Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

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2007-10-22 05:32:09 · 29 answers · asked by morning breeze 1 in Singles & Dating

so heres the problem, our parents, my mom and his dad married about a year ago. We now go to the same school and I spend most my time around him. I think he's an amazing guy, he's funny and smart and exactly my type. Part of me thinks he may like me by the way he treats me and acts around me. But are these feelings okay? I mean, he's my stepbrother. We're not blood related though so my guess is that its not completely wrong to like him. I just dont think my mom and his dad would go for it, or what our younger sisters might think. What do you think? I'd really like if I had some help.

2007-10-22 05:31:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 05:30:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 2 year old daughter. She was born in my hometown Chicago IL, Her mother is originally from California. Her mother and I split and she went back to Cali with my daughter and put child support on me. I havent seen my daughter in almost a year. Her mother is holding a grudge because of the break up. As Part of child support I have to put her on my insurance plan. I tried to get IL HMO but it wont cover her in california. So they are forcing me to get Blue cross insurance for more money. Is there a legal or less expensive way to put her on my insurance.

(Insurance for all childreen in iL is manditory. They are trying to get as many people off the government assisted insurance in IL. by making fathers put the childreen on there insurance plan. But my child is not even in IL)

2007-10-22 05:29:54 · 3 answers · asked by Dr. Love 3 in Family

2007-10-22 05:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by spanky1492 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was dating a man...after 6months with him I had to break up with him due to his temper a week later he told me he was going to seek help for his anger issues, something did not set right with me....long story short....I found out after I broke up with him he moved back in with an exgf.....he was living with her and wanting to get back with me after he got his act together, he would say he loved me and missed..and all along he was living with his exgf...which by the way I found out from her that he was living with her when he first met me...and she also told me that now they are having sex....I just can not believe there are such cruel people in this world to hurt so many.........I am not sure now what love is or how it is suppose to be..he made me dinner and brought it up to my work and we ate together, gave me his tshirts that I loved made me nice gifts..ect so much ....and friends tell me now I was PLAYED!!?? so very sad, exgf said he cheated on her before and she took him back.

2007-10-22 05:28:29 · 14 answers · asked by ggggggg 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to have a ceremony and reception, but am on a tight budget.

Does anyone have any experiences with grocery store florists or bakeries? Was it really good? Did it save a lot of $?

2007-10-22 05:28:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we had little fight at the break up time cuz it was out of a sudden then am trying not to break up with such not ahappy ending !? cuz she means a lot to me !??? what is the most possible gift that she might appreciate ????

2007-10-22 05:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by marrious 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-22 05:26:25 · 31 answers · asked by Barbara S 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two best friends and lately when I've been hanging out with them 2 of us have mysteriously lost money. The 2 of us who have experienced this feel that the other "friend" has stolen the money on all 3 occassions. I've mysteriously lost $70 on one occassion and my other friend lost $200 on one and $50 on another. Im getting angry because we've been friends for nearly 8 years, I know she's capable, but why with us?? We share friendship tattoos!! What do you think is the best solution? I am so frustrated.

2007-10-22 05:26:18 · 11 answers · asked by Ace 5 in Friends

a good reason, why not just live a bachlors life....

2007-10-22 05:25:15 · 49 answers · asked by V C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 05:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by lincoln9057 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is offering me a chance to get out of the strict agreement of sexual abstinence in the chastity belt for a year, it is an opt out agreement after a month in the belt. I can choose to get out now and never have to wear the belt again or I can choose to remain locked in it with the possiblility of release after 11 months. My girlfriend hopes that I can continue to wear the belt to prove my love to her until 11 months later when we register as civil partner, she will be really sad if I choose to stop wearing it now. I love her and would love to continue wearing it but I am not sure whether I can commit to wearing the belt for another 11 months since I am really desperate now after a month in the belt without intercourse and masturbation. Should i choose to get out now or wait for another 11 months facing the propspect of uncertain possibility of release?

2007-10-22 05:23:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin is getting married and she's undecided. I suggested Teal and Brown or Teal and Gray.

What are some more unique and classy color combos?

2007-10-22 05:23:07 · 14 answers · asked by CK 4 in Weddings

i found a receipt of my husbands where he got his inspection sticker for his car at this business which is located right across the street from where this woman that he cheated on me with 2 yrs ago. he says that his friend took his vehicle to that place because the window tint on his vehicle is too dark and that is the only place were it would pass. he says his friend, who is a mechanic took it there for him. should i believe him or does that sound fishy? no rude comments plz..

2007-10-22 05:22:11 · 32 answers · asked by eliza l 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so my bf is the jealous type i cant talk to any other guy with out him getting mad at me and he knows that they are just my friends what should i do?

2007-10-22 05:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by ash 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband were enjoying some cuddle time in the bed this weekend and I started to feel "in the mood" so I did a few things and then went to take down my undies and he grabbed them to keep them up, we were literally fighting. I was trying to pull them down and he was trying to keep them up! What does this mean?!

PS No I haven't gained any weight, (5'5 /126pds), no recent fights or disfigurements LOL

2007-10-22 05:20:22 · 17 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I went to visit an old gf who lives far, far away. When I got back home, I got a Fed Ex package from her containing a pair of her scented undies...I didn't request this....And, yes, I am serious--this did really happen....What do you think?

2007-10-22 05:19:53 · 26 answers · asked by nakedtruth 3 in Singles & Dating

elmira,

The greatest prize sometimes carries with it the greatest risk and even greater sacrifice.


Elmira, with this ring, I give you the greatest love I could possibly give if you're willing to take the chance;


with this ring, I ask you not only of forgiveness but also forgetfulness;


with this ring is a promise to love and care for you for as long as I live;


with this ring is a lifelong commitment towards a beautiful goal;


but most importantly, with this ring, lies my hope of happilly ever after.

I love you with all of my heart.
Elmira will you be my wife, will you marry me?

2007-10-22 05:17:59 · 13 answers · asked by rj serna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like I've said before my husband and I have an 8 week old son. I do NOT feel like having sex in the least bit. My aunt who was like my mother died Friday, her memorial was yesterday. A friend of my cousins who I've had a crush on for 14 years has been a huge support for me. I know that I'm supposed to go to my husband for support, but he didn't know my aunt the way that I did or the way my cousins friend did. It's comforting to talk to him about it. The reason I wonder if I'm not attracted to my husband anymore is because I still find my cousins friend attractive. Though nothing would ever happen between us. We're both married and we both have a son. But why am I attracted to him and not my husband?? It makes me feel like such a bad wife.

2007-10-22 05:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with this guy for 3 weeks now.And we would hang out everyday.He said that he wanted to give me the world.He did so much to make me happy.But I am in the middle of a blackmail and I fear the drama isnt helping with our relationship.He said that he was going to be tied up this weekend and it wa nothing personal.I sent him 3 emails 2 were love letter types and one was concerning the blackmail.He only responded to the blackmail email and that was cold and blunt.I called him saturday at least 10 times and sent him 2 or 3 texts.I really regret it.Now i can get a hold of him at all. Did I scare him away?

2007-10-22 05:15:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Mmy boyfriend makes me go on to diets and tells me to wear heaps of make-up because he says i'm too ugly for him. I tried to brake up with him but then he gets on his knees and begs for forgiveness!
I even caught him cheating!
I'm not miss perfect and i'm afraid if I lose him I will not find another one!
HELP!

2007-10-22 05:13:57 · 27 answers · asked by Laganasita 1 in Singles & Dating

in some relative's property they dont like that business..they told my dad but he wont listen to anyone not even to our family people ...it created a huge problem in my family and i'm also affected indirectly by the problem...i feel sad and disappointed ...as my dad is not listening handing over the key of that property may be the solution.....i'm depressed ....i am helpless ...please some one help

2007-10-22 05:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

theres this new guy in school who i know likes me.. but we have nothing in common and i dont even want to be in a relationship at the moment! But he keeps trying to talk to me and all that in school and on msn and myspace... first i thought that maybe hes just trying to make new friends but everyone said that he never did that to them and that its so obvious :S well anyways, howw do i get him to back off? i dont want to tell him to just back of cuz its kinda rude and he never did anything to me to deserve that.. so any ideas?:S thanks

2007-10-22 05:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the story, My wife and I have been married for 5.5 years, and despite ups and downs we are generally happy. We have one child, a toddler, I am 26 and she is 31. In the past 2.5 years or so we have had sex 4-5 times. I don't know what to do this is a very imporant issue to me, I have talked to her, I tell how beautiful and sexy she is, I try to do things that are romantic, but most of the time due to schedules and financial constraints, all I can do is things so she won't have to i.e. clean the house top to bottom, paint the baby's room, ect. When we first met and even to the first weeks of our marriage we had a lot of sex. Not overstating my wife seemed to realy LOVE sex. We had some hard times in the beginning, but even when things were great like a year or so ago no sex. I try not to talk about it a lot or force sex on her, but the problem, to me, is getting bigger. I never want to cheat on my wife, and have never come close, the woman I want is my wife What do I do.

2007-10-22 05:11:17 · 71 answers · asked by goodkolo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many times a week do you and your spouse have sexual relations?

2007-10-22 05:10:02 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Long story short I met this guy a month ago, we had relations after 2 weeks. Things were going fine until a conversation came up about oral u know what. After that he started to become distant and he was always telling me I'll call u back and never would. I really liked him and thought the feeling was mutual but I havent heard from him in 6 days. Should I let it go or send him a text/ phone call to see whats up. The thing is Im not that kinda girl and I dont want him to think I am. I'm actually hurt by the situation and I'll regret it if I just brush it off? What should I do...or say?

2007-10-22 05:07:41 · 4 answers · asked by violet83 2 in Singles & Dating

My boy's best friend is a pervert! He has 2 kids from 2 different girls, he cheats on his girlfriend, and he hits on me! That is why I actually quit talking to him, cause at one point he was my friend. He also talks sh*t about my guy to everyone! It is almost maybe a jealousy thing? He looks for "tail" anywhere it is available.. he is just discusting! But my boy won't just end it with him! They have been friends for so long, I know it is hard to give that up, but I would have no issues giving up my best if she treated me that way! At some point, you have to put your self respect ahead of toxic friendships, I think. Being that this is how his best friend acts, should I be worried about how my boyfriend acts when he is alone with him? How should I deal with this issue? I don't want to try and tell my guy what to do, but I have seen "toxic" friendships, and I think that this is one of them...

2007-10-22 05:07:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband had been manipulative and verbally abusive to me for 26 years of marriage. I stayed with him for two reasons, 1.No job, 2.Three kids that I felt needed a Mom and a Dad. I did ask several times to have us go to marriage counseling. He refused. Now I have stated to him that I want a divorce and I don’t love him. Suddenly he changed to a nicer person. My question is: Can a person change over night? Do I trust that he has changed?

2007-10-22 05:07:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This sounds contradicting...but is it possible? Would some girls like/be interested in you but at the same time would not go out on a date with you? Possible? WHY? Opinions please.

2007-10-22 05:06:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating