2007-10-22 05:43:32 · 36 answers · asked by i wished i lived in nanaimo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U DON'T! unless u have a problem LETTING GO!
2007-10-22 05:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are merely trying to replace him without actually getting over him. The human heart requires time to heal and by taking up with a new boyfriend to forget another will not allow the healing process to be completed. This is what is called a rebound relationship. You will be more emotionally healthy to just step back for a little while and allow yourself to get over the old boyfriend before wasting your time with a new one when you cannot give him 100%
2007-10-22 05:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by julvrug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHO told you that??? You do not NEED to replace something to "get over" what is no longer there!!!
Take some TIME to reflect on what went wrong - make sure that does not happen again - change some things about yourself that may have been part of the problem. Make SURE you know what attracted you and WHY it did not work.
What you need, is TIME.
2007-10-22 05:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a little vague.
Are other people saying you need to get a new boyfriend, or is that how you feel ?
Were you in love with your ex ? did the relationship end badly ?
2007-10-22 05:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by canyon2988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. But a lot of women can't handle being single and dealing with the emotional pain. Rebound relationships rarely work, I'd take time bewteen relationships to really cope with the change and get to know yourself again. Then go date :D
2007-10-22 05:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Fo Sho! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know who told you that but,I believe that is not so.Depending on how old you are,What you need to do is discover who you are and what you want from a partner.And whatever you do.Don't settle for nothing less than what you want.I would rather be by myself then to be with someone that is just ok for me.If you settle for what you have then you deserve what you get.
2007-10-22 05:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by unjust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone does. For me, when my bf broke up with me the last time, I found interest in my best friend's brother and this person happened to make my feelings for my ex do a complete 180. I didnt care about breaking up with my ex, i was focused on finding someone better. BUT things did not work out, and I am back with my bf whom I love =) so hopefully it will work out for you too.
2007-10-22 05:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't get over him that way,.
get your act together and when there are no raw emotions then you will be ready to go out again, not until you deal with the emotion.
it is not fair to drag a new guy down into your old stuff.....
2007-10-22 05:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need a new boyfriend to work through your old one all you have to do is work through it and get over him
2007-10-22 05:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by ~*!Tish!*~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't become comfortable enough with yourself to be alone.
Take time to be single and get to know yourself. Once you know yourself completely and are confident with who you are, it will translate into a much better relationship with the next guy.
2007-10-22 05:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont necessarily need a new boyfirnd to get over your old one.
its just ur desire to get a new boyfriend coz u cant live without one.
2007-10-22 05:46:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋