I'm 25 yrs. old i have a daughter frm my exbf,she's 5 yrs. old. now...and i just get marrd 5 months ago,with my bf. we been together 2yrs now. we live together and there's just a problem with him and my baby,they just dont get along together i just dont know wich one i hve to give up,i mean i love my daughter so much she's my life and my husbnd too..but my husbnd what me to dscplne my daughter in his way i mean he said i dont know how to dscplne her.. she doesnt listen to me..insteand he want to use something like physical contact that's what he wants to to cause he said she doesnt listen ,but in my side i didnt let him do that,thats why we alwys fight cause i get mad when his doing it..and we end up saying lets just seperate but what can i do one thing is i know time they can wrk it out but its not good for my little gurl? right? and i'am pregnant please help i don't know which way i'm going if ever i left him whats going to happend.i love my daughter ill do anything for her.
2007-10-22 03:55:39 · 3 answers · asked by nikki_fer05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's ashame you and your husband didn't discuss child rearing before you got married especially with another child on the way. Your child's welfare always comes first. Both of you should seek counseling and try to come to a compromise. If he's so easy to call it quits in the marriage. . . well cut him loose for peace of mind for you and your children. Good luck!
2007-10-22 04:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There can be a lot of factors going on here at one time. One of the many is you and your husband. He sees that your daugther is getting away with murder and you are just looking at her doing the crime. He feels you need to get a grip on her before she gets too far out of hand. You feel you don't. So you both need to sit down and be on the same page when dealing with her. Set some boundaries with him and her and follow them. If not, there will be hell to pay for not following the rules you both agreed to. He is also upset at you for not disciplining her and he feels resentment towards your daughter for that. Kids will try to figure out what makes mommy and daddy get upset at each other and work it to death. Maybe your daugther want s to see her daddy and she is acting out on it. You will have to sit with her and see where her feelings are. If you want your husband there to just listen, agree to that before you start talking to her. Congrats on your pregnancy.
2007-10-22 11:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave me and be over with it. If he's that bad with your daughter than he's not worth staying with. He apparently can handle himself after you leave him. If you want to marry someone be sure that him and your daughter get along first and don't marry anyone who your daughter is hostile to.
2007-10-22 11:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Green Phantom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋