i found a receipt of my husbands where he got his inspection sticker for his car at this business which is located right across the street from where this woman that he cheated on me with 2 yrs ago. he says that his friend took his vehicle to that place because the window tint on his vehicle is too dark and that is the only place were it would pass. he says his friend, who is a mechanic took it there for him. should i believe him or does that sound fishy? no rude comments plz..
2007-10-22 05:22:11 · 32 answers · asked by eliza l 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, we all know that trust is a hard thing to rebuild. He has to understand that even though you have forgiven him, you will never forget it. On the other hand, for the trust to be rebuilt, you have to be willing to control the feelings that may make you want to accuse him again. He is the one that has to rebuild the trust. You have to allow it to be rebuilt. I am not saying you shouldn't beware. I am saying that if you truly love him, then you wouldn;t accuse him of anything unless you had undeniable proof. False accusations can be as detrimental as the cheating itself.
2007-10-22 05:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Something tells me he's into no good and all the time in-between hasn't been coming up roses either. You need to go to where it was serviced and ask them directly..its easy to say someone else did this and that..but who are (were)they? Say something like you'd like to thank them for it etc. Why would a friend get involved in your affairs all of a sudden? That is, helping to take the car to service? Lame excuses? What did the car-mileage counter tell you? How about gas receipts? Lots of items that can be, if need be, checked upon. Where was the girl on the day in question? Become a dic and find out.
2007-10-22 05:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The window tint thing is TRUE. There are places where I live that will not pass inspection due to the tint and there are a few places that will pass it. I say give him the benefit.
Also, if he's going tio cheat- he's going to do it regardless! Don't worry yourself over it- what's it going to change? If you keep getting other signs that he's cheating then dump him... but don't torture yourself by dwelling on it. Take his word this time.
2007-10-22 06:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by surelycoolgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if he has a receipt that means he had the work done on the car. What'd he do? Go across the street while the mechanic pal wrote up the receipt and bang one into her?
I suspect you may be making more of this that there is. My advice is to sit back, wait and watch. If he's screwing around there'll be other signs. Don't go off half ****** until you have something alittle more solid to go on.
2007-10-22 05:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fishy but we do not know the truth. His friend does not tint windows so why would he had taken it he knows no more than your husband. Did the tint get changed? If it did maybe it was the truth. the only thing I can tell you is if you do not have trust you really don't have much.
2007-10-22 05:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by bigjuggies79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the friend if it's true and if you think he's covering for him then tell him your gonna call his boss and tell him he's been helping friends out by passing their inspections and taking money under the table for it. if he doesn't tell you the truth.. that could get him fired and he'll lose his mechanics license as would the place he works for.. also i would warn your husband that if he even so much as thinks about going to that side of town again, he wouldn't have to worry about his windows being too tinted because you could just bust the windshield of his car to take care of that problem... good luck but it does sound suspicious
2007-10-22 05:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like a fishy situation. For sure. Ask the woman maybe? Being with a cheater is just not worth the effort. There are nice men in the world who wouldn't do that to you.
2007-10-22 05:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Window tint my foot. All places have the same guidelines for inspection. Window tint has nothing to do with inspection unless it is so dark it impairs visibility... in which case it would not pass anywhere. He's making up a long winded story, that's for certain!
2007-10-22 05:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
way too fishy for me. I think he did cheat again. But you wont be sure unless you ask him and then he will probably lie anywys, you got to either A stop thinking about it *do you really want to know the answer my guess is no because the first time he cheated you would have left him* or B start snooping around but be prepared to leave this time bc i think you are going to find an answr that you dont to know.
2007-10-22 05:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mary L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
please don't take this as rude cuz it's not! some times the truth hurts tho!
the only thing i can say is
did he build that trust back up with you from him cheating in the past? if not nothing NOTHING he says or does will make you trust him!
there for he is cheating always!
do you really want to spend your time with someone whom you don't trust 100% ?
if so what do you get out of it? and can that be recieved from someone else who you trust?
that' the bottom line!
love is blinding so don't feel bad if you don't see it right away!
it will take time but I wouldn't trust anyone who cheated on me in the past infact they woudln';t be in my life not worth the heart ache!
2007-10-22 05:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋