My guy friend says I'm cute and he likes me and wants to go with me but can't go with me because he says he can't be trusted, and he don't wanna hurt me. He wants us to stay very close friends, and if he's ready for a long term relationship then I will be the first person to know.
2007-10-22 02:52:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What if I like this guy and want us to remain friends, even if he says he can't be trusted and doesn't wnat to hurt me.He wnats to stay close friends like we are.I love who he is too.
2007-10-22 03:06:07 · update #1
Don't forget he likes me too.He doesn't want things to change.
2007-10-22 03:08:57 · update #2
Dont worry be happy.
2007-10-22 02:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Fuzzybutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he's playing the game of 'wait and see.' He is stringing you along. If he were truly serious about you, then you would be in a relationship already and not wasting your life waiting for him to decide what he wants. If he says he can't be trusted, then take him at his word and move on. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone like that! You can still be friends, but date other guys. Life's too short to be waiting around for others.
2007-10-22 10:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boyfriends come and go...true true friends stay forever...in my opinion there is friendship between m and f but as long as you leave romance outside...if this happens once...then the game is over!what hurts me the most is that you can't really remain friends with an ex-boyfriend...it's impossible..so everytime i don't wanna lose someone sex and romance stays out of it...think about it
2007-10-22 10:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just letting you down in a nice friendly way. find another guy friend and you will forget all about this one.
2007-10-22 10:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by howie r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy. Guys are better of when they are mature. That guy is a kid who thinks hes a younger kid. Wait afew more years.
2007-10-22 09:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Colder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You should be happy that he isn't your boyfriend... Don't get mixed up with him... He sounds like a user of the worst kind: 'He tells you he's going to hurt you before he does it'.... Please move on, and see him for the jerk that he is...
2007-10-22 10:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my pt of view: maybe thats just reasons that he uses to avoid being more than friends with u...
my friend's pt of view: at least he is aware that he is still immature...be happy
2007-10-22 09:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by sue83jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good how he expressed himself, he wants u to understand and he can make ye both happy
do be happy!!!
2007-10-22 09:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by amelia!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows himself well...... so y regret wen he wants u 2 b his frind!!! go ahead and become frinds dude.....
2007-10-22 10:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋