Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

im trying to forget about somebody i have been frinds with him fo r awhile and i started to like him as more than just a friend i started to like him more after we made out one night we were just hanging out and then he pulled me close and just started to kiss me after that he told me he wanted to get a little more physical but since he is 18 and i am 16 he wanted to wait till i was 17 he said that last tuesday and he hasnt said anything to me since i have tried to talk to him cuz i really like him and i wanted to talk to him about it but he hasnt responded i wrote him a message on friday night i know he has read it but he hasnt said anything back and in the message i told him that if he didnt want to respond i would understand but lately i have been really down whenever i think about him and wat happened that one night i was told that if i did the chasing i wouldnt get anywhere so i have been trying really hard not to say anything to himbut its really hard i need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-22 04:29:24 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

Over the last 10 years, I have maybe 5 times encountered women who wear this one particular scent. I don't know what it is, and it just drives me wild. I mean it's just incredible. I am married and don't want to look like I am hitting on anyone, but after years of scouring perfume counters I have been unable to identify it.

Ladies - is there a tactful way for me to ask what it is if I smell it on you without freaking you out or making you think it's a pickup line?

And after you write your answer - read it back and imagine it coming from a total stranger and make sure. I would have to do my best to hide my excitement at the smell of it.

2007-10-22 04:24:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 04:23:08 · 4 answers · asked by Erin P 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a Japanese engeged with an English guy I was with last year. We've dated for 10 months, entered a long distance, he came to Japan and proposed to me this July.
I wanted to be married to a person with stable income, but he was a contract IT programer (450 pounds a day, which might not be bad at all), and he needs to look for jobs everytime he changes projects. I never understood that mentality. I feel very worried about it.
At the same time, my very successful best friend proposed to me suddenly. He always told me that he loved me, but I thought that was about our friendship. It actually wasn't... he has the same value and view of life, and he's a lot mature than my current bf...
I was really in a mess last week. I thought of canceling my engagement, because it's not best to make big decision when everything is confusing...but today my fiance's mother was told she has cancer, and might die soon.
I can't stop crying... I feel like I can't tell my worries to him at all now...

2007-10-22 04:18:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Last night my husband wakes up to change our son becuse I was too tired I haven't slept for longer than an hour a day so when I woke up after him he calls me worthless and says I do everything half way. Plus he tried to kick me out earlier in the day and keep me away from our only child is a month old what can I do because this is making me very depressed and I can't be like that I have to take care of my child.

2007-10-22 04:17:41 · 22 answers · asked by stormieford 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like eyes, lips, etc

2007-10-22 04:13:00 · 25 answers · asked by Tilly j 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm tired of life, it's not fun at all.
I'm always sad, depressed and alone. No one likes me, I'm always stepped on and made fun of by people in college. I'm studying dentistry but I'm thinking about quitting as no one wants an ugly dentist.

2007-10-22 04:11:45 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my boyfriend's mom got into a fight from which we made up and everything is fine I guess now.

But yesterday my boyfriend left to go to his friends house and his mom and aunt were over. (Note: His great grandma also lives with us and is in the process of moving out, thats why his mom and aunt were over)

So anyway, I went into our bedroom and closed the door and took a nap. I had the covers over my head and I heard a voice. So I wake up to his mom going through his drawers. Im like, what are you doing? And she tells me she is looking for something she gave to him. So I call him and it ends up what she gave him, he has with him.

He is 28 yrs old and his mom doesnt live with us...What would make her so disrespectful that she comes in the room while im sleeping and starts going through our stuff? What can I do?? Me and his mom's relationship is already fragile seeing we just got over a fight. What should I do? I hate confrontation and will avoid this if at all possible. Help!

2007-10-22 04:10:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Sometimes I can't wait to jump back in the bed for an hour. Or just get back home to a very quiet house for the next 5 hours.

2007-10-22 04:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-22 04:10:17 · 17 answers · asked by faithto 1 in Singles & Dating

I have absolutely everything in common with this guy... he's just not very attractive. I know he will probably ask me to be his girlfriend soon, and I dont want to lead him on if this isn't going anywhere.
He's everything I could ever want in a boyfriend, except the fact that he's not great looking. Am I being shallow or is it like that for everyone? Should I wait until I find a guy who I find attractive as well? Ever since we started hanging out though, he's more and more attractive because of his personality. I'm not saying he's ugly, I'm just saying I usually date better looking guys.
What should I do? Help!

2007-10-22 04:08:01 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl for the first time and she was cool and I would love to be with her, We are going on our second date tomorrow night. She wants 100.00 for a cell phone bill she has with her ex boyfriend. What should I do???

2007-10-22 04:07:56 · 19 answers · asked by Wayne G 1 in Singles & Dating

She is hot and I had wet dreams about her and sometime I just have to let it out and I finally told her that I do the deed when I thought about her, is this bad?

2007-10-22 04:07:24 · 5 answers · asked by LBC-Lakers 2 in Singles & Dating

when a girl your not friends with but you both know each other and she said i was cute were both 18

2007-10-22 04:03:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you believe in second chances? My sister's BF cheated on her in the worse way, and now he wants to talk to her again. I don't want her to do so to avoid her getting hurt, what do you think??

2007-10-22 04:02:53 · 26 answers · asked by Mariposa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to have some bad boy appeal beause I heard girls like that. I don't want to be to straight forward and boring. What can i do that would make me look "Bad"... and appealing to girls?

2007-10-22 04:02:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

need to know i have 6 more years lol!!

2007-10-22 04:01:52 · 20 answers · asked by hppy2b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

That really makes me feel bad about myself. I admit that I'm about 30 pounds overweight and I do like spicy foods. He says I always smell like garlic, excrement, or lotions. I love him, but sometimes I wish I wasn't married. It's hell on your self-esteem.

2007-10-22 03:58:20 · 58 answers · asked by your_dear_old_mother 5 in Marriage & Divorce

and she wants to keep it, but i don't kno what to do,i want to keep it too. but she's just moved away cause of the guy(it wasn't me) who did it lives really close by her. so her parents moved her farther away,and now its hard for me to see her at all. any advice?

2007-10-22 03:57:22 · 9 answers · asked by javatheblob 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 25 yrs. old i have a daughter frm my exbf,she's 5 yrs. old. now...and i just get marrd 5 months ago,with my bf. we been together 2yrs now. we live together and there's just a problem with him and my baby,they just dont get along together i just dont know wich one i hve to give up,i mean i love my daughter so much she's my life and my husbnd too..but my husbnd what me to dscplne my daughter in his way i mean he said i dont know how to dscplne her.. she doesnt listen to me..insteand he want to use something like physical contact that's what he wants to to cause he said she doesnt listen ,but in my side i didnt let him do that,thats why we alwys fight cause i get mad when his doing it..and we end up saying lets just seperate but what can i do one thing is i know time they can wrk it out but its not good for my little gurl? right? and i'am pregnant please help i don't know which way i'm going if ever i left him whats going to happend.i love my daughter ill do anything for her.

2007-10-22 03:55:39 · 3 answers · asked by nikki_fer05 1 in Singles & Dating

We have 2 small kids and are thinking about more. We've considered money, stress, etc. My main concern is whether this will benefit my current kids by having more siblings or hurt them by having more siblings. I would like to hear from people with lots of siblings. Did you feel like you didn't get enough "individual" attention growing up? Or did you really love having a big family? I only had one sister and always thought more siblings would have been great. Any input or ideas for bigger families would be appreciated.

2007-10-22 03:55:07 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

I know sooner or later she will be coming to me. Crying wanting to get back with me. And by that time I will probably not care and think about how she ignore me at first. I have always told her " I only try to make things better once" Should I keep calling her? :( On Wednesday I start a second job that will keep me busy all day. Im thankful for that so I wont think about her n be heart broken too much. ( Some1 told her I cheated at a club) Its not true! But shes not letting me talk. Right now im trying to let her know thats not true. I know later i will not give a fk and will have her crying for me. I dont want that either. I just need to talk to her. But i dont know how if she ignores my calls n texts!

2007-10-22 03:49:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had an emotional affair 1 year ago, and my husband and I decided to stick together and work it out. He promised me he would be around more and act more responsible. But latetly, all he's doing is flipping out! He goes through my cell phone and calls all my stored numbers to make sure they are who they are. Even my relatives! why? because he stored that guy's number under an alias, and I accidently deleted it because I didn't know who's number it was in my book. But recently, he placed an add in craigslist and put my # down, so I have been getting many calls. Now he's accusing me of cheating with all those phone numbers calling me. I asked him if it was worth it for us to stay together and always have to be like this. And he said. Maybe...no definite answer? Why are we here then? I love him to death, but he always has to remind me everyday, when all I"m trying to do is live and learn.

2007-10-22 03:48:55 · 12 answers · asked by Laurellamags 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 03:47:39 · 10 answers · asked by area52 6 in Weddings

2007-10-22 03:46:21 · 14 answers · asked by sunil 2 in Singles & Dating

We're having over 150 people but me and my future husband each have very big families and lots of friends so a lot of people will be left out. I've been getting lots of questions from people I don't intend inviting about when they're getting their invitations and don't quite know how to tell them that they're not.

2007-10-22 03:45:23 · 15 answers · asked by peekaboo 4 in Weddings

18 years old, father barely in my life boyfriend is like my beat friend our families like each other we have had a couple of days but it turns to smiles in the end

2007-10-22 03:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by savannah b 1 in Singles & Dating

I was always told never to ask why me. If God intended for me to know everything then I would be up there with Him. Yet I cannot help but ask. Nothing seems to be going good in my life right now. I went from having money and a stable life to pennies just by choosing the wrong partner. One person ruined my life or what was my life. I am struggling all the time... I cannot remember the last time I was happy as an individual. Not a mother or daughter or sister. My family treats me like the plague. My only sister doesn't want to have any type of meaningful relationship with me. SHe has a life of her own, and my parents well my mom and I arent close at all. My father , he isnt around much....

2007-10-22 03:43:39 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i can feel even if i cant spell right

2007-10-22 03:41:18 · 14 answers · asked by sun-shine f 2 in Family

When a girl you like tells you she's dying her hair red

2007-10-22 03:38:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating