I know sooner or later she will be coming to me. Crying wanting to get back with me. And by that time I will probably not care and think about how she ignore me at first. I have always told her " I only try to make things better once" Should I keep calling her? :( On Wednesday I start a second job that will keep me busy all day. Im thankful for that so I wont think about her n be heart broken too much. ( Some1 told her I cheated at a club) Its not true! But shes not letting me talk. Right now im trying to let her know thats not true. I know later i will not give a fk and will have her crying for me. I dont want that either. I just need to talk to her. But i dont know how if she ignores my calls n texts!
2007-10-22 03:49:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on poindexter...she has.
2007-10-22 03:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Shredded Cottage Cheese 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF you love her...GO to her ASAP!!! Otherwise yeah time will get in between at least establish some boundaries hers first then yours. Regardless if you DID NOT cheat she's the hurting one...so she takes priority well her feelings. It's your responsibility again IF you love her to talk to her face to face...and don't go empty handed. Hopefully this is your 1st offense. If it is flowers and a SINCERE apology is crucial. Really it's the APOLOGY. What will you offer her? A sorry? Or sorry about what? If you know what type of language she speaks that's the type of apology you need to provide. IF you know that a normal I'm sorry will not work with her you need to offer an apology that she'll accept with condition that you will try your best not to hurt her like this again. Try asking her "what will it take for her to accept your apology or YOU back?" Trust me don't take her for granted. WE ALL have a limit, snap crackle and pop time...sometimes we never recover and move on cause it's easier. Don't let your relationship end prematurely just because one of you can't be the bigger person and apologize. You might regret it later on...when it's too late. Best of luck.
2007-10-22 04:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously very hurt right now and just wants to be left alone. Maybe you can write her a letter and drop it off at her door and on the front just write "Don't rip this up until you read the truth" At least then you might stand a chance with her reading it. With calls and texts you can just not answer the phone and delete the text before reading it, at least with a letter she might read it if she knows you are not watching...or she just might throw it in the trash. It's worth a try though, if you really willing to work it out. Good luck!
2007-10-22 03:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would move on. Unless you have been in a long term relationship with her and this is the first time you have had problems, it may be worth salvaging. But if you have only been together for a short period of time, and have had a lot of drama, it may not be worth it. Best wishes!
2007-10-22 03:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by j c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
examine what it says on your divorce decree and custody papers. maximum enable for constrained telephone time daily. if that's the case, then touch your criminal professional and have him record an injunction with the courtroom. additionally remember, that's his time with the infants and until you enable him to call each evening to talk with them, do not assume him to do the comparable. uncertain what state you're in, yet in some states you would be able to desire to have the different events permission to checklist a telephone communication. you would be able to desire to enable them to be attentive to on the beginning up of the communication that the call is being recorded and that they might desire to agree. in case you reside in a one occasion state, then you somewhat've not something to be aggravating approximately. In some states recording without permission is a legal, so be careful and look at the regulation on your state governing this action.
2016-11-09 04:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she won't listen to you why keep talking to a stone wall, sounds like a waist of breath to me. If you are ready to move on do so, the quicker the less long term damage for you and her alike.
2007-10-22 03:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by L. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend...if she loves you or even likes you....she would have had listen to what ever you had to say... and about "making things better once" well that makes you a fool. Its like saying that Rome was built in a day. think about it and if she listens to what other people say...its because in your relationship, no trust was ever found. and a relationship without trust , cant be call a relationship
2007-10-22 04:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by mrpoma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs time to talk with all her friends and find out advice on what to do. Leave her a voicemail of your story, and wait for her answer. Respect her time. Dont rush her,, you'll just make her confused and act quickly rather than wisely
2007-10-22 03:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop calling her, leave her alone. She doesn't want to talk to you and you are aparently, misguided in thinking she's going to run back into your arms. She should have just proved to you that it's over.
2007-10-22 03:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by CC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her personally...and tell the truth to her... be a man... don't use cell phones...
2007-10-22 03:53:59 · answer #10 · answered by arnold 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call her from another number
2007-10-22 03:55:08 · answer #11 · answered by Glenn B 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋