18 years old, father barely in my life boyfriend is like my beat friend our families like each other we have had a couple of days but it turns to smiles in the end
2007-10-22 03:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by savannah b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is too soon to decide is he the one or not..
you need more time..
wait until 6-7 months,in that time you'll be fighting quite often..
during the fight,see how you guys solve the problem..
2007-10-22 03:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Salman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just imagine what a dad would say -- if he was in your life (and act accordingly).
Sorry, but when the 'Ooopsababy' comes, you'll see the Real Man and measure of who you're with (and it will be painful, for you - when the "great conversation" becomes: 'how do I know that it's mine'.) If I were you, I'd calm down the BS sex (it's your anchor, and the only reason the boyfriend is glued to you -- and that's not real life) and work toward something... if you're not ready to simply be a "plaything". The FACT is, you don't NEED a boyfriend to replace a man in your life (dad not there), and it won't do anything but pass the time... YOU must be 100% about improving yourself, and then let the bf date/you, take you out, spend and work for you... believe me, "hanging out" = kidding yourself/being duped... no matter your excuse.
If you know/accept your role, than more power to you.
2007-10-22 03:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should maybe take a little more time. There is a lot involved if you want him to be "the one" and I wouldnt base it on your sex life. At 18 there is a lot of the world you don't know yet. You need to make sure you have the same values, goals, objectives in life, and all that stuff, as well as financial stability. It can be hard to take care of yourself and twice as hard to take care of someone else as well. Just take it easy. If its meant to be there is no need to rush it :) Good luck!
2007-10-22 03:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by marbear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure if he's "the one," then why are you having sex with him?
You're only 18 years old and you know that the "sex is great," which means that you have comparisons? He might be "the one," but you're a tramp.
2007-10-22 03:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's the one for right now... Based solely on the information given, I would say, you should enjoy things the way they are, and try to build on what you've got.....
Give it some time, and don't move in too quickly...
2007-10-22 04:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see at your age you are getting very emotional,sex is only fun and i believe to fall in love you have to give alot (and don't xpect anything in return) and iam pretty sure that you need to think abut it five times before realizing that he is no 1 or ......?
Take some more time,i believe you are trying to catch the bus very fast.just relax and dont get emotional.
2007-10-22 03:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by himanshu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it too early for you love birds to find out. it takes years to find true love or the right person. you have to think about how is he going to be in the future such as is he going to work,is he going to support you,is he dependable,is he sloppy or clumsy,etc. some of the guys that i experience with turn out to be undependable,trouble maker,alcoholic,drug users,clumsy,lazy,no job,etc.
2007-10-22 03:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by LEXUSRY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already doubted him, right? Maybe you need to move on. I advise you to go to online dating site WealthyRomance.com, where you can find your college student, lawyer, professionals, CEO, whatever.
2007-10-22 03:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by joe t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he is the one? listen to the little voice inside of you. all the best ! and if you found him already, grab him tight and never let go.
2007-10-22 03:50:12 · answer #9 · answered by Veronica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe.
2007-10-22 03:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Green Phantom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋