I'm trying to have some bad boy appeal beause I heard girls like that. I don't want to be to straight forward and boring. What can i do that would make me look "Bad"... and appealing to girls?
2007-10-22 04:02:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To appear or come off as indifferent to society is kind of moronic. It just sounds like you're trying to be someone else. And trust me, it may be fun and interesting to switch up your personality when you're sourting at first, but when they expect you to be like that all the time it gets old fast. The key is too be comfortable. You wanna act? Head for the stage.
2007-10-22 04:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Gosh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing that appeals to women is the excitement factor and unpredictable nature of the "bad boy". With an average day to day guy a woman knows where she stands with him. He tells her regularly how important she is to him. The bad boy has options and so he doesn't get too wrapped up in his interactions with this one woman because he has several others that would love to spend time with him anyway. A lot of guys can't wait to start telling a woman how special she is, how beautiful and hot she is. The bad boy might think it but typically doesn't need to tell her without making her work for the compliments.
The main issue you face is that it won't work to "appear" more like a bad boy. If you fake it, they'll see it and you'll have even less luck with women. You have to be who you are. If who you are isn't working then look to change some of your core programming.
2007-10-22 04:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want the kind of girls that are attracted to the "Bad Boy" appeal. They are always the ones that are rode hard and put away wet. They often are the most boring women to be around and often require restraining orders to break up with. I think the appeal you need is confidence. Don't be an a$$ hole. Play hard to get and take a more care free attitude towards things. A risk taker.
2007-10-22 04:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Personal Insult 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you even know "what a bad boy is" many ppl are highly mistaken by this.sure someone who plays hard to get , and is naughty can be appealing but that is only at the beginning what happen to the bad guy is that he wnats attention badly and after he gets it he will treat you like trash..would u do this to a woman? also bad boys has usually a lot of baggage and what makes a GOOD BOY now is that you make your baggage not a problem for the girl!
2007-10-22 04:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do don't start impersonating the boy bands who girls say they like because of their bad boy image.
Girls say they want bad boys but complain whey you aren't listening or show up late.
2007-10-22 04:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advantage to being a "bad boy' is you get more "first" dates..
Most of the time you don't get a second date, because the girl thinks you're a jerk....
2007-10-22 04:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk like a man and talk like man. Watch steve mcqueen films. he was badass. just be really cool. dont say much. hold your head up. know what good music is. have soul
2007-10-22 04:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some tattoos on your neck, Shave your head, and call them biatches.
2007-10-22 04:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself its worth it in the end.
2007-10-22 04:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't need 2 just be your self!! be who ur
2007-10-22 04:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by SARII 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋