in some relative's property they dont like that business..they told my dad but he wont listen to anyone not even to our family people ...it created a huge problem in my family and i'm also affected indirectly by the problem...i feel sad and disappointed ...as my dad is not listening handing over the key of that property may be the solution.....i'm depressed ....i am helpless ...please some one help
2007-10-22 05:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hon, i am sure that you are slightly affected by this, but what your dad does is NO reflection on you. He makes his own choices... you have nothing to do with them, and no control over what he does, either.
Being depressed over something another person does to HIMSELF doesn't make sense. You are putting this problem on yourself, when you don't have to... and why are you?
It's YOUR DAD"S problem, not yours. Remember that, and take care of YOU. You're not.
2007-10-22 05:24:16 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad may be in a big trouble.
You did not say the nature of the "Business".
1. He must abide by zoning law if any, he can end up in jail.
2. Permits may be needed.
There are so many things need covering, so that he cannot get in to trouble with the law.
Have him see a good lawyer, and see what the lawyer says. Your father may be right or wrong. Work out a compromise with the relatives, with lawyer's help, if your father is right.
2007-10-22 05:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is making some choices that you may not agree with, but that is not necessarily your problem. Be supportive of your family, even when you don't agree with them and just do your part to help out in the household if he is struggling with his new business. You can't let this bother you to the point of being depressed, do something you enjoy to try and keep yourself busy and like I said just help out where you can.
2007-10-22 05:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by littlekitty1985 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with norm. Try not to think about the problem. You worrying is not going to make a difference. Find a good set of friends but stay away from alcohol and drugs and people who use these.
2007-10-22 05:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by observer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u bother let ur father, and relatives solve the problems. Don't interfere in elders matters.Enjoy your life Hang out wid ur friends
2007-10-22 05:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by priya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well communicate to yr dad yr viewpoints
and then leave it at that..............
he wont listen so u dont be upset.........
uve done yr job and then just sit back relax and watch the events unfold
things will sort out
give it 15-20 weeks
not necessary it will be pleasant but then dont worrry coz u did yr bit then ????????
2007-10-22 06:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry ,your dad may have good reason for that which u can't see because u dont have much experience.
2007-10-22 05:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Tehseen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking about ur father he may have a long range plan which he dosent want to say. if i were in ur place i would turn my mind into other avagations and forget about thig problem
2007-10-22 06:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, what you are asking isn't clear. Tell us what the business is and how it is affecting others.
Norm
2007-10-22 05:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda personal
2007-10-22 05:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋