Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

What Is the difference between what a guy feels at a strip club when watching a naked girl and the feeling he may get when in an actual relationship? I am curently not seeing a difference, in either case the body of a female is so sexually hypnotic that the guy will surrender to do anything a female wants/says whether its surrendering to the lap dance or surrendering to the "o yes dear" in a realtionship.
So is this whole thing we call LOVE made just so we continue to reprodcue others or is there really a deepering meaning aside from this.

P.S. This is probabbly when i do not have a girlfriend because i am think about things more than the average guy who does get lewered in. It is sad but are men being Lewered by women? Are the Women taking over for the next era and soon men will be bowing down in protest and asking dor more freedom and rights just like the women did back in the day?

2007-10-22 05:57:52 · 2 answers · asked by trphuong 1 in Singles & Dating

I have to say my stepsister is the coolest girl I've met in a long time. Our parents got married about six months ago after dating for only about four months. I didn't even meet my new sister until the wedding. We were kind of thrown into this whole new life together. Both of us were unhappy with the present situation and spent most of our time complaining to each other, and through that we really got to know each other. She's gorgous and she just carries herself right. I want to act on every feeling, but don't know what others might say. But I'm going crazy. Is it so wrong to like her?

2007-10-22 05:56:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my father dont think that my bf and i should be together.he is making progress with the moving out thing.he is starting to be okay with it.he still has a little trouble with it because i am his baby girl and i know he dont want to let me go.he is just going to have to get used to it because i am where i want to be.im happy and i have never been happier.like i said i have known this guy for 6-7 years and i have only been with him for 7 months.i know my dad loves me and dont want to see me get hurt but what can i do?he hasnt liked anyone that i have dated, what makes me think he is going to start now?he is starting to get along with him a little bit now but not a whole lot.how do we get through this?

2007-10-22 05:54:16 · 4 answers · asked by mama2be 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm an escort, i have a very regular client, who i've fallen for, he is in love with me too, i know i should cut the contact, but i simply can't afford to, he's my main client, any ideas anyone? no snide comments please, i'm not ashamed of what i do. we are both married

2007-10-22 05:54:00 · 34 answers · asked by chakra girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been going out for a few weeks and we hug and he kisses me on the cheek and stuff. i think he's just nervous to kiss me...i know if i kissed him he'd be well chuffed lol but everytime i go to i get nervous and chicken out...and it doesn't help that we're usually at school! but i'm gonna meet him tomorrow so like..can i have some advice? like EXACTLY what i should say/do lol please =] thanks x

2007-10-22 05:52:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ist date, 2nd date or later? Whats your rationale?

2007-10-22 05:51:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This has been bothering me ever since i heard of it but if a girl is sleeping with many different guys she's called a slut or a whore but if a guy does it he's called a pimp why is that??

2007-10-22 05:51:47 · 6 answers · asked by ஐ♥Angel Baby♥ஐ 2 in Friends

2007-10-22 05:50:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so this weekend my mother was telling me that my brother's fiance isn't speaking to her. my brother's fiance is going to be one of my bridesmaids. my mother wouldn't tell me why she wasn't speaking to her, and my mother was very upset over this. in tears, etc. so i finally got it out of my mother why my brother's fiance was not speaking to her......
she was upset because i am having gift baskets to give away as prizes at my bridal shower and she thinks that this was HER idea for HER shower and i was stealing her ideas! like wtf! doesn't everyone give away gift baskets as prizes for a bridal shower?!?
she was also mad that i chose navy blue as my bridesmaid dress color and SHE is having an ice blue color. so she thinks that i am copying her on this factor too! i chose navy because it is my favorite color! not because she is having a different shade of blue.
so my brother's fiance called me and told me that she would not be participating in my wedding because i am copying....

2007-10-22 05:48:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i do realize that i may have hurt someones feelings before but why should others emotions matter more than your own.

i dont mind telling the truth because it is sooo liberating. when i tell my boyfriend the truth, it feels good to me, he may be upset but i would rather that instead of him feeling betrayed and like he cant trust me because i lied.

im not perfect and i did lie to him before but i found out the hard way what it felt like to him. he was so hurt and he almost wouldnt forgive what i did only because i lied. he said if i was honest with him it would have helped a little bit.

we all know we are wrong when we lie. thats what i dont wish to do anymore. i am willing to take the consequence for every action i pursue and have decided that i will not lie to cover what i may have done but instead, i will not do anything worth lying over. i have been completely honest for the last year or so and i notice, all people are not weak enough to deserve a lie.

2007-10-22 05:47:35 · 3 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Singles & Dating

First of all my family is divorced. I have always gone to my dad's side Christmas Eve. My fiance also celebrates Christmas Eve with his family. Every year we end up spending so much time at mine, we miss most of his. This year is his nephews first christmas and would like to be there for that, but my family gets so upset if I don't spend the hole time with them! I've tried to meet in the middle by having it at our house, have it earlier anything but my family won't budge! Advice?

2007-10-22 05:47:12 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs K 2 in Family

I am looking to communicate with any Australian females, over the age of 47, must have a good sense of humour, enjoy nature and its surroundings, looking to find a friend first, and then maybe a lover. I am a lonely 58 year old Canadian male, who wants to find someone to care for, and who cares for me.

I am open to any helpful suggestions of how to connect with such a person down under in Australia

2007-10-22 05:46:18 · 1 answers · asked by coolcatcanada 1 in Friends

Best place to honeymoon?? Need help picking to many places to chose from.

2007-10-22 05:46:04 · 26 answers · asked by mark319438 2 in Weddings

I have a close family member (female/early 30's) that had a major cocaine/crack problem. I am not sure if she is still doing the hard stuff but she def does a LOT of pills. I am so angry at her for messing up her life that I don't even want to talk to her. She stole from our parents, lost her son, and makes no progress. She can't hold a job although every time I see her she talks about all the applications she filled out. How do you approach people like this? I feel she is selfish for putting herself 1st and not getting help to try harder to get her son back. I don't even want to be around her but she's family. Any ideas?

2007-10-22 05:45:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OK, hypothetical question; you have a platonic best friend that you're really close to everything is great with but no sex, and you have an uber talented f*** buddy who provides you with regular mind blowing sex, but there's not much else to the relationship. You have to give one up; which is it?

2007-10-22 05:45:54 · 23 answers · asked by SITSC 1 in Singles & Dating

I divorced my husband. He couldn't keep a job, he would pawn my things and ran up bills that he refused to pay. He was hot tempered and destructive when he got mad. He would punch holes in the walls, break doors and windows and hit me. He'd damage my car, he would smash the hood and rip off the mirrors and I got tired of it. I tried talking to him and he would promise to change but he never did so I divorced him.
My mother makes negative comments to me all the time. She told me she knew a woman who's husband left her and the woman died because she was so sad that her husband left her. I got my hair styled and lost weight and go to a chiropracter because of back problems and my mom told me well just look at you now, you really think you're someone special don't you? I had told her I was thinking of selling my house and maybe buying a condo and she told me, "What are you trying to do, be like Rose? Rose is a woman we both know that bought a condo over 25 years ago. What is going on?

2007-10-22 05:45:34 · 5 answers · asked by Vicki 1 in Family

I am going to purchase an engagement ring for the lady and was wanting to know of some good places to shop around and purchase the diamond.

2007-10-22 05:44:58 · 9 answers · asked by quickneasycat 3 in Weddings

and I've been trying to get a job because we're about to lose our house but I just cant seem to get hired i've submitted sooo many applications and they never call back I have good grades, I'm still in school and I'm 17 so I dont know what the problem is...any suggestions? thanks! :)

2007-10-22 05:44:40 · 20 answers · asked by RoXsTaRuh 1 in Family

We recently got married and when the groomsmen decorated our vehicle they put shoe polish on our black fender wells and we can't get it off! We've tried WD-40, high pressure wash, & scrubbing.

2007-10-22 05:44:25 · 4 answers · asked by sissy 1 in Weddings

my dad recently had something very valuable stolen from him (a truck) and the lady who took it is mentally ill. he got it back. we live in a very safe neighborhood, nothing ever gets stolen, everybody is happy, that was just a one time thing. it's just that, my dad wants to get a gun, and i would feel very uncomfortable at his house if he has one. what should i do??

2007-10-22 05:44:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-22 05:43:32 · 36 answers · asked by i wished i lived in nanaimo 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about guys who are smart enough to be for example physicists or surgeons. Do they usually date very smart women? I'd love to hear from guys who are in this group or women who have dated them. I know in the end its down to chemistry but do these guys usually connect with women of similar intelligence or is this important at all.

2007-10-22 05:41:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-10-22 05:40:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

put on somewhat reveiling outfits that they know are "reveiling"?
Is it for the Men or just feeling good that day?

2007-10-22 05:40:31 · 38 answers · asked by my_name 2 in Singles & Dating

What can I do about my mom not liking my boyfriend??? She liked him and was cool with him up until saturday. We went to homecoming, and got drunk, the police searched his car, then searched us. We got cited...and now ihave to go to court, i screwed up, and I know it...but now she doesnt approve of him. After this all happenned, he came to my house, and appologized, gave his number to my mom and asked her to please call him when everything cooled down. Besides the drinking fact, my boyfriend is a really good and respectful person, I just wish my mom would get over it. Im almost 18, and she somehow someway finds a way to put the guy i love down...any suggestions on how to get her to like him again????

2007-10-22 05:39:57 · 12 answers · asked by Des 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend n i have been friends for awhile n maybe like 2 weeks ago she started going 2faced just b/c the guy that im w she wanted to be w so bad what do i do if she wont come talk to me bout it?

2007-10-22 05:39:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So there is this girl who lives with me (she is my room mate) and we have been hitting it off really well. Whenever her ex calls she never tells me who it is and then today we were sitting on the couch watching tv and she said she needed to stretch so she gets up and before you know it her ex shows up. They keep talking for about 45 mins and then she comes downstairs sits next to me and continues like nothing ever happened. What's going on here? Is she playing me...

2007-10-22 05:36:35 · 12 answers · asked by Tix 2 in Singles & Dating

At a friend's little get together, there was this girl I haven't seen in a while that i knew and she was asking me where I worked and said she lived close to there randomly and was hugging me a few times saying "I haven't seen you in such a long time", then started convos with me and stuff but I just chalked it up to her being friendly.....I didn't ask for her number or make any moves because some guy that she dated before was there and they had private talks, and flirted with one another a bit and slept together in a tent outside. I know they're threw, but im not desperate. She is really cute, though, but why are women so confusing. She had her foot on his leg?

What does it mean if a girl strokes her foot on a guy's leg that was her ex?

2007-10-22 05:35:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why will a girl who knows you, and knows you like her give you her cell number, but when you call she first talks like she doesn't know who it is, and tells you to call back later, because she was somewhere where there is too much noise.

2007-10-22 05:34:11 · 5 answers · asked by niceguy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 ok, and my mom doesn't let me do nothing! She works 2 jobs and is never home. I think she needs a man and maybe she wouldn't be a b***h! The problem is she won't let me go to a weekend thing wit my friends cause guys are there. I'm tire of her sh*t and am thinkin about calling social services on her so I can't live her and will be able to go to the parties. My dad is dead (that's why she works so much) so I will have to go to my grandma's who will let me go....what should i do?

2007-10-22 05:33:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family