im trying to forget about somebody i have been frinds with him fo r awhile and i started to like him as more than just a friend i started to like him more after we made out one night we were just hanging out and then he pulled me close and just started to kiss me after that he told me he wanted to get a little more physical but since he is 18 and i am 16 he wanted to wait till i was 17 he said that last tuesday and he hasnt said anything to me since i have tried to talk to him cuz i really like him and i wanted to talk to him about it but he hasnt responded i wrote him a message on friday night i know he has read it but he hasnt said anything back and in the message i told him that if he didnt want to respond i would understand but lately i have been really down whenever i think about him and wat happened that one night i was told that if i did the chasing i wouldnt get anywhere so i have been trying really hard not to say anything to himbut its really hard i need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-22 04:29:24 · 4 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have only been friends fo about 2 weeks, he did say that i was hot and had a great body and after the makeout he told me all the sexual stuff he wanted to do with me, he even said he wanted to take my virginity
2007-10-22 05:31:05 · update #1
Oh dear. Sounds like he likes having you nice and insecure.
Now love, this is going to be hard, but worth it in the end. Don't contact him anymore. Don't text him, don't phone, don't even look at him if you happen to meet him. If he comes over to you, be friendly, but move away after a short conversation. Make him work.
However, there's no reason you should avoid going to places if you think he might be there. Why change your life for him? Stay cool and calm and all will be well. Be nice but not too nice. And don't text, phone or otherwise go out of your way to see him.
2007-10-22 04:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are going to be so many guys in your life. right now just try and forget about him. focus on you and school. If he wants to be with you he will come to you. He knows how you feel. But also dont let him just come to you when he wants to make out and what not. Then hes just using you. but right now he might just be scared if you guys were really close friends because he might have thought that he ruined the relationship.
2007-10-22 11:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mary L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate more on what you wil be doing for a living. That will make your head spin a different way. Will there be a Jr college in your future or just babies, early on?
2007-10-22 11:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by huggl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust in what u want to do, it comes from ur heart, don't trust in what u know u must do thats coming from ur brain, u love with ur heart not with ur brain, if u did then u probably need special valentines day cards
2007-10-22 11:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋