I'm ugly, what can I do?

Question

I'm tired of life, it's not fun at all.
I'm always sad, depressed and alone. No one likes me, I'm always stepped on and made fun of by people in college. I'm studying dentistry but I'm thinking about quitting as no one wants an ugly dentist.

Answer 1

First of all, go get some beer or get someone to buy you some beer, then go find some ugly chick, feed her some beer, get laid, gain her as a friend, then sleep with her friends, they will give you advice, help you dress yourself, your confidance will boost, you will have groupies, and be called the stud! Have you seen road trip? rent it, learn from it, apply it...get some get some! Look at that dude on there....i am sure you are better looking than him. Who cares though....have fun...if you act confidant and be outgoing people will find themselves drawn to you and want to be your friend. Make some friend by getting involved in activities and clubs at school

Answer 2

1st thing you need to do is get some self-esteem. 2nd you need to like yourself! If you don't do that nobody else will see anything else in you. You should'nt worry if someone else likes you! your life is about you,not other people. You should take a real good look at what you think about you. It seems that u r having some other issues that u r dealing with. Take it from someone whoused to feel the same way.It starts within you. I used to weigh 325lbs at 4'2" so think about what i went thru.
I looked at what I was going thru and I changed things for me.Now I weigh 215 and am working towards 125-130 and I feel better about me 4 me. you arent ugly your lifestyle maybe. Start standing up to people I'm sure not all of them are fashion models either. Depression is not good fro your health,get some new friends,go some plaace different. Take a walk it may sound silly but it works. Its not good to feel tired of life,its a wonderful thing.
If those people are putting u down then they are the ugly ones not you.Putting anothe rperson down is mean,and very very ugly. They are probably jealous of you and thats their way of showing it. You will make a wonderful dentist ,you just need to know that 4 yourself. If you quit you give those other people what they want and you shoould never do that. You r surely better than them. So stand strong and start doing things that are going to make you happy. Change your hairstyle,buy some new clothes,or a new perfume or just treat yourself to something new it will be good 4 u. I know I went thru this too it works!!

Answer 3

Chances are you'll be wearing a facemask during most of your work, so you'll be fine. ;)

But seriously, there's someone out there for everyone. I say this because you posted this question in the Singles and Dating, though you seemed to talk more generally about life and you're place in it.

While things could be worse, I bet you couldn't imagine feeling much better. Some ideas you might want to try are boosting your confidence by really producing something that can be a source of pride for you. Write, draw, tutor, create something that makes you feel worthwhile, and that will contribute immensely. Develop your interpersonal skills by boosting your oratory skills. Become a better speaker, a better wordsmith, become more learned and knowledgeable in a myriad of subjects. This will help you get your foot in the door in a lot of social situations. I'm sure you're not as "ugly" as you may think you are, but people are always happy to be friends with a funny, intelligent guy.

Answer 4

You are not ugly!!!! Try to have some confidence. Fix your self up once in a while. Even if you are a boy think about getting your hair done! People don't care if their dentist is ugly or not! if you are being made fun of then try to stand up for yourself! if YOU think you are ugly then others will think so too! Fix yourself up then go out into the world and try to make some good friends!


by the way for the people who make fun of you, here are some comebacks for you:

You brain must feel as good as new seeing that you've never used it!

I'm ugly? do you OWN a mirror?


if i had i quarter for every brain you had i would be broke.


you want me to buy you a mirror? because by the look of your face yours are shattered into pieces.

Answer 5

Hey! Now your probably thinking 'Oh whats the point none of these people know what i look like and there all saying Don't Quit Your Beautiful' Well just you remember this. You are who you are and looks aren't everything. Be grateful for what you have been blessed with. Just as the song says 'People are all the same and we only get judged by what we do'. Everyone is beautiful in there own special way. Even if your not as good looking as Kate Moss (Girls) or Orlando Bloom (Boys). Don't quit, you have your whole life ahead of you. Don't let some stupid people get you down by making fun of you, there just too bored with there own lame life's!. Have Fun whilst your still young!!!!

Answer 6

Man I'm ugly, fat and have bad teeth, i dont have a car or a great job but i have some really good friends and iv been with some aw some beauty-full women, why, cuz I'm sweet, and kind, and caring and have a great personality. If you feel like you don't have these things they can be learned just get out there more make yourself available. I use to be pathetically shy but now I'm the opposite. All these qualities i have listed are so much more important than looks, cuz a women or a friend that is going to be worth keeping is going to be atracted to these qualities not how man pretty you are. trust me. And feel free to e-mail me i have allot of experience on this subject.

Answer 7

I mean this is the nicests way possible....... no wonder noo one likes you..... Think to yourself... if I was someone else, would I want to spend time with me?? Am I chatty and happy and fun??? People don't want to hang around a miserable person, as harsh as that sounds. It's very easy to blame everything on looks because that more or less out with our control.

No one cares what you look like to be a dentist.

No one cares what you look like full stop! The only advise I have is to be clean and hygenic. Being ugly wouldnt stop me from befriending someone but if they were dirty or smelly I'd maybe keep my distance.

Smile and the world smiles with you and all that jazz : - ) Maybe join some sort of club at college doing something cool like snoboarding? Thats always boosts street cred!

Also, I'm good looking in most peoples opinion.... but that didn't stop me being teased at school/uni or make me automaticall one of the "cool" people.

Answer 8

Well, you can be beautiful, by being extra nice to people or the community, help out, make donations, love everyone and hate no one, be honest, trustworthy, kind, loving, respect your parents and make people happy. If you think you'd be able to do all that, I am sure you will be the most beautiful person in this world.

Inner beauty is the most important in this world and it is everlasting.

Dont quit dentistry if you like it, you can be a beautiful dentist, if you always smile at your patient and everyone you meet.

You will be beautiful, just listen to my advise. I have a feeling you are beautiful.

Answer 9

Im sorry you feel so bad but there are a lot of assholes out there and im sure there have got to be some people who like you simply because you are who you are so chin up and do not quit you can do it !!!Besides when you are a dentist you will make some good money and if you stilll fell the badly about how you look you can get a little somthing done ...if you want. Cheers!

Answer 10

come on!!!! Don't be so negative. I am pretty sure that you are pretty in your own way. Why do you care what others think? You should have pride in yourself. Yeah with that kind of confidence nobody's going to want to be around you. I think that you are sad because you always but yourself down. I think that you are special because you are a daughter of God. Don't let others determine your happiness and your self worth. Look in the mirror everyday you wake up and tell yourself that you are beautiful!!! And when negative thoughts come to mind replace them with good ones. Write a list of all the good qualities you have. I am positive that others love you. If this does not help I think that you need to seek professional help. Nobody should be feeling this way. I pray and hope that you know that you are worth alot!!! I mean it :) and I am not just saying this to get ten points but because It saddens me to think that somebody feels this low. I hope this helped but talk to your family and closest friends about your struggles and feelings. I am also pretty sure that your campus has a counselor you can visit.