!! lol

2007-10-22 06:30:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it a turn off for you?

2007-10-22 06:29:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 06:29:39 · 16 answers · asked by john j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I try to help most of my friends with their issues, but don't have very much time to fix issues of my own. GAAAAAAAAHH!!

2007-10-22 06:28:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

life ebbs away and its death at the door step why r we so reluctant to go and r generally afraid. of what
pain or the unknown?

2007-10-22 06:28:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I moved here 8 months ago. I left my best friend, someone I have called my Sister for years and years behind. I do truly love her and care about her. We are close,a but different. I am business oriented, enjoy working, and can afford the luxuries in life due to the work I have do. In the past when we shopped I have always bought for her too. I mean bought, Chanel purses, Dior Glasses, if I got it and she was with me most of the time I bought her something too. My Hubby never liked this and whined but never told me I had to stop. She has never been able to afford the finer things in life and I enjoy helping her. I even gave her a Volvo. Since I moved here she rarely calls me. I have talked to her twice on the computer via webcam. I called her this weeked. All she does is beg for things. Send me this, I saw this, I need that. Why does it bother me now? Should I talk to her about it? Why doesn't she call me? I don't know how I should feel?
HELP!!

2007-10-22 06:28:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have been seperated for almost a year and I am filing papers as we speak. I have been cravely male companionship lately. I am by no means naive enough to believe that i am ready for a relationship, but would like to find a friend with "benefits". Any opinions on this ?!?!

2007-10-22 06:27:57 · 24 answers · asked by mutigernurse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I wake up in the mourning , the first thing come to my mind is you baby, just think how you doing now at this moment , if you are happy or sad , I just want to know , if you think of me the same as I do, Every moment you spend with , i feel im the king in the world, just saddest my heart when you how to leave, I just wish the next day happen it again , and again. I know everything we want it rarely come true , I hope had i genie i just wish , if you feel the same you come to me now , if not it never met to me , I will be heart break, but i think good memories , that is enought at least , but the most I love is our friendship , that why i think we met to be , it not my mind talking now, it 's my heart is shaking for you. just to close , i wish to kiss u now, but we are friend , i respect what that mean, you know how i feel , but just waiting u respond to me.

2007-10-22 06:27:06 · 12 answers · asked by Friend from heart 3 in Friends

My dad beat me and the rest of my family. He threatened everyday of our lives. Now he's dead.But now he's gone my mom doesnt listen, look or understand me. But that has been going on for the past 4 years. She screams at me.I know thats normal parenting but thats the only way we communicate.I feel as if she pushes me away.So Ive pushed her out of my life
Ive given up on trying to make her see how I feel.Because
she doesnt understand my poetry and thats the only way I find I can tell her how I feel.But all that does is makes her scream at me for not understanding then she says "make me understand" and I say "I dont know how" and it just keeps going on like that. Now I'm too the point where I'm planning my
own death. By the way I'm just 15

2007-10-22 06:26:58 · 16 answers · asked by angel b 2 in Family

This is reposted for clarity... the answers I were getting made me feel my questions was to vague.
My Situation: My Co-worker (the groom) is getting married on Dec. 22 in the Bahamas. (it is a very small office and we are all close) They are only having family attend and were originally going to have a reception here but are now NOT going to. They even set a registry. They are having Bridal showers & such (even a bridal type shower for the groom but manly) for those who cannot go to the wedding instead. (Both friends & Family)
Also- I just go married in June and they came to my wedding and got me a gift (towels valued at about $40) and I invited the bride to my shower but she did not come nor get me a card or gift for that.

So should I get them a gift... I dont think I should because I am not celebrating with them at all... no shower no reception nothing... what should I do???

2007-10-22 06:24:58 · 18 answers · asked by k_immi_e 2 in Weddings