and she wants to keep it, but i don't kno what to do,i want to keep it too. but she's just moved away cause of the guy(it wasn't me) who did it lives really close by her. so her parents moved her farther away,and now its hard for me to see her at all. any advice?
2007-10-22 03:57:22 · 9 answers · asked by javatheblob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i kno i kno but we went out and it wasn't noticable,then she told me that,and she probly thinks i'll beat the crap out of the dude(which i would) if she told me who it was. i'm 16
2007-10-22 04:29:19 · update #1
and i have to tell my parents
2007-10-22 04:34:12 · update #2
Let me get this straight, your 15 year old girlfriend is pregnant by another kid and you want to keep seeing her and keep her (and his) kid. Is that right?!?!
Be there for her and be her friend (nothing more right now). She is going to need a good friend to get her through the hard times. Hopefully she learned a lesson - albeit the hard way - and she will be more careful next time.
2007-10-22 04:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Angela O 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A 15 year old having a baby simply means her parents are going to be parents and ALL I can say on the subject is I am only going to be a parent to the children I give birth too and I will be damned if a 15 year old of mines will EVER give birth or father a child. Hows that?
2007-10-22 04:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my my...i thought i was young to have my daughter at 17...
You know i think it is really nice of you to want to be there for the child, but you cannot take the baby father's place...
I would agree with some of the people, try to be more like a friend to her, cause it is not something you can just bring back...it's a baby, and it is a lot of work, i didn't think it was hard but wait until that baby turns 2-3 years old...lol
i really think it is wonderful that you want to do that though...16 years old is young to raise a child that is not yours, just think about it, it is a lot of work, and if you stay with that girl and raise that baby, you cannot just walk away when you don't want to do it anymore, saying that it is not your child, if you decide to do it, you have to take what comes with it?!
And if it is not yours, you can make one later, one that would be yours forever with a woman that you love...what happens if when she has the baby, well she wants to go back with the father??? just think about it but then again, you have a really big heart! i did not regret it but that was my decision!
2007-10-22 04:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm don't get involed cuz its not ur kid and you don't need to worry about it! trust me still be a realy good friend and a father like figure but resure the kid that ur not daddy. becuz it will get harder for you if sumone thought that you had a baby.
2007-10-22 04:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I gotta ask just one question. Is it like throwing a hot dog down a hall way or what?
2007-10-22 04:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by ☆ღWifey Wifeyღ☆ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
But how old are you? Are you really responsible enough to keep this kid with her?
2007-10-22 04:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life!
2007-10-22 05:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg good luck!!! cause u need it.
2007-10-22 04:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Run!!!!!
2007-10-22 04:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by Christy V 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋