I'm 15 ok, and my mom doesn't let me do nothing! She works 2 jobs and is never home. I think she needs a man and maybe she wouldn't be a b***h! The problem is she won't let me go to a weekend thing wit my friends cause guys are there. I'm tire of her sh*t and am thinkin about calling social services on her so I can't live her and will be able to go to the parties. My dad is dead (that's why she works so much) so I will have to go to my grandma's who will let me go....what should i do?
2007-10-22 05:33:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Are you serious? Your mother works 2 jobs because your Dad died to support your ungrateful a-s-s and you are here griping and moaning about not going to one stupid thing?!? Oh, if you were my daughter you would be getting a job and learning what it means to help make ends meet!!!
Do you even know how much stress you mom already has in her life? Obviously you don’t!!! YOU ARE SELFISH!!! Blood is thicker than water, and you better remember it.
P.S.-False accusations are not a good thing.
2007-10-22 05:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Workcompguru31 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're not allowed to do anythign does not mean that you're abused. I feel that she should probably allow you a little more freedom, but she feels that it's in your best interest to protect you. She obviously loves you and is probably overprotective. Be thankful and don't call social services. If she were abusing you, she would not put clothes on your back or work two jobs to support you.
You might ask her if you can stay with your grandmother for a while, but if she says no, you will have to deal with it. You might also talk to your grandmother and ask her to talk to your mother on your behalf.
YOu seem to think that social services will put you with your grandmother when in reality you might get sent to a foster home and be separated from your family altogether though I doubt your accusations will carry any weight with them since you're complaining about your mother not allowing you to socialize with your friends which on the scale of abuse doesn't even register.
Social services is for people who are either abused physically or mentally or are neglected of which you are none.
2007-10-22 05:42:05 · answer #2 · answered by Allison P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Your mother may act like a B**** because she is a widow that has to deal with 2 jobs and lookafter your welfare. Maybe she is strict because she wants you to have a better life and more opportunites than she had. How could you think about calling SS because she won't let you out to parties on weekends? You would probably get into trouble anyway. Stay home, do your homework and thank God you mother actually cares enough to set rules.
2007-10-22 06:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by DAR76 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is working 16 hours a day to provide for you and this is the best you can do? Be sure to print your question out and put it away and when you are 25 you can print it out and then eat your words. By then your mother will be dead of exhaustion having died with a broken heart that you caused with your selfishness. Sure, call family services, and tell them you are reporting your mother for giving a d*mn about you. I'm sure they can use a laugh.
2007-10-22 05:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go a head and call social services so they can take you away and no you won't get to go stay with your grandmother. they will have to investigate your mother and your grandmother to see if your mother is unfit and if they find she is then they will check out your grandmother to see if she can care for you. meaning if she makes enough money and has the mental capability. now during all this investigating where do you think you will be? at your friends party? uhh no! you will be in a foster home with other kids that are really being abused and rapped and molested or starving cuz their parents don't want to take care of them. So you will have to stay at this house where people take in these kinds of children. So be real clear what it is you will be doing by calling. your mother is looking out for whats best for you. If you can't see that then your the problem not your mom and you should go ahead and call and find out if thats what you really want. get a dose of reality and how dumb of a mistake you made.
If my kids call social services on me i will pack their bags for them and have them waiting at the door so they can see what the world outside is really about.
2007-10-22 05:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by neverlie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO,NO! You are being a typical teenager. Ungreatfull and selfish ,how could even think about doing that to your mom. She is working so hard to provide you with a home ,clothes food etc. Or do you think those things just come out of the sky? You should be thankful for the remaining parent you do have. Go make your parents proud and do well in school and think about how lucky you are.
2007-10-22 05:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ana C pisces1976 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Who do you think you are by contacting Social Services just because your mother is working two jobs just to support your ungrateful ***! You need to stop whining and grow up! You should be thankful and blessed that you have food, clothes, and a roof over your head! You are nothing but a selfish person and you ought to be ashamed of yourself! If you are tired of her crap, then you need to move out! Besides, I have NO RESPECT for people like yourself who are very ungrateful!
2007-10-22 06:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her shoes. She is prob in a lot of pain over your fathers death and trying to hold herself together to care for you. Be lucky that she is strict and not letting you do what ever you want. You will get to do more as time goes on. Are you able to have friends over? You have access to the internet so that's a good thing. Just be a little more understanding and try to help her out as much as you can. Don't be selfish b/c you will regret it when you get older and don't make it harder on your mom.
Take care and hang in there girl!
2007-10-22 05:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you should slap yourself across the face. Read what you just wrote and you'll understand why. Be good to your mom, she does so much for you!! and yes, it is all for you, even if you think she is just being a bad mom. One day when you have kids of your own you'll realize this. I wouldn't let my 15 year old daughter go to a party with guys there either, do you want to end up pregnant before your 16?
2007-10-22 05:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by tricksy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go head, call them. When they find out you are a whiney kid who is doing this to be vengeful and to hurt your mom because she is being a good mom... well, hopefully they will file charges against you for filing a false report and run you through the ringer.
What an ungrateful and selfish kid you are. She should make you whiney butt get a job and start helping to support the house. Maybe you will learn to appreciate all she is doing for your ungrateful butt.
2007-10-22 05:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋