why do you need to marry??

Question

a good reason, why not just live a bachlors life....

Answer 1

You don't need to marry. But, some people WANT to marry.

Answer 2

Dear vc u asked a typical Q. we are a social live so as the social life it's complosory to marry. If u are young u can't understand coz u have power, passion and beauty but when u became old u need a person who will care u when u will not beautiful or u have no power. That time the person that u marry prove to be a good friend who will care u help u go with u, when you have no command on your body he will help u. When u will feel problem and want to share any thing to any one no one listen u that time he will listen u.........
And more u can find u'r self.........

Answer 3

You don't NEED to marry. It is not a requirement for you to live on earth haha. However, I think that people want to get married because some feel the need for companionship and partnership. It is easier (if you marry a good guy/girl) to raise a child with both parents around ,where-as if you live a 'bachelors life' and someone gets pregnant it can cause a TON of problems and not be the exciting even that it should be.

Answer 4

If you are in a relationship there are legal protections that marriage offers that just living together doesn't.

Such as: your spouse is your next of kin and can speak for you in a medical situation. Your spouse can inherit (depending on the state you live in) all or a portion of your estate in the event you die without a will. It's easier to purchase real estate together, and you have the right of inheritence with jointly owned real estate. You have survivorship rights to pensions and social security benefits. When the marriage ends in divorce there are protections on what kinds of compensations each spouse is entitled to.

Now if you are not in a relationship and you are looking at the benefits of the single vs. the coupled life, that is a whole other topic and it would depend on what you want out of life.

Answer 5

Marriage exists in every society, because it protects women and children. Women can't support themselves straight after childbirth, and marriage makes sure that they can look after children without starving to death. It provides a stable, safe environment for both partners to come home to.

Although that makes it sound like only women would want to get married, statistically, married men are happier and live longer than single men, while married women live the same length as single women, and if anything, tend to be less happy. Which is weird. Maybe it's the part about having kids.

Answer 6

Being single is great, but the bond between a happily maried couple is incredible. For me, it was because I wanted to start a life with my girlfriend. There is an accountability that goes along with marriage as well. I never thought I would want to be married, but I matured, and realized that we could support eachother, the idea made sense. A good reason to me might not be good from your point of view. It needs to be your own. I hope this finds you well.

Answer 7

many reasons
1. Its a necessity of society
2. You get a best friend
3. A life partner is only the person who can care you in the older age and will participate equally on the all occasions whether it is sorrow or happiness.
4. Physical requirement is also may be a big reason because it is more enjoyable with whom do you really love.
5. you will have legal children and they will never ashamed of that he belongs to a single parent.

Answer 8

In my opinion, it is not actually a matter of "need" but a "choice".
A person can be single for life if that is what he/she wants. If he thinks he's happy being single then he has the right to remain as one.
Marrying, like any other commitment, is a choice that one makes because it makes them happy (ex. because of love) and they would want to see their future in the same scenario that they picture when they make the choice (ex. forever in love)....
But ofcourse, there is this percentage of the population that marry due to selfish reasons so be careful. It's going to hurt so badly if you are on the other end of that kind of a relationship.

Answer 9

There is no need, but people want to. Dont ever let anyone tell you you need to or have to. If you want to be a bachelor, then that is fine. It is your choice. Just be upfront with any girlfriends then. Either find someone who does not want marriage too, or find yourself having many short relationships. Who knows though, maybe you will meet a girl who will take your breath away and make you change your mind. Maybe you just have not met that special someone that you could honestly see spending the rest of your life with.

Answer 10

"I don't have a choice but to live a bachelor's life."

"Not only am I court bankrupt, I am also financial bankrupt."

"If I become a millionaire, my money won't be EARNED
INCOME. Furthermore, I can't get out of FINANCIAL
BANKRUPTCY."

"Marriage, is the LAST THING that I need in my life."

"My 'BIOLOGICAL CLOCK' has stopped. I have already had
enough of stressing out over the 'pitter-patter of little feet'."

"In my lifetime, I have already signed TWO paternity orders."

"I have experienced fatherhood, so all there is left to do is
finish my goal of college graduation, and retire in a university
community, where I can become a supportive alumni."

Answer 11

Because it's the way we were designed, to desire the company and companionship of another. God created us as couples. I believe there are some that God designed to be single yes... but for the majority, we were made with another in mind.

On a more secular note, being married gives many a feeling of completeness. There is love and commitment. That knowledge that that one person said... hey I really have no desire to leave you, ever.