Me and my husband were enjoying some cuddle time in the bed this weekend and I started to feel "in the mood" so I did a few things and then went to take down my undies and he grabbed them to keep them up, we were literally fighting. I was trying to pull them down and he was trying to keep them up! What does this mean?!
PS No I haven't gained any weight, (5'5 /126pds), no recent fights or disfigurements LOL
2007-10-22 05:20:22 · 17 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No we didn't do it, I gave up and I did ask and he said he had to go to the store.
2007-10-22 05:41:13 · update #1
Because he didn't want to rush it, in & out of the store. Then back home to you for a little in & out, if you know what I mean. Man! 5'5/126lbs. you say, lucky guy he is. To have you pullin' down ur undies for him.
2007-10-22 11:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It could be that he's suffering from some kind of 'male issue' that he can't bring himself to tell you - I'm affraid to mention it but erectile disfunction could be on the table here.
It could also be that he's suffering from some kind of depression and doesn't feel up to sex with you.
It also could be that he's playing away; sorry to make such a cruel statement but better honesty then half truths right.
You need to talk to your husband and assure him that nothing he tells you will effect how much you love him and you need to give him time; but I advice that you stop pushing the sex issue for a while - just let him know gently that you would like it every now and then, take it from there.
2007-10-22 05:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by felixrpg 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
He just wanted to spend some cuddle time. Women always think we want what's in the undies all the time. There some dudes who can want to cuddle instead of there ladies thinking we can't. It is hard for us men but we can do it too. I guarantee it is going to be better next time.
2007-10-22 05:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would have to take that as an obvious sign that I am not in the mood, but I personally would just say so....I have had those times when the spirit was willing but the flesh was weak
2007-10-22 05:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by J c 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know. You will have to ask your husband after a few days. Maybe he wasn't in the mood. Women do the same thing...I don't know....maybe not bring it up again unless if it happens again!
2007-10-22 05:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by sunnysideup 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your previous question said that your marriage was over and you were going to clubs but didn't expect to find another man. Are you married or not? Your questions invalidate each other. Which is the truth?
2007-10-22 05:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by LAL 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not sure what this was about...i take it there were no kids about as to put him off...it's probably wise to ask him why he refuse to make love to you...unless there is a problem in your marriage that you haven't mentioned i can't think why he would turn you down...
2007-10-22 05:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by hanz2602 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Very strange! The strange part is why you are asking millions of strangers instead of your husband? Have you ever refused him?Maybe he is getting even!
2007-10-22 05:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe he wanted to do you with your undies on like just pull them to the side
2007-10-22 05:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by born2hunt_forced2work 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he wasn't in the mood...I bet there are times when he is in the mood and you are not...just guessing...i hope it never happens to me...lol
2007-10-22 05:27:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋