Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

All my life I have wanted a school in the arts and so many times I have gotton close and something happens either with the place i'm using or money . I feel like I have a gift that can help change the lives of million of children and help them to grow up to be better, stronger and stay off the street. The arts changed my life and I know the way I teach it, it can do the same for so many children and young adults out there. I 'm starting to feel now like maybe this is a childhood dream because I keep facing so much opposion and I want to start my family now and I thought by the time im 30 I would have established this school and can devote time to my family. But im 30 now and all I did was have a bunch of almost there's. How do you no when to give up?

2007-10-22 03:36:40 · 3 answers · asked by juv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this guy want to go out, but none of my friends like him. They say he isn't good enough for me and i could do better. I know i shouldn't listen to them, and its my choice. How can i make them understand how i feel?

2007-10-22 03:34:06 · 8 answers · asked by sarahscadoodle 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my boyfriend kissed each other good bye like we normally do right. The other day when he did it we sort hit each others teeth. Do couples who are completly in love have a bad kiss. Like if your in a rush or something.

2007-10-22 03:33:36 · 10 answers · asked by jerseygirlprincess 3 in Singles & Dating

send them a thank you note?

2007-10-22 03:30:07 · 13 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4 in Weddings

Guy #1

- My ex bf of 1 year... I broke up with a month ago
- INCREDIBLY attractive
- Somewhat smart, funny
- Comes from a broken home
- Mom is only family member and she hates me
- Different religion
- Fought a lot with me
- VERY sweet when he wanted to be
- Not doing very well financially

Guy #2

- Not very attractive at all
- Very smart
- Comes from a good home and has a good family
- Well-off
- Very sweet
- Flirtacious with other women though
- Friends don't really like him due to past history (3 yrs ago him and my friends used to hate each other... we just came back into contact).

So which one? I really like them both.... and I'm so torn! Please give your reasoning. Thank you!

2007-10-22 03:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The boy is now 24, the girl 22, great kids. I was a somewhat strict parent and both have some resentments, though never got in an serious trouble. But last week I got to know that in 2000 my girl got involved w/ a bad crowed, drank and joined them in grafiting a wall and breaking a window. When she realized what she had done she asked my boy help. They got along, he had some money, they paid for the damages and nothing happened. They didn't tell us. As soon I as I got to know, I talked to my son, I was mad and disappointed. He just said he decided no tell us, because he was sure that was just a moment of insanity her sister went through and she regretted. In fact she never mesed up again and he thinks it was a very mature decision. In his opinion, igf I had known, I'd be harsh, wouldn't trust the girl, she's kinda sensitive and would suffer for nothing. He's sure that would have destroyed our relationship forever. Im mad, I feel betrayed, but my son is sure he did the best thing.

2007-10-22 03:25:11 · 10 answers · asked by Edson 1 in Family

Beside internet schemes that pay you five dollers a survey is their a way to make enough money to take care of your family and stay home. I can't take this job thing but i don't want to leave my family stuck with out money.

2007-10-22 03:20:55 · 20 answers · asked by juv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are both 20. She refused to let me talk broke up with me and hung up. I called her 40 times and didnt answer. I know she loves me and she is just heart broken and probably thinking worse things. I did not cheat! I dont know if I should keep begging her to talk or just let things be. I care about her, but the fact that she believed some1 else and ignored my calls hurts me. Should I keep calling?

2007-10-22 03:18:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every time my husband and I argue he seems within a few minutes after he will watch and tv he is fine then he talks to me like everything is normal it takes me days to get over an arguement . Our last arguement yesterday when i walked out and went to another room he turned on the tv and started laughing at a show and i got so pissed. I went in the other room and said how can you just sit here like everything is ok. Then he says I am OK you need to fix yourself. I used to keep a journal and he found it so he says why don't you go write in your journal {that really pissed me off} So I said things I want to change about our relationship and what i don't like he then says ok i will work on it. I know it sounds like nothing but that made me even more upset i felt like he was just dismissing me. How do I just move on like him after an arguement. I try not to hold on but i feel like at the end of an arguement we should talk and feel fine again not just ignore things and let time fix it

2007-10-22 03:17:19 · 12 answers · asked by juv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I cant reach mind intimacy with guys I like, I'm always distant also if there's phisical involving.
A boy told me he likes me and wants to pass the more time with me, but I cant trust, my mind tell me he may like me just for sex, rebound, anything.
My first love when I was 16 loved me at first sight and the whole thing was so pure and innocent because he chose me and "chased" me and we were young enough to wait for sex things .
I feel like with every guy I met I play chess cards, and give body hoping he will love me.
what I want is unconditional true love.
i dont' believe in modern love.

2007-10-22 03:16:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was playing a game on my boyf's mobile. He new this as he showed me how to play. I was bored so i lokked at the photo's on his phone, not messages or anything like that.
And he had rude pictures of ex girlfreinds on there. Boob pictures, below the waist pictures and videos of them masturbating.

I beleive this was all befor we got together three months ago, i wouldn't mind if they were normal pics of a day out. But these intimate pictures bother me.. What should i do???

2007-10-22 03:15:34 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

FALL LEAVES"


Roots grow deep, like friends that know,
leaves that fall with a luminous bright glow.
Colored blazon in subtle struggle,,,changes of color,
make your angelic smile light,, like no other.

It is fall and time to see, a reflection deeply sad,
winter beckons, and our souls are surely glad.
Why do elements not so true, keep us perilously far apart?
special love we shared shall never valleys have us depart.
We are not together in person, yet hunker down,
'sometimes blissful, yet missing,,, you I see around,

Your my shine,, an important hand,
A friend indeed, I will never demand.
Anymore than two souls share,
without you now, fall leaves stare.
At our mission,,,, which we share,

"FALL LEAVES"

2007-10-22 03:15:06 · 4 answers · asked by tommy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for 2 years but together 4. My husband has no job and sits around playing video games all day. We have a two year old son together. I have told him that I was unhappy and the straw that broke the camels back was when I wanted to have sex with my husband because I am a very sexually active person and he told me having sex with me is like a chore. I started talking with a man that I work with who is older. We started flirting and things just progressed. Now this other man and I are having sex. At first I didn't tell my husband that I was having an affair and he found out. I can understand that he is mad and hurt but when I go out with this other guy he says he doesn't want me to lie about where i have been. So I told him the truth and he asked me if I had sex with him. I said yes. He called his mom and his mom called and asked if we used protection. She said that I in WI you can't get divorced if you r pregnant. Is it true, if I do get pregnant?

2007-10-22 03:10:51 · 9 answers · asked by hleichtnam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There's a rumor floating around my family, that I'm bisexual-which is not true. & for our birthday, I gave my twin sister a card & money, & the card was a kitten giving another kitten a birthday present, & she didn't speak t me for a long time, & she thought I sexually wanted her. What is wrong with her? & then she said my brother brainwashed her into thinking that. I have a friend who's BI, but I'm heterosexual. They think I'm BI, too but I'm not. My brother tried to convince her to think I wanted her to do a 3-some with me & my friend. Why is my family so sick-minded like that? I'd never think of doing something like that. & after she told me that, she kept calling me all day, trying to waste my cell phone minutes on purpose, just to waste my time. Why does my family keep trying to hurt me by lies & rumors? & my twin sister falsely accused me of trying to murder & molest her kids & my brother also thinks I sexually want him, but he also kept ringing my phone off the hook.

2007-10-22 03:10:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a great relationship with my honey. A while back I realized that she treats me great and that I've never been happier. One day we were getting out of the car and I saw she was carrying a package and fumbled with it while opening the door. She got frustrated and at that point I vowed to never let her open a door or carry a package when we are together. It's several years now and I've kept that promise. Male and female friends have told me I am coming on too strong. My honey's never complained. I think it gives her some self esteem knowing that she's so loved and respected. Is there anything wrong with what I am doing? Is it possible that the new way of thinking says women and men should be treated the same? I see nothing wrong with it. What do you think?

2007-10-22 03:09:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so i was at a family wedding this weekend. It was lovely. However i am concerned that when all the scheduled dances accur that people are going to be bored. I really want the bridal dance, our first dance, and the father daughter, mother son dances, but would it be tacky to have everyone join in after we have started the dances?
I just dont want people to get bored?

2007-10-22 03:09:43 · 9 answers · asked by Gotta luv it! 4 in Weddings

My guy friend invited me to his house party. My ex boyfriend, also my best friend, warned me not to go, but I did anyway because all my friends were going. Being drunk, I hooked up with a guy there, but not anything serious like sex. If drunk can't be a good reason, I don't know any other reason to why I did it, because I was on the verge of getting back together with my ex. He told me not to go because he was worried I would get drunk and do things, but I reassured him I wouldn't, and yet I did. Before this incident, we've been so close, hanging out at each other's houses, and now he won't even speak to me. When he sees me, he turns and walks away. I've sent him e-mails apologizing for reassuring something I couldn't do, but there has been no response. I don't know what to do. It's been a while and nothing has changed.
There's so much more to it, I can't explain everything here, but if anyone has a lot of time on their hands, please help me through e-mail. Thanks!
luv. Mel.

2007-10-22 03:09:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guy 1/
1) What do you honestly think of his looks (Be honest)
2) Is he attractive?
3) Describe his face (In detail) be honest
4) Does he have a girlfriend or is he single? Based on looks
5) If he came up to you in a nightclub and started chatting
you up, what would be your reaction?
6) Ask yourfriends what they think - would they date him?
7) What are his chances of getting a date - based on looks?

http://i234.photobucket.com/albums/ee256/azazaz107107/L1040012.jpg

1) What do you honestly think of his looks (Be honest)
2) Is he attractive?
3) Describe his face (In detail) be honest
4) Does he have a girlfriend or is he single? Based on looks
5) If he came up to you in a nightclub and started chatting
you up, what would be your reaction?
6) Ask yourfriends what they think - would they date him?
7) What are his chances of getting a date - based on looks?

http://i234.photobucket.com/albums/ee256/azazaz107107/024.jpg
Your age?

2007-10-22 03:09:11 · 25 answers · asked by azazaz500300 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 03:05:26 · 3 answers · asked by L 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf for 8 years (we are high school sweethearts) We have lived together for almost 5 years. I know we are considered married (he filed me as his spouse on income tax). Things have gone sour and he has become physically violent. I am going to sign an arrest warrant today but I am going to make him divorce me. Is this the best thing for me to do? He owns his own business and has provided a lot of support for me and my child. My car is in his name only and I am scared to death about having rent to pay and other bills. I have never been good at managing finances. I know I can do it because my child depends on me. I just don't know if this is going to be the best route or not. Any advice is appreciated.

2007-10-22 03:05:09 · 11 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok well I had a Halloween party last night and my CRUSH can and we played this game called saredean and we had to find a person and if we did we had to hide with that person and anyways we played that game and Well I hided with my crush and he was like opps i sliped and hugged me but the thing is that he did it twice then we played this thing where we had to dance to then when the music stopped we had to hug someone and we huged a lot then we played another game when u had to hug some before the other person could and HE tackled me and landed on mmmmmmmmmmmme HELP ME what does this mean does he like me or what and just now he said that i was Really Really Really pretty and last night u looked hot does he like me well he ask me out

2007-10-22 03:04:40 · 3 answers · asked by cutieschool344 1 in Singles & Dating

he has ended a 4year relationship for someone whom his parents want to marry?please help me?this thought is driving me mad?

2007-10-22 03:02:46 · 8 answers · asked by soniua28 1 in Singles & Dating

if you had 6 months till you got married do u think you could find someone better than the person you were about to marry? would you try and get to know other people? see the thing is that im about to get married but i am afraid that my fiancee might meet someone better than me and that we wont get married.

2007-10-22 03:01:33 · 35 answers · asked by jessyka_g 2 in Weddings

Im a 27 yr old woman in Georgia,been married for 4 and a half yrs...been controlled financially not allowed any money of my own,and i have no self esteem,im also sick and suffering from medical problems,I dont know where to go for help,but I just cant take this anymore,ive been isolated so I have no friends...

2007-10-22 02:58:36 · 16 answers · asked by entra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have decided to seperate. She is actually the one walking out on me. I found out she is "talking" to another man. She has not done anything with him or so I think. She is 20yrs old and I'm 24. We have been married for 2 yrs, and we have a 2yr old son. I will admit that in the past when we first got married, I did some stupid stuff, talked to girls on the internet. But I have never went out with a girl or met a girl.That was a LONG time ago and she forgave me for that. Now, recently for the past month, she has been talking to this guy on the phone and texting. She said she would quit so we could work it out, but she is still doing it. She said he says things that make her feel good. But my question is, I have been supporting us this whole time, paying for EVERYTHING. She right now makes more then I do as far as income.Has not paid anything. She is leaving.. we have a house. How would the custody workout? I want joint custody. Can i get it? How bout the house? Please help

2007-10-22 02:55:45 · 10 answers · asked by hotncguy18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

http://www.alexiadesigns.com/main/?p=189

Ok so my maid has a huge tattoo on her arm so she wants a wrap but some do not. So would this look good with it?

2007-10-22 02:55:06 · 12 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

my husband is navy and is divorcing me after being married for a year and ahalf and says he only has to pay me spousal support one time. i'm not sure he's had a affair i have some proof but it may not be enough, cause i know the military frowns on that. what we have is a house two vehicles and a loan all of which he is the primary, i am the co on one vehicle and the loan. do i have to pay any of this debt since he is primary. he wants to split it down the middle but he's broken my heart and i want to leave it all with him because he thinks divorce is going to be easy, and for what he has put me through i think he deserves all this debt. we have no children, i just wanted to know a few things about military divorce before i get a lawyer and restart my life, he wants to file uncontested but i'm comp against this and am claiming adultery and mental abuse, i'm not sure if you can request he get alcohol and anger help in a divorce he really needs it, he has broken my heart !!! please help

2007-10-22 02:55:03 · 11 answers · asked by born2ride04 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother has been estranged from her husband for 4 and a half years. Neither my mother or stepfather want to deal with a divorce. They have an 8 year old child together and just don't want to deal with all the mess. They get along o.k. they just can't live together. So what exactly IS a legal separation, why do people get them, and how do you go about doing it WITHOUT a lawyer. I'm asking about the "without a lawyer" because my mother is extremely broke, and can't afford one. She is looking into section 8 housing and needs proof that she isn't with my step father anymore, so I thought that maybe a legal separation would work. Any Info would be GREATLY appreciated.

2007-10-22 02:53:24 · 2 answers · asked by Laura S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy friend says I'm cute and he likes me and wants to go with me but can't go with me because he says he can't be trusted, and he don't wanna hurt me. He wants us to stay very close friends, and if he's ready for a long term relationship then I will be the first person to know.

2007-10-22 02:52:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Would you be happy if a girl gave you homemade food, such as cookies or brownies for your birthday, or would you be happier with something else?
Or should it be homemade food plus something else?

2007-10-22 02:51:54 · 11 answers · asked by in l♥vee 2 in Singles & Dating