My girlfriend is offering me a chance to get out of the strict agreement of sexual abstinence in the chastity belt for a year, it is an opt out agreement after a month in the belt. I can choose to get out now and never have to wear the belt again or I can choose to remain locked in it with the possiblility of release after 11 months. My girlfriend hopes that I can continue to wear the belt to prove my love to her until 11 months later when we register as civil partner, she will be really sad if I choose to stop wearing it now. I love her and would love to continue wearing it but I am not sure whether I can commit to wearing the belt for another 11 months since I am really desperate now after a month in the belt without intercourse and masturbation. Should i choose to get out now or wait for another 11 months facing the propspect of uncertain possibility of release?
2007-10-22 05:23:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you for all the advice, I have made up my mind, I decided to stay locked in the belt. I cant bear to see my girlfriend being so sad and unhappy.
2007-10-30 02:26:01 · update #1
Claire --
I've read your previous questions, and I don't know exactly what to think. Something tells me you're putting us all on, but something else tells me you're not.
If the latter, it's clear that you're a submissive, beyond just S&M but into total power control and bondage. This is a lifestyle you had with your previous boyfriend, and apparently one you have now with your girlfriend.
Only you can decide to what extent this life is appropriate for you, of course as long as it's safe and you're giving up this power over yourself willingly.
From a medical side, chastity belts often cause serious hygene problems, so you must understand that if you truly want to have all of this taken away from you.
Most of us just simply do not understand this life. We saw "Secretary," we have some cutesy idea about what you want, but we really don't get it. You have to ask yourself whether you get it. This is certainly a HUGE thing to be asked to do, but if it ultimately doesn't give you pleasure (to please your mistress and go forward) then maybe this isn't the partner for you, and she's asking you to do something way beyond the line.
Good luck, and I hope you make the healthy decision.
2007-10-22 07:25:35 · answer #1 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bonjour madam lol very funny one for madam: A country doctor went way out to the boondocks to deliver a baby. It was so far out, there was no electricity. When the doctor arrived, no one was home except for the laboring mother and her 5-year-old child. The doctor instructed the child to hold a lantern high so he could see, while he helped the woman deliver the baby. The child did so, the mother pushed and after a little while, the doctor lifted the newborn baby by the feet and spanked him on the bottom to get him to take his first breath. The doctor then asked the 5-year-old what he thought of the baby. "Hit him again," the 5-year-old said. "He shouldn't have crawled up there in the first place!" aurevoir
2016-04-09 21:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Claire,
Speaking to you as a friend, "option OUT of the belt NOW". If she really "loves you", you will find out quickly when you are out of the belt. This relationship is NOT all about HER. Its about BOTH of you.
Don't torture yourself anymore, nor your health or well being. Get out and live life and have intercourse when you want and masturbate when you want. Its healthy, as long as your "safe" about it..,...
Have fun,,,,Your young
--J
2007-10-22 06:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay in Chastity it shows you care and want to give control over to your partner.
2007-10-22 10:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by TK421 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's simply a question of whether you feel this commitment & relationship are what you want from life.
2007-10-22 05:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by tone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out now. if you love her and she loves you, whats the point of a belt?
2007-10-22 05:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds pretty crazy to me. Forcing someone to bear punishment is no means of testing love.
2007-10-22 05:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to prove that you love her. Get out now.
2007-10-26 22:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by cbtk07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really want to give up your life and self to someone who wants a slave? Your call.
2007-10-22 05:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by John R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in it
2007-10-22 06:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by sumisotico 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋